Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

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Leather Retreat 2008 – My Dolly

July 21st, 2008 · 33 Comments

Tristan Kingsley and Nika Noire on chantasbitches.com On Friday night the Sex-O-Rama hosted three parties: a maledom party, a femdom party and a queer party. I checked out the queer party. Other than a scene going on in the sling, it was mostly clusters of groups socializing on the couches. I noticed the red-haired dolly […]

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates July 17 – 23

July 17th, 2008 · No Comments

Claire Adams and Felony on hogtied.com Thursday, July 17 Staten Island Kink Munch Friday, July 18 Apple Munch DSF: “Understanding the Siren’s Call of the Fem-Domme: the allure of the dominant woman” w/ Ms. Reina Darkness Saturday, July 19 TES Nude Beach Excursion Brooklyn Leather Munch TES: TES Fest Volunteer Party TES Novice Excursion TES […]

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Sugasm #140

July 15th, 2008 · No Comments

Charlotte Vale and Damon Pierce on devicebondage.com The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #141? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. This Week’s Picks “Are you a sex blogger or […]

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Leather Retreat 2008 – The Toll Booth

July 11th, 2008 · 34 Comments

We drove down the dirt road to Leather Retreat and the guards were set up with traffic cones. We had to stop so that we could be checked off the list. I admired the traffic cones and wondered if I could somehow borrow them for a scene. Later, Don Quixote went on his trip to […]

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates July 10 – 6

July 10th, 2008 · 1 Comment

Maya Matthews and Mark Davis on thetrainingofo.com Thursday, July 10 Queens BDSM Munch Friday, July 11 DSF: “Awaken your Tantric Energy ” w/ Mark Michaels & Patricia Johnson ClubFEM NYC Munch Saturday, July 12 Sunday, July 13 MAsT: Metro NY Meeting: “Care & Feeding of the Master and slave: Mentally, Physically & Spiritually” Brooklyn LeatherFolk […]

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TES Fest 2008 was fabulous!

July 9th, 2008 · 29 Comments

I am so proud of my home group for hosting an amazing TES Fest. I loved the new location. Having everything under one roof removed a huge stress factor for me. Booking the entire hotel allowed us to play outside and in the pool (with its “watersports area” – yes, I did). The hotel staff […]

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Sugasm #139

July 8th, 2008 · No Comments

Riley Shy, Kade and Claire Adams on meninpain.com The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #140? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. This Week’s Picks Flunking A Call “I fell […]

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates July 3 – 9

July 2nd, 2008 · No Comments

Daac Ramsey, Princess Donna and Sgt. Major on thetrainingofo.com Thursday, July 3 Pack for TES Fest! Friday, July 4 DSF: no meeting – go to TES Fest! NYC Munch Saturday, July 5 TES Fest! Sunday, July 6 TES Fest! Monday, July 7 Tuesday, July8 TES: no meeting – recover from TES Fest! Wednesday, July 9 […]

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Sugasm #138

July 2nd, 2008 · No Comments

Gina Caruso on hogtied.com The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #139? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. This Week’s Picks You’re going to come for me. “I imagined her, […]

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The Piggiest Pigs at Leather Retreat

July 2nd, 2008 · 31 Comments

photo by Zelda So, I put out the challenge before heading off to camp. I posted it here and on the camp community system. We then figured out the rules to make it fair: Anyone in Oink cabin was not eligible to win. The Poacher was not eligible to win. We would create a Tote […]

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