If I were on Twitter, I might have posted this today:
Perhaps it’s best that I am not tweeting.
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You can see a second beautiful photo that Calico made for me on her blog here.
She’ll make a custom photo for you, too! Details here!
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I was once a Hitachi girl. That was my favorite vibrator and it was the one that would get me off without fail. It still does – Don Quixote has one. A few years back, when my Hitachi died, my ex-girlfriend recommended the Acuvibe. It is similar to the Hitachi with a big flexible head that gives very strong steady stimulation.
The key difference is that the Acuvibe is cordless and rechargeable. This gave me freedom to not be tethered to one side of the bed. I took that Acuvibe everywhere! I no longer had to worry about electrical extension cords in the dungeon. (Did you ever notice how the people who set up the dungeons so often set up the slings furthest away from the electrical outlets?) And, I could take the Acuvibe outside! I love outdoor sex!
The big drawback with the Acuvibe is that it is large and heavy. I like to travel light and the Acuvibe with recharger was even heavier and bulkier than the Hitachi. I hate schlepping.
So when Babeland gave me the opportunity to review the Acuvibe Mini, I was very excited to try it out. I plugged it in right away. The initial charge is 8 hours. The next day I gave it a spin. The Mini has only one setting which is comparable to the low setting on the Hitachi and the Acuvibe. That’s quite alright because 95% of the time, whether I am using it on myself or a partner, the low setting is the preferred setting. The Acuvibe Mini has plenty of power.
Because of its size and weight, I am more apt to take it with me when I go out to play. The first place I took it was a sex party. Selina brought rope with her. Pink and black! So, I tied her up. She also had a pink paddle. So I spanked her. And then I told her I had something pink with me, too! My Acuvibe Mini! I slipped a black glove over the head and used it on her clit. She orgasmed from that. It was different than her usual orgasms, but she liked it very much.
I took the Mini to Leather Retreat and used it outdoors while I was in the sling. The combination of fingers penetrating me along with the Mini on my clit elicited a huge load orgasm from me.
I also took it to TES Fest, where I put a man in bondage. He was totally unable to move. I wrapped up his cock with plastic wrap and then used the Mini on his cock. He came from that. Yes, this is a toy that can be used on all genders.
So, yes, I love the Acuvibe Mini and it will be a staple in my toy bag from now on.
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David Steinberg writes about getting stopped by airport security for his whip and handles the whole situation with aplomb.
A very nice little review of the Metal Bondage workshop that Boymeat and I gave at Thunder.
Very good article and video about polyamory in Milwaukee.
Naked Cowboy is running for mayor of NYC. I definitely like him better than Bloomberg!
The next KinkForAll unconference will take place in NYC on August 8th. I went to the first one where I met a bunch of new people and enjoyed the sessions. Unfortunately, I will be out of town for this one. But you should go! It’s free!
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Lady Kat on Hogtied.com’s casting couch at Leather Retreat
Thursday, July 23
Alphabet Soup
Friday, July 24
Le Cercle des Dommes meeting
DSF: “”The Harder-The Better” BDSM party
Fashionably Fetish
Saturday, July 25
July Ladies Tea
TES Nude Beach Excursion hosted by Don W
XXXtreme Fetish NYC Party
Sunday, July 26
New York Bondage Club
Suspension
Monday, July 27
Tuesday, July 28
TES: “Stepping up the Pressure” w/ Dov
Wednesday, July 29
TES TNG: “So you want to be a slut? Survival tips on how to do it!” w/ Mina Meow
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Hilton and his shop, Purple Passion, have been huge supporters of the community and business is really rough now. He may have to close! Please support them!
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At Dark Odyssey Leather Retreat, I told Don Quixote that he should be available to me on Saturday night. I dressed up in the new girdle he bought for me and then used some pink nylon rope to fashion a strap-on harness for my big brown cock. I had learned the rope skills from Lee Harrrington and had adapted his style to suit me.
I pranced around the cabin feeling sexy in my new outfit and my big cock. “I’m taking you to the strap-on party!”
DQ became very quiet. I recognized that attitude. He would not argue with me; he trusted me and would go along with whatever plan I concocted. He did not have to worry, but he worried anyway and his worrying is kind of hot. I knew that the big brown dildo was way too big for him. It’s a dyke dildo, not for boys. Besides we plowed his ass the night before last at the Queer party.
Nope, I had another use for him. I used some hemp rope to tie him. I decided to go for comfort and tied his hands in front and wrapped him into a modified upper body harness. When he was secure, I brought out the new toy.
I was so excited by this new toy: The Humiliator Gag System with Option A – Serving Tray from Scott Paul Designs. The gag part is very comfortable and made for long term use. It is constructed so that the mouth does not need to open wide and it puts the least stress on the jaw. There are various options that can fit into the gag. Each is very utilitarian. They have an ashtray, a toilet roll holder, a coat hook, a toilet bowl brush, a bootblacking brush, a feather duster and many other useful items.
I had chosen the drink tray. I thought that a drink would always be a handy and appropriate thing to have around. I also figured that I could place an ashtray or a candy dish or even some condoms on the tray, so it was the most versatile of the attachments.
So after DQ was tied, I buckled the gag on him. It is made in a sturdy material and lined with neoprene. It is sculpted for the contours of the face. But my favorite part is that it has a locking post with a shiny padlock, so that it can be fastened and locked with a key. The brilliant part is that it can be securely fastened without locking it as well. Since it was our first time using it, I opted not to lock it. I wanted to be sure to be able to get him out quickly if I had to.
I placed a plastic cup on the tray (we were at camp after all, so I did not have any nice crystal). We left the cabin with him balancing the tray and learning how to move with it. He had to move carefully as the cup on the tray obstructed his vision. Stairs were a particular challenge., Afterwards he told me how frustrating it was to go with me and be my drink-holder where the drink was in his face, yet he could not have any (of course I made sure he drank some water before I placed the gag on him.).
The strap-on party took place at Sex-O-Rama and there was a lot of left over liquor from Lucky’s Strip Club the night before, so I was able to have a nice drink. DQ was my very own piece of furniture to hold my drink for me.
I did some socializing and got some action at the party. A guy in a garter belt, stockings and high heels sucked my cock while another woman plowed his ass with her dildo. After a while, I was wooed by a hot girl who wanted too suck my cock. She was really very skilled. There is an art to sucking non-bio cock. It is different than flesh cock and needs to be gone down on in a whole different way. This girl knew the difference. Oh, yeah!
We left the party after about one hour and fifteen minutes. I did not want to stay too long, because I did not want to stress DQ too much the first time. When we got back to the cabin and I removed the gag, he told me that it was comfortable to wear for a long time as long as the drink was not too heavy.
We discovered that I could not fill the cup all the way. It becomes too heavy. For this gag, it is best if the glass is small or only half full. It’s probably good that I had a plastic cup because that is not as heavy as glass. However, I want to experiment with glass because glass is much more elegant than plastic.
I also want to get my drink-holder some knee pads. When I was on the bed getting my blow job, my drink was too far from reach. And I think my drink-holder would look good in his rubber apron or straitjacket. I am already thinking about how to use this gag again. I felt pampered having my drink by me. I really like it!
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Jade Marxxx, Cherry Torn and Maestro on thetrainingofo.com
Thursday, July 16
Staten Island Kink Munch
Friday, July 17
LSM: “Direction, Discipline & Service: The Heart of a Master/slave Relationship” w/slave marsha
DSF: “Creative Torture Devices” w/ Master Mike
Switch party
Saturday, July 18
Brooklyn Leather Munch
TES Spanking Group: “What Is It Like To Be a Spanking Model?” w/ Katie James
TES Novice Excursion hosted by Lady D & Bo
TES Death at the Discotheque: A Murder Mystery Party
New York boys of Leather Bar Night
Spam Party
Stimulate party
Sunday, July 19
nosebleed/upstate manhattan pervert brunch munch
Instigate NYC: “Stone Sex and Kink” w/ Corey Alexander
New York Bondage Club
Monday, July 20
Tuesday, July 21
TES: “Male and Female Genitorture” w/ Mistress Trish
Wednesday, July 22
TES Bondage Group “Adaptable Bondage” w/ Suzanne SxySadist
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Jack Hammer and Bobbi Starr on meninpain.com
The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #170? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form.
This Week’s Picks
Clothespin Communion
“Surrender to the sensation.”
Remembering the Pain
“And it really was that bad.”
Short And Sweet
“Why don’t you turn over”
Sugasm Editor
Fetish Fridays: Financial Submission
Editor’s Choice
Belonging
Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Absence
Evey Can Haz?
The Ghost of Sex Toys Past (Part One of Three)
“Boy, Girl, or In-between?” Princess Frida’s Fabulous Talk, and My Thoughts
“Work” Confession #297
NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Busty beauty Jenny McClain
Flash Spanking Videos
Leighton Meester Sex Tape
Pearls
Thrashed on their bared buttocks
Waiting for Tonight
Sex Humor
Fat Sex and Why It’s Good
BDSM & Fetish
Don’t Have Mercy on Me, Baby
Formalities, and, on second thought, greetings
The Going Away Present
He gave them pain like balm, and they begged him for it
High School Bully Part 3
Home Alone?
Mollena Williams added to 100 Divas
A Night In Bondage
Under instruction
The war of the sexes
Sex Poetry
At the movies….
News, Reviews & Interviews
The Independent lists “the ten best sex toys.” I fly into a rage.
Take Me Out to the Sapphic Sex Romp
Vibratex Pandora
The Wily Old Crocodile: An Interview with Eosuchus
Sex Advice
Anal Sex for Beginners
New At Sex Is Magazine: Foods That Enhance Your Sex Drive
Q&A with Dr.Ruthie – Asking for Better Sex
Starting At The Bottom: An Intro to Anal Play, Part 2
Erotic Writing & Experiences
Amber gives me a blowjob..in person!
From Behind
Its Morning…(The Last Time)
Just fucking.
A Matter of Taste
May i feel said he
New Man at the Lesbos Palace
The Problem with Thongs
The Raise
Randy: the new big cock
Stranger Fuck & Plough
Whore, Adulteress, Sinner
You can leave your hat on
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