Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

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Entries from January 2007


January 30th, 2007 · No Comments

So, Madeline is coming to town and I have a date with her and Jefferson. I am breaking one of my own rules. I never make a play/sex date with someone I have never met. It’s because I do not want to commit myself to an intimate situation and then meet face to face and […]

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Tags: Relationships · Sex

Craig’s List

January 28th, 2007 · No Comments

From the best of Craig’s list. This is a great post. Funny. And I like the way he defines things. You know how I am into defining things so that everybody knows their places and what’s expected of them… (via Viviane)

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Tags: Relationships


January 27th, 2007 · No Comments

Jefferson was fucking me in one of my favorite ways, but then he stopped. What? Why did he stop? It had been so good. He reached for the lube and plunged his fingers inside me. It was good, but it was too much, but it was good. Good. And then I felt the gush. He […]

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Tags: Sex


January 25th, 2007 · No Comments

Uh-oh! Crisco is changing its formula to be trans-fat free. A spokeswoman for the company said even with a new formula, the shortening still performs the same in “tried and true” recipes. Not that any of us were eating the stuff.

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Tags: Sex


January 24th, 2007 · No Comments

We walked down the street. We hadn’t seen each other for a week and we had lots to talk about. And we talked a lot. Rapidly skipping from topic to topic, catching up. He unwrapped something as we walked. “Here, have some chocolate.” I bit into the dark hard chocolate. He held the rest out […]

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Tags: Relationships


January 23rd, 2007 · 1 Comment

My friend, Nayland, put out this challenge: Write an erotic story in fifty words. Here’s mine… Waiting. The conversation stalled. I want more. Waiting. The ball is in your court. Lobbed over nice and easy. Waiting. I am tempted to say something. Waiting. I am good at waiting. Waiting. I am making other plans. Maybe […]

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Tags: Relationships

No lube

January 22nd, 2007 · No Comments

Time: Saturday night Place: TES party at Paddles Kate showed up at the party wearing her Lolita outfit. A plaid flannel shirt and Wesco engineer boots. That’s what she wears when she wants to emulate me. When I see her dressed like that, it always makes me smile. Of course she did have to strip […]

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Tags: Bondage · Scene Report · Sex

The meeting

January 20th, 2007 · No Comments

Back in the days of the Paris Peace Accords, before they could even sit down to talk, the North Vietnamese and the South Vietnamese argued for weeks about the shape of the table. I remember how everybody laughed and thought this was the most ridiculous thing they ever heard of. Well, now, I finally understand. […]

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Tags: Relationships

What I am doing tonight – 1/19/07

January 19th, 2007 · No Comments

Lesbian Sex Mafia presents A Strap-On Demo with Felice Shays Date: Friday, January 19. Time: Program starts at 8:00 sharp Location: The LGBTCenter at 208 West 13th Street, New York City Cost: $5 LSM members / $10 general admission Join LSM for a workshop with sex and BDSM educator Felice Shays. Ready for your first […]

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Tags: Really Miscellaneous


January 15th, 2007 · 1 Comment

I grew up in Queens, but I was always taught that “The City” was where it’s at. “The City” being, of course, Manhattan. At an early age I was taught that Manhattan had everything, that everything was better in Manhattan. Manhattan had most of my relatives, Lincoln Center, museums, our temple and the best shopping. […]

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Tags: NYC