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Puffy Leather Hood

June 18th, 2008 · 30 Comments

I slipped my new Mr S Puffy Leather Hood on and laced myself into it. It’s got a locking post but I did not bother locking it on. It was tight, yet comfortable with lots of padding. My head was engulfed in the soft leather and I could smell the newness of it. I had made sure that my vibrator was at hand and began to play. I had not put anything down underneath me, because, usually, without any penetration, I do not worry about getting messy. Oh, but I as wrong. I felt the orgasm build up inside of me. I was breathing with it and getting just enough air through the grommet holes. And then I started to come. I could feel my pussy begin to gush. It would be messy. I thought for a quick instance that I could stop the gushing, but no, I wanted it, but no I didn’t want to make a mess. And then I was resigned to making a mess. I came huge and made a mess.

It’s good that my bed is big enough that I didn’t have to sleep in the wet spot. And good that the hood could muffle the large noise I made as I came. I love my new hood and look forward to exploring more ways to play with it.

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The List of Auction/Raffle Stuff at LPN

June 18th, 2008 · No Comments


David Samuel Menkes straitjacket at LPN 2005

OK, here’s a post on what’s up for Auction/Raffle at Leather Pride Night. Finally a post on something other than needing more volunteers (which we still do).

Equipment & Accessories
Acrylic Paddle with Holes
donated by Paddlewerks www.paddlewerks.com

Black Baltic Birch Paddle
donated by Paddlewerks www.paddlewerks.com

Black Steel Bondage Chair
donated by The Eulenspiegel Society www.tes.org

Bondage Belt
donated by Leatherbeaten www.leatherbeaten.com

“Boot boy” Silicone Dildo
donated by www.oxballs.com

Cane for Discipline
donated by Iron Guard BC www.ironguardbc.org

Cane Set with Bead Handles
donated by The Kink Shop www.thekinkshop.com

Deluxe Sling with Stirrups and Pillow
donated by The Leather Man, Inc. www.theleatherman.com

Deluxe Solid Stainless Double Hegar Sounds
donated by Kinky Medical www.kinkymedical.com

Four Gas Masks
donated by Fort Troff www.forttroff.com

Heavy Rubber Paddle
donated by Gay Male S/M Activists www.gmsma.org

Hickory Paddle
donated by Paddlewerks www.paddlewerks.com

Leather Harness
donated by slave george for the Nordic Goddess

Leather Paddle
donated by Kink Crafters www.kinkcrafters.com

Leather Pride Cane
donated by www.kjcanes.com/Canes.htm

Leather slave Collar
donated by MAsT NYC www.MastersAndslavesTogetherNYC@yahoogroups.com

Leather Straitjacket
donated by David Samuel Menkes Custom Leatherwear www.davidmenkesleather.com

Long Double Deer Skin Flogger
donated by Heartwood Whips of Passion www.heartwoodwhips.com

Medium Elk Flogger
donated by Toolworks Chicago www.toolworkschicago.com

Neck and Arm Restraint
donated by Gay Male S/M Activists www.gmsma.org

One Pair Grey Stitched Gauntlets
donated by www.offrampleathers.com

One Pair Padded Ankle Restraints Non-Locking
donated by Mr. S. Leather www.mr-s-leather.com

One Pair Padded Wrist Restraints Non-Locking
donated by Mr. S. Leather www.mr-s-leather.com

One Pair Wide Ankle Cuffs
donated by www.stockroom.com

One Pair Wide Wrist Cuffs
donated by www.stockroom.com

One Pair Wooden Bongers
donated by www.leatheryenta.com

Red Leather Flapper
donated by Gay Male S/M Activists www.gmsma.org

Rubber Leash
donated by My Lady’s Toys myladystoys@yahoo.com

Shoe Sole Paddle
donated by Gay Male S/M Activists www.gmsma.org

Sleepsack
donated by Leather Creations www.leathercreations.com

Small Devil’s Tongue Strap
donated by slave george for the Nordic Goddess

Small Strap
donated by slave george for the Nordic Goddess

Spandex Hood
donated by Gay Male S/M Activists www.gmsma.org

Steel Rod
donated by Locked In Steel www.lockedinsteel.com

Suede Flogger
donated by My Lady’s Toys myladystoys@yahoo.com

Sun Jute Flogger
donated by Kink Crafters www.kinkcrafters.com

Two Aneros Male G-Spot Stimulators
donated by www.Malegspot.com

Two Camouflage Arm Bands
donated by Bonding Co. www.leatherbonding.com

Two Chromed Metal Arm Bands
donated by NorthBound Leather www.northbound.com

Two Studded Arm Bands
donated by Bonding Co. www.leatherbonding.com

“Watermelon Kit B” ¼ Inch Solid Braid Nylon Rope
donated by Venus Ropes www.venusropes.com

Wide Collar
donated by www.stockroom.com

Wood Slapper
donated by The Kink Shop www.thekinkshop.com

Clothing

All American Rider Motorcycle Jacket ( Size 42)
donated by Leather Archives and Museum www.leatherarchives.org

Assortment of Women’s Shoes and Boots – Red and Black
donated by La Rubia

Avenue By Design Leather Vest
donated by Anonymous

Bar Vest with Yellow Stripe (Size 42)
donated by www.leatherwerks

Bear Pride T-Shirt (Size Small)
donated by Needle Play Design www.needleplaydesign.com

Black and Purple Leather Motorcross Suit (Size 34” Waist)
donated by Purple Passion/DV8 www.purplepassion.com

Boot Print T-Shirt (Size XL)
donated by Needle Play Design www.needleplaydesign.com

Catherine Coatney PVC Long Sleeve Zippered Shirt (Size Medium)
donated by My Lady’s Toys myladystoys@yahoo.com

Catherine Coatney PVC Pants (Size Medium)
donated by My Lady’s Toys myladystoys@yahoo.com

Denim and Leather Vest (Size Medium)
donated by www.boymeat.org

Four Leather Jockstraps (Sizes Large + Small)
donated by Macleo Leather www.macleo.com

Four “Lure” Colored Hankies
donated by Lure International

Latex Men’s Suspender Briefs
donated by The Baroness Elegant, Provocative, Latex Fashions for Men and Women www.Baroness.com

Latex Vest (Size Large)
donated by www.boymeat.org

Leather Archives & Museum T-Shirt (Size 3XL)
donated by Leather Archives & Museum www.leatherarchives.org

Leather Gladiator Kilt (Size XL)
donated by Passional www.passional.net

Leather Lace Up Shorts (Size Men’s 4XL)
donated by www.jocksbyrj.com

Leather Pride Cap
donated by Needle Play Design www.needleplaydesign.com

Leather Pride Do Rag
donated by Needle Play Design www.needleplaydesign.com

Leather Pride T-Shirt (Size Small)
donated by Needle Play Design www.needleplaydesign.com

“Lure” T-Shirt (Size Large)
donated by Lure International

Men’s Lambskin Shorts
donated by Rubio Leather www.rubioleather.com

Officer’s Pants
donated by Inseam Clothing www.inseamclothing.com

One Pair Extra Long Black Latex Stirrup Pants (Size 14)
donated by Anonymous

One Pair Red Latex Stockings
donated by Anonymous

Powertrip Silver Flame OCC Ride Jacket ( Size Large)
donated by Leather Archives and Museum www.leatherarchives.org

Plunging Back Long Sleeve Latex Dress (Size Medium)
donated by Anonymous

Red Leather Pride T-Shirt (Size 3XL)
donated by Needle Play Design www.needleplaydesign.com

Rubber Grope Overalls
donated by Nasty Pig www.nastypig.com

Rubber Wrestling Singlet (Size Men’s Medium)
donated by Rubber Invasion

Short Sleeve Mini Dress with Back Zipper (Size 12 Large)
donated by Anonymous

Sleeveless Leather Uniform Shirt (Size Medium)
donated by CJ’s Leather www.cjsleather.com

Taupe Leather Jacket (Size 36)
donated by Jiff E. Lube

Tightie Whitie Leather Jockstrap (Size Medium)
donated by www.stockroom.com

Two Skull Buckle Belts
donated by Bonding Co. www.leatherbonding.com

Uniform Super Shirt with Zipper Front (Size 16” x 32”)
donated by StationHouse Leathers and Gear www.stationhouse.com

Utilikilts $200.00 Gift Certificate
donated by www.utilikilts.com

Art

“Bruno, Al, Richard and Bill”, Matted Digital Print by Angel Colon
donated by The Artist

“Corn” Limited Edition Artwork by Ira C. Smith
donated by The Artist

Drubskin boy Auction Poster
donated by New York boys of Leather www.nybol.org

Framed Kris Studio Physique Photo by Chuck Renslow
donated by Leather Archives & Museum www.leatherarchives.org

“I Will Not Fear” Digital C Print by Michele Serchuk
donated by The Artist www.photodiva.com

Framed Photographic Artwork by Joe Oppedisano
donated by The Artist www.joeoppedisano,com

Four Framed Erotic Prints by Minoru
donated by The Artist www.artbyminoru.com

Four Matted Photographic Prints from Art by Axel
donated by The Artist www.artbyaxel.com

Leather Pride Night 2008 Poster Signed by All Sponsoring Organization’s Reps
donated by The LPN Committee www.leatherpridenight.org

“Oz” Paper Maché Sculpture by Cain Berlinger
donated by Imperial Court of NY www.icny.org

“Prized Possesion”, Black + White Print from Bearotic Art by Neil Bruce
donated by The Artist www.BearoticArt.com

Two Framed Japanese Prints
donated by NYBCBOY from the New York Bondage Club

“Wes” Framed Cut Paper Artwork by Brian H. Crede
donated by The Artist GraphicWorks NYC 212-989-7563

Books, Videos, Jewelry

52 Assorted Gay Male Porn DVDs
donated by Factory Video Productions www.factoryvideos.com

Assorted DVDs
donated by Extreme Restraints www.extremerestraints.com

Assorted Silver Necklaces
donated by Bonding Co. www.leatherbonding.com

“Black Gloves White Magic” Signed Copy by Tim Brough
donated by The Author www.timbrough.com

“Body & Blood” by Michael Schiefelbein
donated by Come Again 212-308-9394

“Bullwhip Book” by Andrew Conway
donated by Come Again 212-308-9394

“CBT in a Nutshell” Book + DVD by Lolita Wolf
donated by The Author www.leatheryenta.com

Collection Of 17 Issues of “Handjobs” Gay Porn Magazine
donated in Memory of “Boy David, The Prince of Kink”

Collection of “Seven Von Sin” DVDs
donated by www.Mastersofpain.com

DVD Assortment
donated by Grey Rose Productions www.greyroseproductions.com

DVD Collection
donated by Mack Studio www.mackstudio.com

“Erotic Bondage Handbook” by Jay Wiseman
donated by Come Again 212-308-9394

“First Hand” Signed Copy by Tim Brough
donated by The Author www.timbrough.com

Jeweled Cuff
donated by David Mandel for The Show Must Go On! 212-956-0664

“IML 25 Years of Champions” Soft Cover
donated by www.leatheryenta.com

“IML 25 Years of Champions” Limited Edition Hard Cover
donated by Leather Archives & Museum www.leatherarchives.org

Necklace with Jeweled Lion Pendent Pendant
donated by The Incredible Lawrence Vrba

One Pair Cuffs
donated by Robert Sorrell Originals 212-684-4562

One Set of Matching Amber Crystal Necklace and Earrings
donated by www.twoangeldesigns.com

Persian Leather Pride Collar with Dichroic Glass Heart
donated by Artesian Reign Designs www.artesianreign.com

Porn DVD Assortment
donated by www.Mastersofpain.com

Porn DVD Collection
donated by StationHouse Leathers and Gear www.stationhouse.com

“Real Life Nude Girl” by Carol Queen
donated by Woodhull Freedom Foundation www.woodhullfoundation.org

Signed Copy of “Black Men In Leather” by Cain Berlinger
donated by The Author www.mrcain.com

Signed Copy of “Epic” by Cain Berlinger
donated by The Author www.mrcain.com

Signed Copy of “Incredible Tales of An Erotic Eccentric” by Cain Berlinger
donated by The Author www.mrcain.com

Signed Copy of “Love, Hannibal” by Cain Berlinger
donated by The Author www.mrcain.com

Signed Copy of “Three” by Cain Berlinger
donated by The Author www.mrcain.com

Signed Copy of “Leather Daddy & the Femme” by Carol Queen
donated by Woodhull Freedom Foundation www.woodhullfoundation.org

Signed Copy of “THE PUGILIST: Erotic Boxing Adventures” by “Doc” Hoskins Jr.
donated by The Author www.The-Pugilist.com“Skin Tight” Signed Copy by Tim Brough
donated by The Author www.timbrough.com

Special Edition Leather Pride Collar
donated by Artesian Reign Designs www.artesianreign.com

“Topping Book” by Dossie Easton + Janet W. Hardy
donated by Come Again 212-308-9394

Admissions, Tickets, Events

One Basic Package to International Ms. Leather 2009
donated by IMsL, LLC www.imsl.org

One Couple’s Invitation to a Theme Party
donated by La Domaine Esemar SMesemar@aol.com

One Event Package to The Floating World 2008
donated by www.thefloatingworld.org

One Full Weekend Package to International Mr. Leather 2009
donated by www.imrl.com

One Pair of CineKink NYC All Access Passes (February 25 – March 1, 2009)
donated by www.cinekink.com

One Registration Package to the Master / slave Conference 2008
donated by www.MasterslaveConference.org

One Weekend Package to Dark Odyssey: Summer Camp 2008
donated by Tristan Taormino & Greg Leshner

One Weekend Package to Mid-Atlantic Leather Weekend 2009
donated by The Centaur MC of Washington DC

One Year Membership and LSM T-Shirt
donated by Lesbian Sex Mafia www.LesbianSexMafia.org

One Year NYBC Membership + Three Months Free Entry to Sunday Play Party
donated by NY Bondage Club www.nybondageclub.com

Two 1 Year MAsT Metro NY Memberships
donated by MAsT Metro NY www.mast.net

Two Admissions to TES Fest 08
donated by The Eulenspiegel Society www.tes.org

Two Event Passes to Great Lakes Leather Alliance 2008
donated by www.greatlakesleather.org

Two Full Admissions to Black Rose 2008
donated by Black Rose™ www.br.org

Two Tickets to MetroBears NY Hudson River Boat Cruise
donated by MetroBears NY www.metrobears.org

Two V.I.P. Passes to New York Leather Weekend
donated by Leather Invasion www.newyorkleatherweekend.com

Two Year DSF Couple’s Membership
donated by DomSubFriends Society www.DomSubFriends.com

Two Year TES Couple’s Membership
donated by The Eulenspiegel Society www.tes.org

Two Year TES Single Membership
donated by The Eulenspiegel Society www.tes.org

Two Event and Hotel Packages to the Winter 2009 Fetish Fair Fleamarket ™
donated by New England Leather Alliance www.nelaonline.org

Two Tickets to The Saint At Large Afterparty – Dance of Champions at Pacha New York
donated by The Saint At Large www.saintatlarge.com

Two Tickets to “Fairgrounds” at Six Flags Great Adventure
donated by Heritage of Pride, Inc www.hopinc.org

Two Tickets to Rapture On The River
donated by Heritage of Pride, Inc www.hopinc.org

Two VIP Tickets to HOP Dance On The Pier
donated by Heritage of Pride, Inc www.hopinc.org

More

25.00 Le Chateau Exotique Gift Certificate
donated by www.fetishwear.com

50.00 Leather by Danny Gift Certificate
donated by www.leatherbydanny.com

100.00 Gift Certificate from the Leather Man, Inc. NYC
donated by Mike Cotter

Assorted Items from Chicago Hellfire Club
donated by hellfire13.org

Certificate for Men’s Leather Shorts in Winner’s Size
donated by www.jocksbyrj.com

Freddy Kruger Mask
donated by slave george for the Nordic Goddess

Full Bodied Female Mannequin
donated by Imperial Court of NY www.icny.org

Leather Bear Mask
donated by Semmerling and Schaefer Mask Studios www.maskartists.com

Liquid Latex Basket
donated by SceneWear® Originals by S.A.M.Co., LadyElaina@scenewear.com

Saturday Brunch for Four with Unlimited Mimosas
donated by Philip Marie Restaurant www.philipmarie.com

Grand Raffle Prize
One Winner will receive the following:

“Bunch o’ Bondage Goodies
donated by Rainbow Rope www.rainbowrope.com

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Sugasm #136

June 18th, 2008 · No Comments


Aiden Starr and Lobo on meninpain.com

Aiden Starr and Lobo on meninpain.com

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #137? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form.

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“Frozen, I wait for your next move.”

Balanced on the tip of my tongue
“Pushing her into the bedroom, I stripped her bare swiftly, laid her out on the bed.”

Impertinent Question: Do You Enjoy Spanking?
“That’s what we call Wednesday night!”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
The Source of All Waters

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Grooving at Florent

June 18th, 2008 · No Comments

We are sad that Florent is closing on Gay Pride. So, Nayland, Thor, Scott, Ollie, Boymeat and I went for one last meal. It was a wild time.

Here’s my first video!

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Amazing!

June 16th, 2008 · No Comments


Boymeat and me at LPN 2006

Over 600 people attend Leather Pride Night. About 200 people volunteer a little time and help make it happen. That’s one in three. How amazing is that???

It’s this Saturday night. All the cool people are doing it. You should do it, too. Really! Here’s what’s still open:

Unload Storage with Sigrid, Tip et al, Noon-1:30pm
4 people

Load in Splash with Sigrid, Tip et al, 1-2:30pm
2 people

Location Set-up with Susan, 1- 3pm
3 people

Silent Auction with Grant
8-9 1 person
9-10 1 person

Will Call Assistant – help Lady D with items from auction after bid
7-8 1 person
8-9 1 person
9-10 2 people

Ticket takers with Mark & Catelynn
5:30-7
7-8 1 person
8-9 1 person
9-10 1 person

Box Office with Mark & Catelynn
7-8 1 person
9-10 2 people

Keychain Sellers – work the crowd but report to Mark & Catelynn
6-7pm 1 person
7-8pm 1 person
8-9pm 2 people
9-10pm one person

Raffle Table Staff with Sal
6-7 1 person
7–8 1 person
8-9 2 people
9-10 one person

Raffle Ticket Sales with Sal
6-7:30 6 people
7:30-8:30 5 people
8:30-9:30 5 people

Security with Jake
5:30-7pm 1 person
7-8pm 2 people
8-9pm 2 people
9-10pm 2 people

Location Breakdown, with Nayland
9:30pm-10pm 4 people

Sunday Unload Van and Load in Storage with Lolita, Tip et al,
Noon-12:30pm 2 people
(optional: go to brunch with Lolita afterwards and then walk up to Folsom Street East)

Email me at LolitaSSC at aol.com if you are interested in being a part of this.

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Photos from Leather Pride Night 2007

June 15th, 2008 · No Comments

Hotness on stage.
Hotness offstage.
Angel hawks art in the auction.
A presenter waits in line to get onstage with an auction goodie.
David Samuel Menkes and The Baronesss attend. They both donated items.
Mike Cotter presents the Barry Douglas Community Service Award to Felice Shays.
Mistress Mir volunteered. Jo Arnone is the most fabulous Auctioneer.
Sparky with Trai La Trash. Sparky is impersonating Hilton.
Me (Volunteer Coordinator), Sigrid (Auction Coordinator)
and Susan Wright (Location Manager)

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Swamped

June 15th, 2008 · No Comments

I’ve been working like crazy on my new blog. Not done yet. But I am loving it. I am lucky to have Viviane‘s help.

I am in high gear preparing for Leather Pride Night. We are less than a week away! And I am freaking about about having 45 volunteer slots still open, but I freak out every year like this. Everybody needs to give me an hour, okay?

And then right afterwards there’s Leather Retreat! Camp! Camp! Camp! I am doing three workshops. Got my bottoms lined up. And I have a funny fun scene planned, but purposely not making any other formal plans.

And then right after that there’s TES Fest. I am teaching a new class called Water Bondage. That’s almost like drowning, but not quite.

We just got back from the beer bust at The Eagle so a little tipsy. That’s twice this week. I am turning into a lush.

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Be thou familiar, but by no means vulgar.

June 14th, 2008 · No Comments

Tango magazine did a great video interview with Rachel Kramer Bussel about her erotic writing. Her book, Dirty Girls, just went to a second printing.

IML raised $55,000 for the Leather Archives & Museum. Support for the LA&M was raised through contributions from visitors to the Leather Market, memberships to the LA&M, a two night silent auction and special events to benefit the museum.

Check out the TES Fest promo podcast.

Kirby Ferguson is always good for social commentary and a laugh: Your a fag

Fashion meets bondage. Restraint with access, too. Bolero Straitjacket. On sale, even.

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My IML 2008 Trip – Part 11

June 13th, 2008 · No Comments

Hookups happen and new friendships are formed at IML. But in so many ways, it is a big reunion where people from different parts of the world get to see each other again.

TX/NY – Paul and Mike
Mike was collared to Paul for the weekend. Look at how happy they look. They were smiling every time I saw them.


FL/NY – Chris and Thor

Chris would always get weak in the knees around Thor.


VA/CO – Master JW and Mudcub

My buddy, JW, introduced me to Mudcub at South Plains Leatherfest and we “friended” each other on LJ.


NY/IL – Me and AJ

At IML in 1999, AJ stalked me, but we did not meet. You can read that story on page 162 of International Mr. Leather: 25 Years of Champions. We finally did meet in February 2000 at the opening of the new Leather Archives & Museum building. In this photo, we just woke up and we are not yet caffeinated.

NY/WA – Me and Matt/Bad Faggot
It was so good to see Matt again. He used to live in NYC and we were were buddies. Boymeat and I brought him to his first IML three years ago.

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Guys

June 13th, 2008 · No Comments

Last night was the opening for Guys We Would Fuck, a show at the Monya Rowe Gallery curated by Nayland Blake. Nayland knows a lot of people and asked many of them to contribute to this show. All the works are 8″ x 10″. The originals can be sold to art collectors or you can print the images out at the gallery for 50¢ per page and, with their zine kit, make your own little booklet. And/or you can print them from the gallery website at home. Art for collectors and art for the masses! Nayland designed the show so that artists can bring in their work any time until August 1 and, because new works are added all the time, visitors can come back and see new work and print a new piece of art each time they visit.


Nayland Blake and Aaron Cobbett


Angel Colon and Dominic Sowinsky also had works in the show.


Works by Bullneck and Nayland Blake


Art by Thor Stockman


Thor tries on my glasses.


Scott and Ollie show up.


Boymeat at the bar.

Afterwards we all went to Billy Marks. I got a little tipsy and grooved on the dance floor with the art crowd.

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