Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Susan Wright added to 100 Divas list

November 25th, 2009 · 1 Comment

Boymeat, Kelly, Susan and Kathryn at Folsom Street Fair 2009 I was honored to spank Susan Wright at Kinky Kollege.  She is one of the most spankable people on the planet!  Thank you to Kelly for allowing us to do this. In addition to being the founder and spokesperson for NCSF, Susan is a published […]

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Tags: friends · Spanking

She brought her own toys

November 24th, 2009 · 5 Comments

I had a hot play date on Friday night. When we spoke beforehand to make plans, I had asked her what she liked to do. “Spanking, caning, paddles, floggers.”  She then added, “I have my own toys.” I love that!  Yes, I love those activities, but I really love a playmate who brings her own […]

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Tags: BDSM

Happy Birthday, Kerry!

November 22nd, 2009 · No Comments

I had a weekend filled with friends and lots of good food.  Here’s a shot of Kerry upon entering his surprise birthday party!

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Tags: friends

The New York Times

November 20th, 2009 · 3 Comments

I’m in the New York Times! Wow!  Thank you to Miki Meek, the journalist, and Todd Heisler, the photographer. I really love this “One in 8 Million” piece.  The whole series is fabulous and I am so happy to be a part of it. You can click through at the end to post a comment, […]

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Tags: Press and Media

Top 10 Tips I Learned at Wordcamp NYC

November 19th, 2009 · 4 Comments

1. It was a very good idea to attend.  A lot of it was over my head, but I learned a ton of stuff anyway. 2. When shooting video, adjust your white balance manually. 3. When looking for plug-ins, look at release date, not just usage and ranking.  Some plug-ins aren’t up-to-date with the later […]

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Tags: Really Miscellaneous

NYC Weekly Leather Dates: November 19-25

November 19th, 2009 · No Comments

Thursday, November 19 TES Queer SIG: “PIY: Porn It Yourself” w/ Sinclair Sexsmith, Blaise & Nayland Staten Island Kink munch Alphabet Soup Friday, November 20 Le Cercle des Dommes meeting DSF: “Righting The Ship” w/ Lolita, Boymeat, Bo, Efrain Gonzalez, Michael, Lady Elaina & Morpheus Saturday, November 21 Brooklyn Leather munch TES Spanking Group: Rachael […]

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e[lust] #1

November 18th, 2009 · No Comments

Welcome to the first edition of e[lust]! Below is your source for inspirations of lust and sexual intelligence from a wide range of sex bloggers. Want to be included in the next edition? Submission period opens for e[lust] # 2 on November 20th – subscribe to the RSS feed and Twitter for all updates! Check […]

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Amanda Fucking Palmer!

November 17th, 2009 · No Comments

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Tags: Art & Culture

Can’t do it all

November 13th, 2009 · No Comments

Think with your dipstick. Ouch! Ha ha!  Actually, the behind the scenes version may be even funnier! I was interviewed about CBT by Dan and Dawn on the Erotic Awakening podcast.  Listen to it! LeatherYenta.com is number 73 on the Between My Sheets Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2009! Thanks to all who nominated me […]

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Tags: Links and Stuff

NYC Weekly Leather Dates: November 12-18

November 12th, 2009 · No Comments

Thursday, November 12 LSM: “The Artist’s Way to Designing Scenes” w/ Nayland NYC TNG Suspension party DO NYC Munch Queens BDSM Munch Friday, November 13 ClubFEM NYC Munch DSF: “Gender and BDSM the Final Frontier” presented by Leather D Saturday, November 14 Leather Stimulus Package NYC TNG Pre-{xcess Munch {xcess Sunday, November 15 nosebleed upstate […]

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