Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

For the past few weeks, I’ve been working on my presentation for Thunder. It’s “The Greedy Pig Battles The Green-Eyed Monster” which is about jealousy in poly relationships. I had a lot of really good stuff, but holy shit! I have dug up some stuff while researching and now I am putting some stuff together […]

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On Sunday I was invited by friends to meet up for a street fair downtown. I went expecting the same old stuff: the same Italian sausages, crepes, mozzarepas (which I do love), cheap socks, underwear, bedding, baskets, South American sweaters, etc, blah, blah, blah. What I found on Broome between Orchard and Allen was more […]

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“Though the word beautification makes the concept sound merely cosmetic, it involves much more: clean water, clean air, clean roadsides, safe waste disposal and preservation of valued old landmarks as well as great parks and wilderness areas. To me…beautification means our total concern for the physical and human quality we pass on to our children […]

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I had read a bunch of good reviews about Smartballs on the web. So wanting to see what they were all about, I bought this toy from Purple Passion. I am not usually a big aficionado for vaginal penetration when I jerk off. Usually if I am going to stick anything inside of me, it’s […]

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I know about foot fetishes. I’ve even been to classes about them, classes taught by foot fetishists. I even know foot fetishists. Gee, Boymeat’s a foot guy. According to him, I do not have good feet. What does that mean? I don’t have good feet? He has never really gone into specifics why my feet […]

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Thursday, July 12TES Board of Directors Meeting – Members OnlyQueens BDSM munch Friday, July 13DSF: “Ecstatic Caning” w/ Suzanne SxySadist Saturday, July 14SCONY: “Elegant Denim Spanking Party” The Play Party Named Desire Sunday, July 15 Monday, July 16 Tuesday, July 17TES: “Piss Play” with Boymeat Wednesday, July 18TES Dominant Women/submissive men SIG: “Boot Worship & […]

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This is me way back when. And you know what? This is still so me!

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Photo by Viviane There were nine of us who went to see the Richard Serra exhibit at MOMA. I don’t usually like to go to museums in a big group but Serra’s big pieces lend themselves to a large group where we could wander in and around them and play peek-a-boo with each other. Afterwards, […]

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We wanted to see Fortryll in the show and we were running a little late. But we had needed some quiet time after dinner. There’s always so much going on at Leather Retreat that you have to pace yourself or else you will melt down. He wanted to dress up. We had each both brought […]

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You can be very careful about picking your poly partners, but there’s nothing you can do about the poly partners that they pick. Sometimes you totally luck out with people like Viviane, Madeline or Atreyu. Other times, it is just a little bit of a challenge. So, here’s another exercise in poly. All three of […]

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