On the way to Virginia, we needed to eat. I got off at exit 41A in Maryland. “I got an instinct that we should go here.” We drove around a bit and, just as I thought we wouldn’t find anything good, I saw it. A smoker in the parking lot of a liquor store. Score! We got half a slab of pork ribs! So yummy.
Then we stopped in at an organic food market for an herb salad that we tossed with some “Bulgar Delight.” It was the perfect accompaniment.
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Babeland sent me the new G Curve Dildo. It’s a very pretty pearlescent dark purple and the silicone material is soft, yet firm enough for thrusting. It has a futuristic phallic design with a nice head and ridges along the top of the shaft that feels good going in and out of any hole. It’s nice wide base makes it easy to use as a hand-held or as a strap-on.
What I like best about it is the curve shape. When I strap on a straight dildo, I have to choose whether to strap it on over my clit where I get the most sensation or I have to position it above my clit to get an angle that works for fucking. With this dildo, I can strap it on directly over my clit and it juts out at the perfect angle for stimulating my clit while fucking. Win!
For solo play, the curve shape is comfortable to hold and fuck myself with. It’s also a really good size for my cunt and hits me just right. Overall it is about 6 inches long and about 1 3/8″ in diameter.
Last weekend, I taught “Stuff Yer Hole” at Floating World. After warming DQ up with fingers and then a smaller toy, I used a length of nylon rope to strap the G Curve on and fuck him. He thought it was a good size for him, especially for a longer session, but it did not really hit his prostrate. This may be because we did it doggy style on a spanking bench. We are going to try using it again in a sling. Because we were already using silicone lube, I covered it with a condom, because you can’t use silicone lube with a silicone dildo.
The G Curve is made of smooth, non-porous silicone and has a good weight to it. It contains no latex or nasty pthalates. Because it is silicone, it works best with water-based lube. It can be easily cleaned in the dishwasher or boiled. It is made by Tantus, which makes good quality toys.
Bonus: From now until Monday August 31, Babeland is offering FREE shipping on orders of $50 or more.
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Sabrina Fox and Lobo on meninpain.com
Thursday, August 27
Staten Island Kink Munch
Alphabet Soup
Friday, August 28
Le Cercle des Dommes
DSF: “End of the Summer BDSM Barbeque Party & The Speed Dating Game”
Saturday, August 29
Sunday, August 30
NY Bondage Club
Suspension party
Monday, August 31
Tuesday, September 1
TES“Trans 101” w/ Dr.Lisa O’Connor, MD
Wednesday, September 2
Pleasure Salon
TES Dominant Men/submissive women’s Group: “Vanilla Side of Things”
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A Leather Community Memorial Service for Jack McG will take place this Saturday, August 29th at the Crucible (1816 Half Street SW, Washington, DC). Doors open at 2 pm, the formal service will begin at 3 pm with light refreshment served afterwards. Anyone wishing to do so is encouraged to wear latex in honor of Jack. The formal service will last approximately one hour.
In the spirit of the community Jack nourished and loved a covered dish would be appreciated for the community table. Please email info@br.org if you would like to contribute. If you have messages you’d like to share with Jack’s family, you may email them to inmemoryofjack@br.org These memories and notes are being compiled and placed in condolence books for the family. The option to leave a video remembrance of Jack will also be available at The Crucible after the Leather Community Memorial Service.
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In many ways, it was a perfect weekend, or at the very least, a perfect way to tackle the complexities of attending Floating World and Jack’s funeral. Don Quixote is a very good daddy and treats me like a Princess. We are very comfortable, yet flexible, in those roles and are able to make them work in almost any situation.
On Friday and Saturday, our focus revolved around the classes I taught. DQ bottomed for all three classes. For the most part, classes are never about my bottom, but rather about connecting with the class and teaching. However, since Friday night’s Mummification class was the last class, I was able to transition that class into a scene. I did not take DQ out of the mummy wrap at the end of the class and he stayed in until 11:45pm. That was perfect!
There was other good play as well. Lots of bondage, both metal and rope, the new gag and some CBT. I also gave DQ his first cutting. It’s very sweet and I am curious to see if it will scar. If it doesn’t, we may re-cut it.
We spent time at vending and I picked up a custom order from Venus Ropes. Two pieces of gorgeous gold 8mm four strand Bavarian in a custom length of 36 feet each. Very nice. I also stopped at Rainbow Rope for some sundries. DQ bought a beautiful 4 foot signal whip from Victor Tella, a well-made leather leash from Purple Passion and a custom embroidered T-shirt from Needle Play Designs – it says daddyslutsub.
We only made it to one class. It was Partial and Full Suspension for Intermediate and Advanced with David Lawrence. We both really like David’s teaching style and learned some new tricks plus I finally mastered the Reverse Portuguese Bowline.
We were very adventurous with food. Thanks to Viviane, who put together a food guide/map, we found a Portuguese BBQ dive in Fords, a Malaysian restaurant and a great diner.
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My friend, Al Schlong, is part of the Body Heat Femme Porn Tour. I’ll be going to see them Monday night in NYC!
Body Heat is a collective of fierce, sassy, irreverent Femme artists setting ablaze performance art communities and smashing open Femme stereotypes. Porn, Kink, Smut, Erotica -Body Heat is not reclaiming our sex so much as OWNING it. We will turn you on. We will challenge all of your Gender, Sex, Feminist, Social, & Political boundaries & assumptions. We will entertain the hell out of you. Mostly we will leave you panting, begging, dripping for more.
Body Heat will kick off a mini east Coast Tour in Boston August 28th that stars kathleen delaney, Meliza Banales, Nicky Click, Gigi Frost of The Femme Show, Al Schlong, & Leslie Freeman!!!!!!!!
August 28th – FIRST SHOW!!!!!
Lily Pad @ 7pm
1353 Cambridge St
Inman Square, MA 02139
(617) 388-1168
August 29th
Food for Thought Books @ 8pm
106 N Pleasant St
Amherst, MA 01002-1703
(413) 253-5432
August 31st
Bluestocking Books @ 7pm
172 Allen St, between Stanton and Rivington Sts.
New York, NY 10002
(212) 777-6028
Sept. 1st
Asbury Lanes @ 8pm
209 4th Ave
Asbury Park, NJ 07712-6067
(732) 776-6160
Sept. 2nd
The Bike Stop @ 8pm
206 S Quince St
Philadelphia, PA 19107
(215) 627-1662
Sept. 3rd – LAST SHOW!!!!!
Phase 1 @ 7pm
525 8th St SE
Washington, DC 20003-2835
(202) 544-6831
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Here’s a photo of me driving pat’s convertible from Leather Levi Weekend back to Oakland. Whee! I am doing the California girl thing!
This has just been such a stressful week for me. Ugh! But today I hit the road again. I love road trips and I love driving. I’m gonna pick up Don Quixote in an hour and we’ll be off for our weekend of “monortony” at Floating World. I’m feeling a bit fragile right now.
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Mark Davis and Ten on sexandsubmission.com
Thursday, August 20
Staten Island Kink Munch
Friday, August 21
Switch Party
Saturday, August 22
Sunday, August 23
NY Bondage Club
Monday, August 24
Tuesday, August 25
TES: “Minute Tales”
Wednesday, August 26
TES Switchables & Other Polymorphous Perverts Group: “Hot & Sexy Story Time”
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Presence, connection and erotic intimacy are most important for Great Sex.
Bear City is a movie seeking background extras for a gay romantic comedy set in the NYC Bear scene.
Boymeat writes about Jack.
Lovefest IV was reviewed by the Huffington Post.
You can download the AIDS Committee of Toronto’s lastet BDSM/Safer Kinky Sex booklet here. A lot of very good information!
