Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections header image 4

The Ultimate Guide to Kink

October 18th, 2011 · 1 Comment

The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge I have a chapter in this book! It’s Chapter Two and it covers Spanking, Caning and Flogging! The list of contributing authors to this book reads like a Who’s Who of BDSM: Patrick Califia, Midori, Laura Antoniou, Barbara Carrellas, Lee Harrington, Jack Rinella, [...]

[Read more →]

Tags: BDSM · Books

Fast Girls

August 14th, 2010 · 1 Comment

Rachel Kramer Bussel has a sexy new anthology called Fast Girls.  Rachel says: I named this book after a song called “Fast Girls” by an indie pop/rock band called Sarge*. That song is a feisty, punk-rock ode to a hot girl who is captivating in all kinds of ways. I’m sure you know a girl [...]

[Read more →]

Tags: Books · Reviews & Recommendations

Please, Sir: Erotic Stories of Female Submission

May 28th, 2010 · 2 Comments

Please, Sir: Erotic Stories of Female Submission is the latest anthology edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel. RKB has become an expert at soliciting and choosing hot short stories. These all have a theme of female submission. As part of the virtual book tour, here is my favorite excerpt that I chose from the book. From [...]

[Read more →]

Tags: Art & Culture · Books · Reviews & Recommendations

The Lust Chronicles

January 21st, 2010 · Comments Off

The Lust Chronicles Anthology is edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel and features one of my stories. Now, in addition to being available as an audio book and an ebook, you can get it as a regular paperback book. “Rachel Kramer Bussel has created her own type of erotica. An earthy, true-to-life style that draws her [...]

[Read more →]

Tags: Books · Reviews & Recommendations

Ask the Man Who Owns Him

January 9th, 2010 · 1 Comment

Ask the Man Who Owns Him: The real lives of gay Masters and slaves by david stein and David Schachter I recommended this book to Rusty and she wrote this report: Master Jeff and slave sparky, San Francisco; 15 years together Master Jeff picked “Master/servant” to express the dynamic of their relationship because the servant [...]

[Read more →]

Tags: Books · Reviews & Recommendations

Bear’s new book

October 29th, 2009 · Comments Off

Kathryn and I went for bagels today with Bear Bergman.  I got a copy of the new book, The Nearest Exit May Be Behind You.  I’m about 40 pages into it and I love it. Bear will be reading this Sundayin Brooklyn, but I’ll miss it because I’ll be at Black Rose.  Catch Bear on [...]

[Read more →]

Tags: Art & Culture · Books

Carol Queen in NYC

June 9th, 2009 · Comments Off

A very fabulous evening at Happy Ending Lounge last night.  Hosted by Carol Queen as a fundraiser for San Francisco’s Center for Sex & Culture, the evening featured a great line-up of readers. Carol Queen reading from my favorite story of hers, Leather Daddy and the Femme. Rachel Kramer Bussel Elizabeth Wood reading from Patrick [...]

[Read more →]

Tags: Art & Culture

What is your favorite BDSM fiction book?

May 16th, 2009 · Comments Off

Clarisse Thorn is curating a pansexual BDSM books exhibit at the Leather Archives & Museum and has created an online poll. Vote for your favorite BDSM fiction title; she will base the exhibit on your submissions. The book must be FICTION and it must contain EXPLICIT BDSM.  Vote here.

[Read more →]

Tags: Art & Culture

david stein’s Boots, Bondage and Beatings

May 4th, 2009 · Comments Off

Finally, it’s here!  David stein’s short story book, Boots, Bondage, and Beatings, is out and available on Amazon.  I love david’s writing.  I got my hands on an advance copy.  Like his novel, Carried Away: An S/M Romance (my review here), the stories are plausible, well-written and hot masturbatory fodder.  And I love the cover [...]

[Read more →]

Tags: Books · Reviews & Recommendations

Lolita’s Holiday Gift Giving Guide

December 11th, 2008 · Comments Off

This is my incomplete and totally biased BDSM/Sex Toy Gift Giving Guide for the Holidays. There’s everything from Stocking Stuffers on up! Chrome Mini Clothespin $4.50 each This is a real top of the line clamp. For nipples, nether regions or anywhere. Shiny and heavy. Mini Bullet One Touch Vibrator $8.00 Keep one handy in [...]

[Read more →]

Tags: Reviews & Recommendations