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Entries from January 2007

SSC vs RACK

January 13th, 2007 · No Comments

Gee, I hate this squabble and will not waste my breath or my typing to discuss it. It’s just ridiculous already. If you aren’t familiar with this tired old debate, just look here or type it into Google for a variety of links. A while back, a titleholder sat down with me. We went through […]

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Threesome with the Squirrel

January 11th, 2007 · No Comments

So, Squirrel shows up early. We sat and talked about all sorts of stuff. It was comfortable. But I really wanted to take Squirrel’s cock out and get my mouth around it right away. I don’t know if there is any etiquette out there for threesomes, but I figured it would be rude to start […]

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Tags: Relationships · Sex

Negotiation for a Threesome

January 11th, 2007 · No Comments

I sent Don Quixote an email, “Are you interested in a threesome with him?” I included a link. It was someone he knew and he noted that he had never heard the Squirrel talk about girls. “DQ, gay men who have sex with girls never talk about it, because all the other guys would say […]

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Summer Nights

January 10th, 2007 · No Comments

You know how you go away on a vacation and meet someone and you hit it off and share special times with them? And then when you try to reconnect in the city, the magic is gone? That’s what I thought it would be like with me and Jefferson. Just a summer fling. When I […]

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Tags: Event Reviews · Relationships · Scene Report

Stupid Presidential Shit

January 9th, 2007 · 1 Comment

When Black Rose in DC booked my Mummification class for January 23, they anticipated that the State of the Union would be Jan 30, but it’s now been announced for Jan. 23. BR meets at the Hyatt on Capitol Hill and no one wants to go near there on days like that.So, we are now […]

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NYE

January 9th, 2007 · No Comments

Readers have been asking about New Years Eve and how it went. I had written about the angst and I had written about the donut. They want to know how it all went with DQ. It was great. For everybody. From the moment DQ walked in the door. The guy is a regular chick magnet […]

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Tags: Relationships

Find Lolita – January 2007 and beyond

January 8th, 2007 · No Comments

January 10 – NYC TES Novice SIG: teaching “How To Be A Greedy Pig – the 101 version” January 23 – Washington, DC Black Rose: teaching “King Tut’s Kink – Mummification!” January 27 – NYC Master And slaves Together (MAsT) Bar Night at 9th Ave Saloon. I’ll be selling raffle tickets. January 30 – Farmingdale, […]

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Entenmann’s

January 8th, 2007 · 2 Comments

Three weeks before New Year’s I got a craving for Entenmann’s Chocolate Frosted Donuts. Every time I went into the grocery store, there they were. I wanted one, but they come eight in a box. Any time I bought a box of eight, it was a disaster because I would eat eight donuts. I wanted […]

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Tags: Relationships · Sex

Twelfth Night

January 8th, 2007 · No Comments

I walked in the door and there was Vi. She greeted me with a hug and a kiss. Her first question was, “How’s your sex life?” That was a surprise. It’s not a question that she usually asks. “Great!” I responded, “I even had a fantastic threesome last night.” “I’ve been working on it, you […]

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New Year’s Eve Angst

January 5th, 2007 · No Comments

Almost everybody suffers through the holidays. Family strife, money woes, shopping, cooking and baking, sending out cards. It’s just too much all at the same time. And everybody commiserates about it. But for some of my friends, the misery of the Christmas season can’t hold a candle to the absolute angst of New Year’s Eve. […]

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Tags: Relationships