Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Judging IML 2013

August 10th, 2013 · No Comments

What an incredible honor it was to be chosen to be one of the judges for International Mr. Leather 2013. The other judges were amazing and I really enjoyed working with them all. We spent many fascinating hours together interviewing the 57 contestants who came from all over. The IML staff (especially, Billy Lane, Mike […]

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Tags: BDSM · Event Reviews

Behind The Scene at Cinekink

March 2nd, 2011 · No Comments

  Tonight at 7pm, Wednesday March 2, is the Cinekink season opener which features the 74 minute movie, Kink Crusaders, a profile of the IML contest weekend. It is preceded by the world premiere of the 24 minute short, Behind The Scene, which profiles me and Lady D! In a first-time flogging, Lolita Wolf and […]

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Tags: Art & Culture · BDSM · events · NYC

Talking in my sleep

December 9th, 2008 · No Comments

People For the American Way has a petition to dump DOMA. Sign it here. My friend, Sarah Sloane, is running for IMsL. Her first fundraiser will be held January 24 at The Crucible. There’s been a bit of a shake-up at IML. Bill Stadt has resigned and R.J. Chaffin is taking his place. I’ve met […]

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Tags: Links and Stuff

My IML 2008 Trip – Part 14 – Final

August 13th, 2008 · 1 Comment

After the contest I took a boy up to my room and poked him with needles. It got him all high and goofy. He had a pair of hinged handcuffs with him but forgot the key at home. Of course I had a key so I locked him in those and took him downstairs through […]

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Tags: Event Reviews · Scene Report · Spanking

My IML 2008 Trip – Part 13

August 1st, 2008 · No Comments

International Mr. Leather 2008: Gary Iriza, Mr. Palm Springs Leather 2008 1st Runner-up: Bob Firth-Tessier, M. Cuir Montreal 2008 2nd Runner-up: Scott Melton, Mr. Ramrod 2007 International Mr. Bootblack 2008: Bootdog, of the Alameda County Leather Corps The contest is the centerpiece of IML weekend, but I’d rather tell you a story from afterwards. Thor […]

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Tags: Event Reviews

Reachin’ out to capture a moment

July 17th, 2008 · 2 Comments

I’ve added a new sex blog to my links. Little Submissions is a very original collection of fem dom stories by Jerry Jones. Rona writes about how the federal government wants to change policy on Conscience Clauses and how dangerous that can be for women. Rachel Kramer Bussel did a sexy little video trailer for […]

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Tags: Links and Stuff

My IML 2008 Trip – Part 12

June 19th, 2008 · No Comments

People get the most dressed up for the IML contest. Spikey Dave rarely needs an excuse to get dressed up. He is typically a flashy dude. Here is is outside before the contest wearing his snazzy custom leathers from The Leather Man. New York, represent! Peter Schwartz, Mr Eagle NYC 2008, with his partner, Rick […]

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Tags: Event Reviews

My IML 2008 Trip – Part 11

June 13th, 2008 · No Comments

Hookups happen and new friendships are formed at IML. But in so many ways, it is a big reunion where people from different parts of the world get to see each other again. TX/NY – Paul and Mike Mike was collared to Paul for the weekend. Look at how happy they look. They were smiling […]

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Tags: Event Reviews · Relationships

My IML 2008 Trip – Part 10

June 8th, 2008 · No Comments

On Saturday night, the Women’s Meet & Greet overlapped with “Pecs and Personality” so I got there late and sat in the back. The 51 contestants were scantily clad and were each given a fun question to answer. I snuck up at one point to take this snapshot. Hail, hail, the gang’s all here! AJ, […]

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My IML 2008 Trip – Part 9

June 6th, 2008 · No Comments

There were lots of gatherings on Saturday. We started off with the LJ meet-up hosted by mudcub. He brought his laptop so I posted a little shout out to LJ. In the afternoon we made an appearance at the Leather Archives & Museum reception. This is Rick Storer, Director of LA&M, with Jay Harcourt from […]

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Tags: Event Reviews