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Entries from April 2009

Only around the edges, dear

April 19th, 2009 · 1 Comment

Don Quixote said to me the other night that this would be our third Leather Retreat together. I didn’t say much in return, but it did get me thinking. This thing with DQ has turned into a real relationship or something. I have two things to say about that: Yikes! I’m really having a lot […]

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Tags: Relationships

THE NYboL Boy Auction

April 19th, 2009 · No Comments

On Saturday night, the NY Boys of Leather hosted their annual boy auction at The Stonewall Inn..  Over $1600 was raised to benefit Safer + Saner and Callen-Lourde.  It was also a lot of fun. Kwame was the auctioneer. Kevin offered his services as a latex polisher and closet organizer. Scott offered to bake a cake […]

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Tags: Event Reviews

I’m keeping my fingers crossed

April 19th, 2009 · No Comments

Son Chris was in town for a job interview.  OMG, how cool would it be if he moved here???

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Tags: friends

Fresh

April 18th, 2009 · No Comments

NCSF has a blog now. And they have begun tweeting! Follow along. For my friends who are having allergy problems: try masturbating! You might be a pervert. Mr. S is closing their Los Angeles store and all inventory at that store is now 25% off. They have great stuff! Vice Magazine has an article about […]

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Tags: Uncategorized

I’ll be at NYboL tonight!

April 18th, 2009 · No Comments

I’m an Associate Member of the New York boys of Leather and  I’ll be helping out at the NYboL Boy Auction tonight.  Stop by for a drink and say hi.  There’s no door charge.

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Tags: BDSM · NYC

Saved!

April 18th, 2009 · No Comments

Did I fall of the face of the earth?  Almost.  My host crashed and only restored my blog to July 2008.  Fortunately, Viviane, my Blog Mommy, was able to restore it to March 2009.  I then had to restore over 40 posts manually.  The P+P is now fully restored and I’ll be posting again. If […]

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Tags: Uncategorized

Ball Weight and Suspension

April 7th, 2009 · No Comments

Last Sunday, Don Quixote hosted a gathering at his place.  Underneath his clothes, he wore the new Stainless Steel Ball Weight for me.  On the way there, I told DQ’s best friend that he would be wearing the Ball Weight. When we arrived, DQ slipped me the key, which officially ceded control to me.  As […]

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Tags: BDSM · Scene Report

Clean

April 6th, 2009 · No Comments

Lesbian Butch Dyke. Ole! Carmen Mofonogo: How To Spank The Forward has an article about the Kinky Jews Seder. Taking photos is fun? Check out the latest from my internet crush.

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Tags: Links and Stuff

Keynote address to Leather Leadership Conference 2009

April 5th, 2009 · No Comments

by Gloria Brame Tonight, I want to talk to you about the past, the present and the future. I’ll start in the 1980s, because that’s when I started going to SM clubs and events. To people of my generation, leathersex and sadomasochism were forbidden, hidden, radical activities. The guilt and shame about it were crushing. […]

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Tags: Activism & Politics

I am going to Sex 2.0!

April 3rd, 2009 · No Comments

Sex 2.0 is an “unconference” that will take place May 9th at a hotel in Silver Spring, MD near Washington, DC. The event will focus on the intersection of social media, feminism, and sexuality. How is social media enabling people to learn, grow, and connect sexually? How is sexual expression tied to social activism? Does […]

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Tags: Reviews & Recommendations