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Volume 10, Number 18 © Copyright 2004 by Lolita Wolf – Material may not be reproduced in whole or in part without prior written consent of the copyright holder. The views expressed herein are exclusively those of the author and do not represent the views of any other person or any organization with which the author may be associated.
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Part Two of Two
Copyright 2004 Lolita Wolf
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Volume 10, Number 17 © Copyright 2004 by Lolita Wolf – Material may not be reproduced in whole or in part without prior written consent of the copyright holder. The views expressed herein are exclusively those of the author and do not represent the views of any other person or any organization with which the author may be associated.
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UPCOMING EVENTS
New Jersey Leather Weekend
September 24-26 in Asbury Park, NJ
http://www.leathernjonline.com
FolsomFringe: smOdyssey Unleashed
September 24-26 in San Jose, CA
http://www.folsomfringe.com
Folsom Street Fair
September 26 in San Francisco, CA
http://www.folsomstreetfair.com
Pacific Friction
October 8-11 in Portland, OR
http://www.pacificfriction.org/
(I am teaching Caning and How To Be A Greedy Pig)
WALP
Oct 8-10 in Amsterdam
http://www.walp.dds.nl/index2.html
Dungeon 901
October 15-17 in Ft Lauderdale, FL
http://www.leatheru.com
ITCR – Building Bridges IV
October 15-17 in Boston, MA
http://www.lovethatworks.org/conference.html
CineKink
October 21-24 in NYC
http://www.cinekink.com
Together in Leather
October 22-24 in Charlotte, NC
http://www.togetherinleather.org
Black Rose XVII
November 5-7 in New Carrollton, MD
http://www.br.org
GMSMA Leatherfest
November 13 in NYC
http://www.gmsma.org
(I am teaching Sensory Deprivation & Control)
Spanksgiving
November 12- 14 in St Louis
http://www.STL3.com/events
Servant’s Retreat
November 19-21 in Queens, NY
http://www.bdsmclasses.com/
Just Play ’04
November 26-28 in Baltimore, Maryland
http://hometown.aol.com/justplayplayhse/just_play04.htm
Fetish Fair Fleamarket
December 17-19 in Boston, MA
http://www.nla-newengland.org/
Have fun! Play safe!
Lolita Wolf
Lolita speaking only for Lolita, of course!
http://www.LeatherYenta.com
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Volume 10, Number 16 © Copyright 2004 by Lolita Wolf – Material may not be reproduced in whole or in part without prior written consent of the copyright holder. The views expressed herein are exclusively those of the author and do not represent the views of any other person or any organization with which the author may be associated.
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“…it’s fine to break the rules, but only if you know them. Only then can you know how to break them.
– LTHR EDGE
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On Friday night, Neptune and I went to The Venom Club in East Farmingdale, NY (
http://www.thevenomclub.com/). This was about an hour drive with no traffic out to Long Island. At the door, we were charged $30, the regular Friday night couples rate (Saturday nights are $40 per couple). Since the TES website lists the club as offering a discount to TES members, we told him that we were TES members and asked for our discount. We were told that there was no discount for TES. The man at the door was not very welcoming to us.
We checked out the space. The big main room was divided into a social area and a play area with about a half dozen pieces of equipment plus two hoists. A smaller room in the back had about 4 pieces of equipment and we chose the cross to play on.
There were about 7 people in the club besides us. All of them were sitting at a table eating and drinking nonalcoholic beverages. They sounded like they were having a good time. We heard their talk and laughter over the eclectic mix of music that was playing. The back room had no music and the predominant noise was the talk and laughter. It was not very conducive to play.
We won’t be returning to the Venom Club. It’s not worth the trip.
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Nearly 76 million eligible Americans didn’t vote in 2000. Decisions are made by the people who show up, and time’s running out to register to vote. Do it online at
http://www.declareyourself.com/
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The Pantheon of Leather Community Service Awards will be presented in Chicago, IL in February 2005. The nomination process for the Pantheon of Leather Community Service Awards 2005 has begun and the entire leather community is invited to participate in the first round of the awards process by submitting nominations.
The nomination form and information for the Pantheon of Leather Community Service Awards 2005 is now posted buy this year’s nominations registrar, San Francisco Leather Daddy VIII Don Thompson. With the assistance of his life partner Henry Jordan and the diligent work of Random Chance in creating a fabulous and user-friendly page, nominations will be much easier to make than ever.
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My writing in the P+P is copyrighted. Usually when someone wants to repost something, somewhere I do give permission as long as my name and copyright is attached and subscription info is given.
It makes me crazy when I write to someone who posts my stuff to an email list and I get an answer like this: “I posted the article out of admiration for what you wrote disrespect was not even in the room .Furthermore, Since I did not take any credit for the writing of the article there is no question of copyright violation of any kind. Keep up the good work.”
Yes, it is a copyright violation. Please don’t do it. Ask me first.
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The Communications Decency Act (CDA) trial date has been set for October 27-29, 2004, at the United States District Court in New York City. Plaintiffs Barbara Nitke and the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom are contesting the remaining CDA provisions allowing “local community standards” to be used to define obscenity on the Internet. These provisions were not the subject of the 1997 Supreme Court challenge, ACLU vs. Ashcroft.
“The CDA allows one community to limit what the entire nation is allowed to discuss, to read or to view on the Internet,” says John Wirenius, the attorney for the lawsuit. “That is unconstitutional because the First Amendment does not allow any one locality to impose its morality on the nation.” For more information about the CDA lawsuit, go to:
www.ncsfreedom.org
Expert witnesses who will be called and cross-examined include Arthur C. Danto, A.D. Coleman, Jeffrey Douglas, Ben Laurie, Seth Finklestein, Candida Royalle, Tristan Taormino, Charles Moser, Dov Hechtman, Leigha Fleming, and Susan Wright. Their testimony will cover the technological impossibility of complying with the CDA; the artistic and social importance of sexually explicit speech concerning alternative sexual practices; and the chilling affect the CDA has had on artists and writers within the communities served by NCSF.
Plaintiff Barbara Nitke (
www.barbaranitke.com) will be making appearances in San Francisco in September for an exhibition of her work, slide show talks, book signings and benefits to raise funds for the CDA lawsuit expenses. Mark I. Chester and Dr. Carol Queen’s Center for Sex and Culture are sponsoring “Sex, Art & Politics,” the series of events on radical sex photography and artistic freedom to coincide with the Folsom Street Fair. For more information on these events, see the calendar below.
Barbara Nitke is president of the prestigious Camera Club of New York, on the faculty of the School of Visual Arts in New York, and author of a book of fine art photographs, Kiss of Fire (Kehrer Verlag 2003). National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF) is a national organization committed to protecting freedom of sexual expression among consenting adults.
For additional information, requests for interviews, and publishable press photos contact Susan Wright, Spokesperson for NCSF 917.848.6544, or Barbara Nitke at
NitkeMedia@aol.com
Calendar of September Events in San Francisco with Barbara Nitke:
Sat. Sept. 18th – 8pm-midnight “Opening Party for Sex, Art & Politics” Radical sex photography including Barbara Nitke’s loving SM photographs, book signing, and entertainment. Suggested donation $5-10+. Mark I. Chester studio, 1229 Folsom St./SF
Sun Sept. 19th – 2-4pm – “A Romantic View of SM” Barbara Nitke’s slide show talk and discussion of the CDA lawsuit. $15 for the general public. $5 for members of Janus and reciprocal leather organizations.
Sun Sept. 19th – 7-10pm – House party benefit for the CDA lawsuit sponsored by Mark I. Chester, Dr. Carol Queen and NCSF at a private location. 100% of proceeds will benefit the CDA lawsuit. Space is limited so please call 415-255-1155 or
mail@carolqueen.com for an invite.
Tues, Sept. 21st – 8-10pm – Book signing by Barbara Nitke for her book of loving SM photographs, Kiss of Fire. Good Vibrations, 603 Valencia St., at 17th St./SF
Wed, Sept. 22nd – 7-10pm “Sex, Art & Politics Community Benefit” Co-sponsored by Mark I. Chester and the Center for Sex and Culture, with Charles Gatewood, Fakir Musafar, Phyllis Christopher, Michael Blue/Midori and Shilo McCabe. Suggested donation $10-$20+ with proceeds benefiting the CDA lawsuit. SF Citadel, 245 8th St/SF
Sat/Sun, Sept 25/26th-noon-6pm – Mark I. Chester will take a FREE digital portrait of anyone who visits his studio to see the radical sex photographs on display. Sun. 9/26, the show will be open during the Folsom St. Fair. Mark I Chester studio, 1229 Folsom St./SF
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Thanks to my sponsors!
1052-255Y SINGLETAILS IN THE SCENE, a NEW 2 hour instructional video is now available. Learn basic & advanced throws. Learn how to practice. Learn how to use a signal whip on someone from light & sensual to heavy & intense. Includes four actual scenes. Only $35.00 + shipping & handling.
http://www.SingletailsInTheScene.com
1031-273Y Dr. Vittoria Repetto – Chiropractor / Applied Kinesiologist / Nutritional Consultation. Dedicated to providing my patients with the holistic therapies and the personalized education they need to regain and maintain their optimal health. 285 West B’way @ Canal St., NYC 212 – 431 – 3724
www.drvittoriarepetto.meta-ehealth.com DrVittoriaRepett@aol.comOne of the Top Ten NYC Chiropractors: New Life Magazine, Sept 2001.
1034-278Y Purple Passion / DV8, we have one of the largest selections of corsets, leather, latex & PVC clothing for men and women. We do custom corsets, clothing and harnesses. We now have artwork for sale and our next show will be Friday Sept 10th 6-8pm. Hours: Wed Noon-7pm, Thurs & Fri Noon-9pm, Sat Noon-8pm Sun Noon-7pm. Mon & Tues. Noon-7pm. 211 West 20th Street. Tel 212-807-0486,
http://www.purplepassion.com/
1032-283H The Baroness, designer of Elegant, Provocative Latex Fashions. The Fetish Retinue will start up again September 12.
http://www.Baroness.com or call 212 529 5964.
1017-284B EXPLORE THE HEAT, HEART & SPIRIT OF BDSM – Dominant Women and Women who switch, empower your self & develop the skills you need to become the Top you want be and make your scenes soar. Cleo Dubois Academy of S/M Arts and Sybil Holiday offer: EROTIC DOMINANCE INTENSIVES FOR WOMEN Players Course – October 28-31, enrolling now! Each San Francisco Intensive is Limited to 8 women. Info
http://www.sm-arts.com -Email:
CleoDubois@sm-arts.com
1016-286A Art Show opening: @ Purple Passion/DV8, 211 West 20th St, New York City.
Friday, September 10th from 6 to 8pm No Charge
David Lawrence – Shibari Art
http://www.shibariartphotography.com/and Ward Boult: Assassin
http://www.wardboult.com/ .
1016-287A Sunday, September 12, 3pm – 5pm Workshop @ Purple Passion/DV8, 211 West 20th St., New York City. Advanced Bondage for Total Beginners with Claudia Varrin . This is an interactive demo, where you get to practice some techniques on yourselves and your partners. Please bring two or three 25-feet pieces of rope. Seating is limited. $20/person.
Your ad could be here! Email me if you are interested.
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GMSMA Leatherfest
November 13 in NYC
http://www.gmsma.org(I am teaching Sensory Deprivation & Control)
Have fun! Play safe!
Lolita Wolf
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Volume 10, Number 15 © Copyright 2004 by Lolita Wolf – Material may not be reproduced in whole or in part without prior written consent of the copyright holder. The views expressed herein are exclusively those of the author and do not represent the views of any other person or any organization with which the author may be associated.
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One of the coolest things about the event is that we had five members of my leather family there. That was even a question on the Scavenger Hunt (actually by Sunday we were six, because Monica (aka my Uncle Nico Boy) showed up. On Saturday night, my family and their play partners took a corner of the dungeon and played together and next to each other. This is my favorite way to play. I love when we play like that and we can look up from what we are doing and see each other in the middle of other scenes.
I had quite the Saturday night! Since Momma Bear and I both had play dates with Susan and Peggy, we decided to co-top them both. “Oh, shit, now we’re really fucked,” said Peggy. We started with Susan. This was a real treat for me because I had never co-topped with Momma Bear. We used canes. In the past co-topping with other people with canes has never worked because of accuracy and timing issues but we got into a really great groove together and it was much fun for all three of us. Momma Bear is a really amazing player. What a treat!
When it was time to play with Peggy, she was having a rough time. The dungeon was a bit cold for play. I did everything I could do to warm her up. I even lit her on fire. But we finally gave up and she went up to bed. Regina was attracted to the fire and wanted to try it so I did a little fire with her, too. It was a cherry. I also did a heavy flogging/whipping scene with someone who left NYC about a decade ago and now lives in Ohio.
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Someone else said that they found the following web site for leather scent: http://www.preservation-solutions.com
Cub Spencer (Great Plains BootBlack 2004) says, “If you go to most pet stores or pet departments in larger stores (Walmart) they sell a bag that hangs over a pets “smelly areas”. It pulls the odors out of the air and the walls, carpets, and such around it! It may take a week to notice a difference but it should work the same. (I believe these are mostly charcoal type blends.) I know of a couple of cigar smokers that keep them near their “smoking chairs” at home, and it seems to keep the smell from getting in the fabrics and getting stale.”
**** Thanks to all the bootblacks who helped with this. ****
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1031-273Y Dr. Vittoria Repetto – Chiropractor / Applied Kinesiologist / Nutritional Consultation. Dedicated to providing my patients with the holistic therapies and the personalized education they need to regain and maintain their optimal health. 285 West B’way @ Canal St., NYC 212 – 431 – 3724 www.drvittoriarepetto.meta-ehealth.com DrVittoriaRepett@aol.com
One of the Top Ten NYC Chiropractors: New Life Magazine, Sept 2001.
1034-278Y Purple Passion / DV8, we have one of the largest selections of corsets, leather, latex & PVC clothing for men and women. We do custom corsets, clothing and harnesses. We now have art work for sale and our next show will open this weekend. Hours: Wed Noon-7pm, Thurs & Fri Noon-9pm, Sat Noon-8pm Sun Noon-7pm. Mon & Tues Noon-7pm. 211 West 20th Street. Tel 212-807-0486, www.purplepassion.com
1032-283H The Baroness, designer of Elegant, Provocative Latex Fashions. The Fetish Retinue will start up again September 12. http://www.Baroness.com or call 212 529 5964.
1017-284B EXPLORE THE HEAT, HEART & SPIRIT OF BDSM – Dominant Women and Women who switch, empower your self & develop the skills you need to become the Top you want be and make your scenes soar. Cleo Dubois Academy of S/M Arts and Sybil Holiday offer: EROTIC DOMINANCE INTENSIVES FOR WOMEN Players Course – October 28-31, enrolling now! Each San Francisco Intensive is Limited to 8 women. Info http://www.sm-arts.com -Email: CleoDubois@sm-arts.com
1018-285B CAMPCRUCIBLE.COM – September 9 – 13, 2004. FIVE days at the 7th best summer camp facility in the US! Day passes available for Sat and/or Sun. Offering the usual: Pony Camp, BDSM classes, multiple dungeons, kidnappings, Roy’s Camp Store, embroidery by NeedlePlay, etc. etc.
Your ad could be here! Email me if you are interested.
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August 27-29 in Indianapolis
Camp Crucible
September 9-13 in Southeastern PA
Dark Odyssey
September 15-20 in Northern Maryland
New Jersey Leather Weekend
September 24-26 in Asbury Park, NJ
FolsomFringe: smOdyssey Unleashed
September 24-26 in San Jose, CA
Pacific Friction
October 8-11 in Portland, OR
(I am teaching Caning and How To Be A Greedy Pig)
WALP
Oct 8-10 in Amsterdam
Dungeon 901
October 15-17 in Ft Lauderdale, FL
CineKink
October 21-24 in NYC
Together in Leather
October 22-24 in Charlotte, NC
Black Rose XVII
November 5-7 in New Carrollton, MD
GMSMA Leatherfest
November 13 in NYC
(I am teaching Sensory Deprivation & Control)
Servant’s Retreat
November 19-21 in Queens, NY
Fetish Fair Fleamarket
December 17-19 in Boston, MA
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Superboy gets spanked in 1959.
Have fun! Play safe!
Lolita Wolf
Lolita speaking only for Lolita, of course!
http://www.LeatherYenta.com
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Volume 10, Number 14 © Copyright 2004 by Lolita Wolf – Material may not be reproduced in whole or in part without prior written consent of the copyright holder. The views expressed herein are exclusively those of the author and do not represent the views of any other person or any organization with which the author may be associated.
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QUOTATION OF THE WEEK
“Don’t cry because it’s over. Smile because it happened.”
– Theodor Seuss Geisel aka Dr. Suess
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MASTER SLAVE CONFERENCE
Last weekend, Boymeat and I headed down to Washington, DC to attend the Master Slave Conference. This was a very well run event and extremely well planned. Much of this was due to the slave labor of many great volunteers. The Marriott Residence Hotel in Thomas Circle was wonderful – new, clean and friendly to us.
We arrived in time for the opening ceremonies, which featured an inspiring keynote speech by Steve Sampson. After that we headed over to Hamburger Mary’s for some great burgers with Bearman, Lawrence and David Palm. Afterwards, we went upstairs to Titan’s Bar, where a Slave Auction was being held to raise money for the NE Master/slave travel fund. We got there and I found out that Master John had bought me Kip. We made a date for later in the weekend. Kip brought me coffee and breakfast in bed on Sunday and gave me a really nice massage. Thanks, Master John!
On Saturday, I taught a class on Multidimensional Master/slave Relationships where we discussed how to relate to each other in many different ways while still maintaining a M/s dynamic. I also did a presentation with Boymeat called “Putting A Boy In His Place” which was quite spontaneous and intimate with us talking about our relationship followed up with an actual demo.
I went to a bunch of classes because the program was really outstanding. If there was a common theme that kept popping up in many of the classes, it had to do with whether M/s relationships were compatible with love and/or romance. I think that question will continue to be debated. There is no one right answer for everybody.
On Saturday night, we went to dinner at Kramer’s with Master John and Beast. Kramer’s is in Dupont Circle, walking distance from our hotel. It is one of my favorite restaurants. I was sorry that we missed the Northeast Master/slave Contest. I wanted to cheer Sir Stephen and slave catherine on, but timing was tight and we needed to spend some quality time with Master John and Beast. The activities at these conferences are valid, but sometimes connecting with people who are important to me takes precedence. Anyway, Sir Stephen and slave catherine won without us there and we were very happy to hear about it.
Later, we went to The Crucible to play. Master John and I co-topped Beast. It had been a long time since I had played with Beast and it was good to play again. More classes on Sunday and then we had a meal with Glenda and Amy, A really nice trip!
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TONY DEBLASE SCHOLARSHIP FUND
In 2001, in memory of Tony DeBlase, Aubrey Sparks created the Tony DeBlase Scholarship Fund. The goal was to raise $25,000 to create an endowment fund to give scholarships to “students entering the fields of sex education, sex therapy, research or something that furthers the understanding of human sexuality, especially alternative sexuality.”
The fund is more than 90% complete and needs less than $2500. Let’s try to finish it out. Info: http://leatherdaddy.com/scholarship.html
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BR XVII – “CELEBRATING OUR ROOTS”
Black Rose has officially announced BRXVII, its annual pansexual extravaganza of programs and play, socializing and shopping. Held at the usual location in New Carrollton, Md., on November 5-7, the entire event – programs, play, and vending – will once again be under one roof. The hotel is under new and more welcoming ownership, and rooms and facilities have been renovated.
Classes will be presented by such nationally known speakers as Catherine Gross, Travis, Jack McG., Jay Wiseman, Vi Johnson, Chris M., Fifth Angel, Lolita Wolf, Joansie, and Glenda Rider as well as local Black Rose favorites such as Rose V., Big Mark, Frazier, Bondage Thomas, Mitzi, and many more. If you’d like to offer to present, send your topic(s), a 50 word description and a 40 word bio to programming@br.org
The opening-night top/bottom auction will kick off the play activities, and, in finest BR tradition, the evening events will benefit this year’s featured organizations: the Leather Archives & Museum and the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom. This year, attendance will be held to a carefully controlled number and BR’s block of rooms in the host hotel will be offered in registration-number order. Info: http://www.br.org
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THE WANT ADS
Thanks to my sponsors!
1052-255Y SINGLETAILS IN THE SCENE, a NEW 2 hour instructional video is now available. Learn basic & advanced throws. Learn how to practice. Learn how to use a signal whip on someone from light & sensual to heavy & intense. Includes four actual scenes. Only $35.00 + shipping & handling. http://www.SingletailsInTheScene.com
1012-261Y KINK-SENSITIVE PSYCHOTHERAPY: IPG Counseling; 20 yrs. of caring for L/G/B/T, BDSM & Poly communities. Offices in Highland Park, Freehold and Jersey City, NJ. 24 therapists on staff. Dr. Margaret Nichols, Director. Call (800) 379-9220/ www.ipgcounseling.com
1031-273Y Dr. Vittoria Repetto – Chiropractor / Applied Kinesiologist / Nutritional Consultation. Dedicated to providing my patients with the holistic therapies and the personalized education they need to regain and maintain their optimal health. 285 West B’way @ Canal St., NYC 212 – 431 – 3724 www.drvittoriarepetto.meta-ehealth.com DrVittoriaRepett@aol.com
One of the Top Ten NYC Chiropractors: New Life Magazine, Sept 2001.
1034-278Y Purple Passion / DV8, we have one of the largest selections of corsets, leather, latex & PVC clothing for men and women. We do custom corsets, clothing and harnesses. We now have art work for sale and our next show will open this weekend. Hours: Wed Noon-7pm, Thurs & Fri Noon-9pm, Sat Noon-8pm Sun Noon-7pm. Mon & Tues Noon-7pm. 211 West 20th Street. Tel 212-807-0486, www.purplepassion.com
1032-283H The Baroness, designer of Elegant, Provocative Latex Fashions. The Fetish Retinue will start up again September 12. http://www.Baroness.com or call 212 529 5964.
1017-284B EXPLORE THE HEAT, HEART & SPIRIT OF BDSM – Dominant Women and Women who switch, empower your self & develop the skills you need to become the Top you want be and make your scenes soar. Cleo Dubois Academy of S/M Arts and Sybil Holiday offer: EROTIC DOMINANCE INTENSIVES FOR WOMEN Players Course – October 28-31, enrolling now! Each San Francisco Intensive is Limited to 8 women. Info http://www.sm-arts.com -Email: CleoDubois@sm-arts.com
1018-285B CAMPCRUCIBLE.COM – September 9 – 13, 2004. FIVE days at the 7th best summer camp facility in the US! Day passes available for Sat and/or Sun. Offering the usual: Pony Camp, BDSM classes, multiple dungeons, kidnappings, Roy’s Camp Store, embroidery by NeedlePlay, etc. etc.
Your ad could be here! Email me if you are interested.
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UPCOMING EVENTS
Ohio Leather Fest (OLF)
August 13-15 in Columbus, OH
http://www.ohioleatherfest.com
(I am teaching “Caning,” “Building Trust” and “”ABC’s of BDSM; and I am participating in the Celebrity Auction)
Black Beat
August 20-22 in Washington, DC
http://www.blackbeatinc.com
Camp Crucible
September 9-13 in Southeastern PA
http://www.campcrucible.com
Dark Odyssey
September 15-20 in Northern Maryland
http://www.darkodyssey.com
New Jersey Leather Weekend
September 24-26 in Asbury Park, NJ
http://www.leathernjonline.com
FolsomFringe: smOdyssey Unleashed
September 24-26 in San Jose, CA
http:/www.folsomfringe.com
Pacific Friction
October 8-11 in Portland, OR
http://www.pacificfriction.org/
(I am teaching Caning and How To Be A Greedy Pig)
WALP
Oct 8-10 in Amsterdam
http://www.walp.dds.nl/index2.html
Dungeon 901
October 15-17 in Ft Lauderdale, FL
http://www.leatheru.com
CineKink
October 21-24 in NYC
http://www.cinekink.com
Together in Leather
October 22-24 in Charlotte, NC
http://www.togetherinleather.org
Black Rose XVII
November 5-7 in New Carrollton, MD
http://www.br.org
GMSMA Leatherfest
November 13 in NYC
http://www.gmsma.org
(I am teaching Sensory Deprivation & Control)
Fetish Fair Fleamarket
December 17-19 in Boston, MA
http://www.nla-newengland.org/
Have fun! Play safe!
Lolita Wolf
Lolita speaking only for Lolita, of course!
http://www.LeatherYenta.com
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Volume 10, Number 13 © Copyright 2004 by Lolita Wolf – Material may not be reproduced in whole or in part without prior written consent of the copyright holder. The views expressed herein are exclusively those of the author and do not represent the views of any other person or any organization with which the author may be associated.
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>:<>:<>:<>:<>:<>:<>:<>:<>:<>:<>:<>:<>:<>:<>:<>:<>:<>:<>:<>:<>:<>:< href="http://www.thunderinthemountains.com">Thunder In The Mountains event was held last weekend in Denver with a dynamite line-up of presenters and a huge fabulous dungeon. I had a great time. I lucked out when Rich Dockter and Spike Mustang gave me their suite which I shared with Peggy O and Mommy Cara (thanks to Rich and Spike: Here! This is an AOL inch). On Friday night, after the Meet & Greet, a bunch of us celebrated Midori’s boy Khadan’ s birthday with a big dinner at Buckhorn Exchange. We had Rocky Mountain Oysters, Rattlesnake, Alligator Tail as starters and I had Yak and Elk as my main course. Afterwards, we went to the dungeon and I played with Peggy. It was a very therapeutic scene – I used floggers and whips followed by fire and she cried a lot. She needed to cry. Om Saturday morning, teresa brought me coffee and took a nice morning caning from me.
I presented two workshops (How To Be A Greedy Pig and Fantasy Role Play) and I attended several workshops. Master Jim and slave marsha spoke of the central role of obedience in M/s relationships. Part of what was very interesting was how Master Jim has added a man in service to him and how that has caused him to rethink some of what he is doing now that he is an a poly relationship. Joseph Bean’s class on Mastery made us all think. Jason Ryan of San Diego did a good duct tape bondage workshop and I picked up a few new tricks to add to my repertoire. By the end of Sunday I was so tired I almost did not go to a workshop but at the last minute, I wandered into Sharrin Spector’s Advanced Caning class. Although I have been to her class before, I went in just for the shear entertainment of it – she did not disappoint.
I played a lot this year. On Saturday I did a rope suspension with Cara. I used a really nice bondage frame in the dungeon. It was so nice I went to the website to see how much it cost – too much for me! This time I had her face up with legs spread. I started chewing on her feet. This made her crazy and she yelped and squirmed. The squirming made the ropes rub against her in a most delightful way… She enjoyed struggling in the ropes and I enjoyed making her feel the ropes all over her body. Later I did a spanking/caning scene with The New Girl and made her giggle a lot. For the second night I stayed in the dungeon until its closing time.
On the Sunday, there was a Thunder After Party at a place called Denver Harbour. It was a nice play space with great equipment but it got very crowded. I grabbed a perfect spot as soon as we got here a bondage frame on the wall in a corner. I put teresa in a body harness and then attached her to the frame. FifthAngel had been telling us about Joseph’s Spirit Of The Dungeon class and mentioned how important symmetry was. Being the rebellious sort, I did the ropes asymmetrical and told FifthAngel that symmetry was for pussies. I also added rows of clips in an asymmetrical fashion as well. I think the asymmetry worked when totally unplanned my ropes ends met at theirs ends. I also had teresa guess how many clips I had on her. She guessed 53 but I had only put on 52, so I added one … to her septum. I warned teresa that there would be a little girl element to this scene. I spent a while threading cord thru the clips. She did not know what was happening when I started running away from her with the long cord. I giggled as all the clips came flying off; she screamed. Good thing that she was all tied up because she had trouble standing up on her own after that.
I had one other date. Last but certainly not least: Miss Elizabeth. The last time she bottomed to anyone was to me at MAL in January and now she wanted to play with me again! We did a yummy sensuous spanking and caning scene. I hope she will have time on her dance card for me at Dungeon 901…
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>:<>:<>:<>:<>:<>:<>:<>:<>:<>:<>:< href="http://www.leatherarchives.org">Leather Archives & Museum retired the mortgage on its facility at 6418 N Greenview Ave. Over $400,000 has been raised over the past seven years to purchase the building and make significant capital improvements to the facility. The funds needed to make the final $225,000 balloon payment have been raised.
The building was purchased and improved using donations from individuals, organizations, businesses and private foundations. No government grants were received to purchase the building. “This has been a grassroots fundraising effort since day one.” said LA&M President Chuck Renslow. “Our history is now safe behind walls owned by and controlled by the Leather community.”
The Leather Archives recognizes all donors to the campaign. “Whether you gave $5 or $50,000, you were a significant part of this victory” said Executive Director Rick Storer. A mortgage burning celebration is currently being planned for February of 2005.
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Leather Archives & Museum. “We thank all those that have supported us (both financially and with your valuable time), without you we would never have achieved the historic agreement with the City of Baltimore allowing alternative sexual expression venues to function legally within Baltimore.“
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August 6-8, in Dallas, TX.
Servants Retreat
August 6-8 in Philadelphia, PA
Fetish Fair Fleamarket
August 7 in Boston, MA
Ohio Leather Fest (OLF)
August 13-15 in Columbus, OH
(I am teaching “Caning,” “Building Trust” and “”ABC’s of BDSM; and I am participating in the Celebrity Auction)
Black Beat
August 20-22 in Washington, DC
Camp Crucible
September 9 – 13 in Southeastern PA
Dark Odyssey
September 15-20 in Northern Maryland
FolsomFringe: smOdyssey Unleashed
September 24-26 in San Jose, CA
Pacific Friction
October 8-11 in Portland, OR
(I am teaching Caning and How To Be A Greedy Pig)
WALP
Oct 8-10 in Amsterdam
Dungeon 901
October 15-17 in Ft Lauderdale, FL
CineKink
October 21-24 in NYC
Together in Leather
October 22-24 in Charlotte, NC
GMSMA Leatherfest
November 13 in NYC
(I am teaching Sensory Deprivation & Control)
Fetish Fair Fleamarket
December 17-19 in Boston, MA
Have fun! Play safe!
Lolita Wolf
Lolita speaking only for Lolita, of course!
http://www.LeatherYenta.com
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Volume 10, Number 12 © Copyright 2004 by Lolita Wolf – Material may not be reproduced in whole or in part without prior written consent of the copyright holder. The views expressed herein are exclusively those of the author and do not represent the views of any other person or any organization with which the author may be associated.
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LINKS OF THE WEEK
Butt-kicking machine:
http://www.ananova.com/news/story/sm_951809.html?menu=news.quirkies.badtaste
Have fun! Play safe!
Lolita Wolf
Lolita speaking only for Lolita, of course!
http://www.LeatherYenta.com
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Volume 10, Number 11 © Copyright 2004 by Lolita Wolf – Material may not be reproduced in whole or in part without prior written consent of the copyright holder. The views expressed herein are exclusively those of the author and do not represent the views of any other person or any organization with which the author may be associated.
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Volume 10, Number 9 © Copyright 2004 by Lolita Wolf – Material may not be reproduced in whole or in part without prior written consent of the copyright holder. The views expressed herein are exclusively those of the author and do not represent the views of any other person or any organization with which the author may be associated.
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