Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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NYC Sex Blogger Calendar launch party

November 16th, 2008 · 2 Comments

On Friday I went to the NYC Sex Blogger Calendar launch party. It was very crowded and it was great seeing so many of my friends there. Viviane was the big winner at the raffle. She won five prizes!

Twanna Hines and Veronica Vera

Tess

Rachel Kramer Bussel

Lux Alptraum and Sinclair Sexsmith

Elizabeth and friend

Audacia Ray

Sinclair gave us some of her sexy poetry

Random sexiness

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Reigning down on me

November 14th, 2008 · No Comments

I’m still looking for a few good volunteers to help out with the Leather Pride Night Flea Market at Leatherfest.

Unload storage items into our van with Lolita, Sigrid and Boymeat
Noon – 1:30pm Need 1 person

Unload our van into The Center with Lolita, Sigrid and Boymeat
1-3pm Need 1 person

Load out The center and back to Storage with Lolita, Sigrid and Boymeat
8pm Need 3 people

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates: Nov 13-19

November 13th, 2008 · No Comments

Trinity Post and Mark Davis on sexandsubmission.com

Thursday, November 13
LSM: “Damned if you do. Damned if you don’t…Predicament Scenes” w/ Sir C (open to all genders)
Queens BDSM Munch

Friday, November 14
GMSMA: 1st Annual Gil Kessler Lecture Series w/ Ray Matienzo & John Weis (open to all genders)
NYC Sex Blogger Calendar launch party
ClubFemNYC Munch
Xris SMack! and Mindswerve Studios present: STIMULATE
DSF: “D/s dating How to snag a Dominant woman!” w/ Scarlette Stangata

Saturday, November 15
GMSMA: Leatherfest 2008 (open to all genders)
Rope Share
TES Spanking Group: “Corporal Play” with Mistress Berlin
TES Novice Excursion
TES Latex Fetish Party w/ Jeff
New York boys of Leather Bar Night with a rubber theme
SPAM party

Sunday, November 16

Monday, November 17
CV Meeting: “Intro to Sex Blogging” w/ Viviane

Tuesday, November 18
TES: ” Violet Wand” w/ Master Jay

Wednesday, November 19
TES Bondage SIG: Tie Me to the Ends of Love w/ Mac Koehler

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No H8

November 13th, 2008 · No Comments

I went to the protest tonight. Wow! What a huge crowd!

I ran into Fred. I made my own sign.

Scott & Thor were there, too!

For the most part, it was a happy crowd,
and we didn’t see any “incidents” or mean cops.

It’s been a long time since I’ve been to a protest. I’m glad I went.

Thor and I cut out early to go to GMSMA. Susan Wright and I got honored as honorary members and we were given crystal awards. Their program was really good.

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So many numbers, so little time

November 12th, 2008 · No Comments

We found the best restaurant when we were at Black Rose. It’s called Art & Soul. And today there’s a nice write-up.

Wow. Keith Olberman on marriage equality. Alot of people speaking out, but I wish they spoke out before the election.

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I was going to go down to DC for MAL, but yikes! They are charging crazy prices for hotel rooms. Not going!

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World Laundromat

November 11th, 2008 · No Comments

For so long I have yearned for the opportunity to go to the World Laundromat. My jealousy created anxiety for me. It’s such bad poly. Finally, we went. It was just to pick up dry-cleaning, but I think I am okay with that.

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Great toy to use on a cock

November 10th, 2008 · 11 Comments

This is what it looks like when turned inside out.
Different sources have the same toy but each calls it different name. Basically it is a masturbation sleeve made of blue elastomer. I got one of these and used it on Don Quixote. First I added some water-based lube and then slipped it on his cock. I began pumping and he loved the feeling of the nubs up and down his shaft. There was just the right amount of suction. After a while, a big mess ensued and he was happy with the new toy. Because it is easy to turn inside out, it is easy to clean, but I still think it is a one-person toy.

I left it with him and he used it again after getting a frenum piercing. That was a bad idea. It hurt. Of course he knew he should have waited. But boys are dumb when it comes to their dicks. We’ll try it again after it’s all healed.

Here’s a list of places that have this toy. You can figure out what is best for you after any tax and/or shipping costs.

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Deadlines

November 10th, 2008 · No Comments

Wash your hands! There’s a big increase of stomach virus right now in NYC.

Midori’s next Rope Bondage Dojo Stage 1 will be in San Francisco, January 17-18. Advance ticket sales start on Friday, November 28th at Noon, Pacific time. It always sells out really quickly!

I just found myself on WikiMedia Commons.

New York City’s first Prop 8 protest will be this Wednesday at the Manhattan Mormon Temple on the Upper West Side. I am going, but I will have to leave at 7:30 to get to GMSMA by 8pm.

We have a new African American President and now Disney is introducing their first African-American Princess.

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Weekend Food

November 10th, 2008 · No Comments

For a friend’s birthday celebration we enjoyed a meat orgy at Plataforma Churrascaria. They just kept bring meat after meat. Not something I want to do often but yummy and fun.

As in so many things, I am a switch when it comes to food. I balanced out the weekend by going to VP2 (Vegetarian’s Paradise 2). They have a new dish which is now my favorite: Coconut Chicken with Pineapple slices. It’s not real chicken, but it tasted just like chicken. Uncanny.

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Volunteer at LPN Flea Market – Sat 11/15 at Leatherfest

November 9th, 2008 · No Comments

Once again this Saturday November 15th, Leather Pride Night will host its famous LPN Flea Market at GMSMA Leatherfest. Last year we raised almost $2000!

Volunteer opportunities abound!

Unload storage items into our van with Lolita and Boymeat
Noon – 1:30pm Need 3 people

Unload our van into The Center with Lolita and Boymeat
1-3pm Need 3 people

Help sell items
3-4pm Need 2 people
4-5pm Need 2 people
5-6pm Need 2 people
6-7pm Need 2 people
7-8pm Need 2 people

Load out The center and back to Storage with Lolita and Boymeat
8pm Need 4 people

Please reply to Lolita at lpnnyc at aol dot com

Thanks! and see you there!

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