Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

The rabbi encouraged me to say a few words at the service for my mother. So, I did.

Oy! My mother!
My mother drove me crazy.
And so often she was right.
And that fact that she was right also drove me crazy.

My mother loved me no matter what.
She was always interested in whatever I was doing.
She was always there to support all of my endeavors.
She was always there to celebrate all my successes.
…even though she did not always understand them.

I am a very lucky person to have had such a fabulous mother.
Thanks, Ma!

I woke up in the morning with that familiar sensation of needing to pee. As soon as I rolled over I was reminded that I still had the chain locked around my waist. But I needed to pee. Not wishing to wake up Don Quixote, I crept out of bed trying to be quiet, but the chain made noise on the wooden floor. And peeing into the chamberpot also made noise.

I crawled back into bed. DQ snuggled up to me. “Good morning, Princess!” He had heard me and he had enjoyed the sounds. “Would you like coffee?”

“Yes, please!” I stretched myself out in the comfy bed as DQ brewed me a perfect mug of coffee.

DQ dressed and went out into the cold with the dog and left me warm and chained up in the bed. Before he left, he pointed out where he had written down the combination to the locks. He wanted me to be safe in case of emergency. I didn’t worry about any emergencies. I also didn’t look at the combinations. I felt that would have been like cheating. I did pull the laptop over and checked the internet while sipping my coffee. I like waking up with coffee and a laptop.

DQ returned and inquired about breakfast. “Would you like oatmeal with cinnamon and raisins?”

“Yes, please!” I stayed in bed with my coffee and laptop while he made the oatmeal. The chain didn’t reach the kitchen either.

You know what? This being a captured princess thing is pretty cushy.

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My mother passed away. The service will be at 3pm on Thursday in Queens. If you are interested in attending, please contact me or Boymeat for details.

After dinner, Don Quixote and I sat in the living room. We talked and then he suggested that I go look in the Secret Room.

“Oh!” I leapt up and rushed to the room. The door was closed but the light was on. I peered in and the light was shining brightly onto a chain on the floor. The chain sparkled all shiny and new. It was attached with a purple lock to a ring that was installed into the baseboard. I picked up the chain, aware of how loud it sounded on the bare parquet floor.

“That ring is solidly attached,” DQ was behind me viewing my awe. Here was my fantasy coming to reality. My emotions were part excitement and part trepidation. DQ was also excited. He pulled his cock out through his fly. It was hard. I tugged on his scrotum and pulled his balls out, too.

“I am going to chain you up and keep you here.”

I began to run the chain through my hands. DQ had a sense of what I was doing. “Are you actually measuring the length of the chain?”

“Yes!”

“It will reach my bed so that when you are chained up I can use you there.”

“But it won’t reach the bathroom! If you keep me chained up in here, how will I pee?”

“Oh, but I thought of that.” DQ reached into a bag and pulled out a chamberpot. An old-fashioned enamel pot with a handle.

My mouth dropped. Wow! He had really thought this through. “It’s perfect!”

“Good. I am going to chain you up now.” He wrapped the chain around my waist and used another big purple lock to secure it. He then told me to get onto the bed. “You have too many clothes on.” He proceeded to undress me. And then there I was naked, wearing nothing but the chain around my waist.

“You’re my Captive Princess and you are mine to use. All mine.” And use me, he did. We had great sex and the chain didn’t get in the way at all.

Afterwards we lay in the bed and I realized that I should pee after sex. (Very important in order to avoid urinary tract infections.) So I got up and went into the Secret Room and squatted over the chamberpot. The sound of my piss tinkling into the metal pot was so loud. I loved the sound.

On Wednesday night The TES Bondage SIG will be hosting a great meeting with lots of opportunities for audience participation:

"Medical Restraints...Some Days It's Not Worth Gnawing Through The Straps" with slave 705-468-560
Various Types of restraints from straps to straitjackets have been used to calm an protect
patients throughout history. Come and explore various real medical restraints and learn how
to add a new meaning to "medical play". 705 for short has been excited by bondage since he
started grade school. He spends much of his time wanting, needing or enjoying bondage. 705
is the property of Julia.
$4 for members of TES and other SM/leather orgs; $8 for others
260 West 36th Street, 3rd floor
Doors open 7:30pm (no early arrivals please!); meeting begins at 8pm

On Saturday night, I will be participating in Spankfest, a fundraiser for the Actors Repertory Theater. I will be spanking people and my Spanking book will be in the Silent Auction. This looks like it will be very social and a lot of fun. Come on down.

Photo by Viviane of all the bloggers at January’s In The Flesh Reading.
(l to r: Dashiell Bennett (Fleshbot), Jen Dziura (jenisfamous.com) , Martha Burzynski (Alice Ayers), Nichelle Stephens (nichellenewsletter.typepad.com),Rachel Kramer Bussel, Allison Bojarski (crossfitnyc.com), Lolita Wolf (lolitawolf.blogspot.com), and T.A. Hines (Funky Brown Chick).

The ACLU has filed an amicus brief on behalf of Larry Craig saying that there is an expectation of privacy for sex in a restroom.

I am not at MAL. Missing all the fun. Boo hoo!

Did you hear the big news? Thor’s going to judge IML and Boymeat will be at Tallymaster!

I am still without my computer. Seems anything that could go wrong has gone wrong. Arrrggghh!

Here’s a link to some pictures of Thor.

Thor took this photo of me at the New Museum on Thursday night. His review and more photos here.

See Boymeat’s fabulous Rio Grande Leather keynote speech in the current Leather Archives & Museum newsletter.

An article about fire play and Seattle’s Wet Spot.

Viviane reviewed the Flea (with photos). And The Providence Journal reviewed it, too.

Results from my latest poll where I asked, “Do you enjoy watching two men play with one another?”
There were 41 responses in total.
Yes 90% (37 votes)
No 7% (3 votes)
Other: 2% (1 votes)
The person who said “Other” explained it as “Sometimes.”

I’ve got a busy week. I am teaching CBT at TES on Wednesday night And I am reading at In The Flesh on Thursday night. Come see me!

And yuck, I thought I was going to get my computer back tonight. Now, hopefully, it will be Friday.