Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

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~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

Ruby LOVES her body, so should YOU – What ever size you are, love yourself, be nice to yourself and concentrate on health instead of looks.

Performances – So, of course, I don’t have any sensation in my cock, but holy baby Jeebus, sinking into her is so fucking hot that I groan right along with her.

10 reasons why I shouldn’t have had sex, but did anyway – I’ve written extensively about happy-sex; so now here are some of the more unpleasant reasons why I’ve had sex.

~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~

Energy Orgasms – There is a moment, an incredible moment, when it feels like the universe is concentrated in my body.

e[lust] Editress: Dangerous Lilly

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Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

A response to: #Slutwalk will not show our daughters how to get respect
Accidents Happen
All the Time in the World
Dear Jane: How Do I Gain Sensitivity Back After Masturbating Too Much?
Friday Flix: 10 Things We Would Like to Say
Hole. Confession #573
Look at me (please)
Lusting After Sexually Confident Women and HNT
Oh Really?
Sex Toy Collecting
Why Can’t I Orgasm?

Kink & Fetish

5 Kinky Toys from the Restaurant Supply Store
A Piece of Meat
Being a Domme, Alone
Daddy’s Good Girl
Emotional Masochism
Fucktoy Friday: Urethra Play
Good Morning
Inexorable Love
More Adventures in Chastity
New figure nudes
Plugged

Erotic Writing

Continentally Close
Entwined
First Memory of Sex with Nicole
Far From the Madding Crowd
First kiss
green candle wax
Happy Birthday Baby Girl
Lusty Lips
My first swinging experience
Seducing my Professor
sexy bitch/sexy beast
Strapping On For the First Time
seminar slut
To seduce you
The Minotaur
Twisted Words
The Heist

Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor

Gender Celebration Blog Carnival – A Call for Submissions
Marilyn Monroe: A Sex Goddess Searches For Her Elusive Orgasm
Welcome

Sloane Soleil and Maestro on TheTrainingOfO.com

Photo by Nayland Blake

It was a week before we were going to leave for Dark Odyssey Fusion. I called Don Quixote to discuss bedding and stuff. And then I sprung it on him, “I think you should be in the chastity device.”

There was a pause. “Really? Now? Until Fusion?” He was incredulous.

“Yes!”

He began to explain how he had these dates lined up this week. And how these dates might lead to sex. And I said, “Well, this is really not a very convenient time to be locked up, is it? But chastity play is not really about convenient timing. Lock it up!”

So, he’s been locked up all week. I don’t feel like I have ruined his sex life. He could still have all his dates and he still had the use of his mouth, his ass and his hands. Sounds like a very fun time to me.

I am having so much fun being a titleholder.

Screwed up and left my camera at home so not many photos this year. Here’s a cell phone shot of my sexy Daddy. It was a hot sunny day and it seemed everybody was at the fair.

This year was different for me because I got introduced on stage with the other titleholders. That was fun.

Ever go to a BDSM class and wince when the presenter says or does certain things? I’ve seen it often.

Now you can print out a Bingo board and play along.  With the ingenious random board generator, you can print out a bunch of different cards to play Bingo with your friends.

On Thursday June 9, I’ll be teaching Fantasy Role Play as part of the Let’s Talk Sex series at Fascinations.

Not only is the class free, food and drink will be served and a free raffle will take place. First ten attendees will get a free $10 gift card to Fascinations, just for showing up!

Happy LPN Volunteer Who is Doing it Again This Year

I am coordinating the volunteers for the 28th annual Leather Pride Night in NYC!

Welcome to e[lust] – Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #27? Start with the rules and subscribe to the RSS feed and Twitter for updates and submission reminders.

~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

Bikery – The mental image of Suzy mounting this thing and pedaling herself towards a quaking orgasm flashed across my mind’s eye and I grinned into her face.

If you are monogamous can you learn to be polyamorous? – Do you think that someone who is monogamous can learn to be polyamorous for a partner, or do you think they are courting disaster?

Hot Wax – I detached myself from what she was doing to me. *breathe* She pulled again. I came from the pain, motionless, silent, and helpless to stop it. She continued.

~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~

Spring – My eyes wide, there was no time for reaction as another crowd was wandering down the path. Our eyes locked and Daniel smirked, attempting to find something innocuous to say.

~ e[lust] Editress ~

What is Sex Positive? – Just because I create & run something, doesn’t mean I’m a dictator. e[lust] is as much yours as it is mine, and I value the opinions of everyone.

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable ~after this point~. Thank you, and enjoy!

Erotic Writing

6. Gluttony
Erotica: Suit & Tie Guy VS The Construction Worker pt II
Gang·bang­»ed
hot and bothered…
In the Morning
My First Blowjob
Oh, What a Sight!
Skate / For Wank Wednesday
Soak(ed)
The tables have turned
Wanting it Bad. Wanting it Hard
What I will do with a dildo: Sing, do with a dildo

Kink & Fetish

As much sex as he can fuck into me
Afternoon Sex x 4
Fetish/Fashion
I used to be a Masochist
Now Lick My Boots Clean, Submissive
Open
Plug Me
Rope play
Staked Out
spank, fisted and strung up
The Room

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

A sex-positive female in a sex-negative society
A Period Drama
On Safer Sex and STIs; Musings on The Swingset
Question Month #4
Sense of Responsibility
Simple?
Touch My Cock
Why Did I Engage?

Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor

Hello, My Name is Danny Wylde
Internet Pornography and Women: It doesn’t have to feel bad

Felony and Drake Temple on DivineBitches.com

Q. Recently, I’ve had an issue come up at a private play party. So maybe it’s two questions.

A Top was playing with a bottom with a violet wand. The Top had electrified the bottom so that touching the bottom created an arc. The scene was interrupted when a bystander stepped forward and kissed the bottom on the forehead. The scene was stopped, the bottom complained of an immediate headache and her face was twitching. To date there do not seem to be any lasting obvious effects. Can you tell me if this could have been a potentially life threating situation?

In addition, the bystander could not be ejected from the location, because she was tanked and 70 miles from home. This was a non drinking event, but it seems she was sneaking alcohol into the house in water bottles. As hostess, I feel this was My fault because it was My birthday and I wasn’t on guard. I realized late in the evening that she was drinking but by that point it was too late. Our community is very small and I will see her again soon. I’m pissed off but trying hard to maintain some level of decorum. What action is appropriate in this situation?

At this point I’ve read her the riot act about drinking at My party and interrupting the scene. She didn’t seem to think that part was a big deal. But stated she didn’t want Me to be mad at her. I’m beyond mad and wanna thrash her. But I’m trying to be rational about the whole thing.

A. First of all I am not a violet wand expert. I think violet wands are safe to use on the head but never on the eyes. I have used the violet wand on the head and it has been used on my head with no problems. However, everybody is different. The skin is pretty thin on the forehead. Maybe the bottom had a reaction from the kiss, but I highly doubt that it was life threatening.

The main issue is the behavior of your party guest. I assume that the rules of the party were clear to all the guests. She violated the rules. That makes her a bad guest. And what compounds her bad behavior is that she thinks it was not a big deal. She shows no remorse and that means that she may possibly break the rules again.

It is not your fault that you were not watching your guests so closely. The beauty of a private party is that you can control the guest list. You should only invite people to your home whom you can trust to respect your home and your rules. Even the host ought to be able to relax and enjoy their own party.

You did the right thing by not allowing her to drive home drunk. She could have been an even bigger danger on the road.

I’m glad that you want to be rational about this. I would speak to her when she is sober and tell her that she is off the guest list for now. Don’t make it permanent. She may mend her ways and should be given a second chance at some point. Also, if she can hope for an opportunity to be invited again in the future, she is less likely to be vindictive.

However, sometimes people can be vindictive. She may make a call to the police during your next party. Prepare yourself with an NCSF bust card.