Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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I’ll remember that

August 14th, 2008 · No Comments

I’m off to The Floating World.  I am teaching three classes and I’ve got a way hot date for the weekend.  Don’t be shy. We’re open to meeting others and socializing, so do say hi!

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates August 14 – 20

August 13th, 2008 · No Comments

Otto Bauer and Trinity Post on fuckedandbound.com

Thursday, August 14

Friday, August 15
DSF: “Spanking from A-Z” w/ a panel of spankers

Saturday, August 16
Brooklyn Leather Munch
TES Spanking Group: “Spanking!” with Rachel Kramer Bussel
TES Novice Excursion hosted by Lady D & Bo
TES “Kinky Casino Night Party” hosted by Tony and Mary Ann
SPAM PARTY
NYboL Bar Night

Sunday, August 17
BYTE 4yr Anniversary – The Quadrennial
TRUCK STOP

Monday, August 18

Tuesday, August 19
TES: “An Evening” with Cecilia Tan

Wednesday, August 20
TES Relationships Group: “End of Summer Social”
Grapple Den

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Taken to task

August 13th, 2008 · No Comments

Madison Young on hogtied.com

Ab fab. Hot hot hot!

I want some of these treats!

An engaging 1998 interview with Dirk Dehner where he talks about Tom of Finland.

The Bush administration just can’t end soon enough. Now they’re trying to have contraception defined as abortion. That’s crazy! Read about it and sign the petition.

And, now, here’s a poll:

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My IML 2008 Trip – Part 14 – Final

August 13th, 2008 · 1 Comment

After the contest I took a boy up to my room and poked him with needles. It got him all high and goofy. He had a pair of hinged handcuffs with him but forgot the key at home. Of course I had a key so I locked him in those and took him downstairs through the lobby, socializing on the way, and then up to his room. I put him to bed with instructions to bring us coffee in the morning.

The next day the boy went a bit overboard. He and a room service waiter knocked on our door and wheeled in an entire breakfast! How luxurious! Of course, such behavior needs to be acknowledged, so I took care of it the only way I know how.

I love coffee and caning!

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Republic

August 13th, 2008 · No Comments

Boymeat and I have always loved going to Republic in Union Square. We were very disappointed when we went this past weekend and found that our favorite dish, the one we both always ordered, was off the menu. We complained to the waiter that there was no Tom Ka. He told us many people missed that dish, but he could not offer any suggestions as a replacement.
I figured that maybe this was an opportunity to try something else and ordered the Sauteed Rice (shrimp, chinese sausage, carrots & green peas, egg, bean sprouts, scallions, tomato paste, garlic $10). It looked pretty but it was rather bland.
Boymeat was chasing the Tom Ka and ordered the Spicy Duck (rice vermicelli, shredded duck, curry, coconut milk, bean sprouts $11) hoping it would be a good substitute, but he was not happy with his choice.
Dara ordered the Grilled Pork Chops (vietnamese crushed rice, soy ginger glaze, scallions, pickled carrots, daikon, garlic, cucumber $11) and I tasted that and it was yummy enough.

We loved our drinks. I had an Asian Basil Lemonade which was non-alcoholic.

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TES Elections

August 13th, 2008 · No Comments

Every year people ask me who I am voting for in the TES elections. Last night I attended the Meet The Candidates meeting and finalized my choices. Here they are for this year:

Board: I am only voting for four people this year. (5 slots are open; 4 two year terms and one 1 year term)

Thrash
Richard Cordage
Goddess Coko
Lady M

Arbiter:

Lady Velvet Eagle

Parliamentarian:

Nayland

If you are a TES member, please vote. If you are not attending the election meeting, mail in your vote and your proxy, too.

edit:  See Boymeat’s picks and analysis here.

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The Art of Rita

August 12th, 2008 · No Comments

Graydancer tied up Rita Seagrave and did all sorts of nasty things to her. There are 399 images of this scene that were photographed by Zuchtiger. It was all part of a fundraiser for Graydancer’s east coast trip. I was a sponsor so I have access to all those pictures. They have given me permission to post a couple of them here. Unless you are also a sponsor, you can’t see the rest of the photos (and there definitely were some very juicy ones), however you can listen to the audio version here for free.

The photo on top shows my length of rope. Different sponsors got different pieces of rope and the bigger sponsors got to choose body parts. The photo below is one that I especially like because it shows how happy the two of them are after the scene.

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Plussed

August 11th, 2008 · No Comments

Save The Roxy! I am going to attend this meeting before the TES Meet The Candidates meeting. It’s only seven blocks away. Community Board 4’s Business Licenses & Permits Committee, 6:30 PM, Tuesday, Aug. 12th, in The Minetta Room of The Westin Hotel, at 270 W. 43rd St between 7th and 8th Avenue.

The Red Rose writer pleads guilty to internet obscenity and gets 5 years probation and a $1000 fine. She also gets 6 months house arrest, but she’s agoraphobic anyway.

In the United Kingdom, “Attitudes towards spanking and bondage are changing. It seems that people – particularly those living in cities and urban areas – are becoming far more open to alternative sexual behaviour.”

Midori critiques the cover of Psychology Today’s August issue where the cover model is wearing the corset backwards and upside down (among other fashion faux pas).

I just sent some money to help Catalina fund her daughter’s schooling. Go read the story here. Then donate and maybe win a raffle prize.

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Save The Date

August 11th, 2008 · No Comments

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Judges for NYLW Contest

August 11th, 2008 · No Comments

On Saturday October 11, New York Leather Weekend will host the Mr./Ms. New York City Leather contest.  This will be all-gender and all-inclusive with the winner advancing on to either the International Mr. or International Ms. Leather contests (IML or IMsL).  The judging panel Includes:

Michael Egdes, International Mr. Leather, 2005
Susan Wright,  National Coalition for Sexual Freedom, Leather Pride Night
Master Tip, Iron Guard BC, Masters And slaves Together, NYC
CirrTone, NY Panthers, Leather Community Activist
Hilton, Leather Archives & Museum, Owner, Purple Passion
Darrell Perry, Darrel’s Dungeon, Leather Community Activist
Thor Stockman, Leather Community Leader

I think this is a really great lineup of judges.  However, since the contest is open to all genders and will feed to either IML or IMsL, there really should be more than just one female judge.

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