Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Entries Tagged as 'BDSM'

In The Flesh

March 17th, 2010 · No Comments

On Thursday night, I’ll be reading at In The Flesh reading series curated by Rachel Kramer Bussel.  She’s put together a tremendous line-up for BDSM night which also features Melissa Febos, Selina Fire, Monk, Julie Powell, Xan West, Mollena Williams and Madison Young.  There will be free cupcakes and prize giveaways.  A lot of friends are […]

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Tags: Art & Culture · BDSM · NYC

The Competition

March 15th, 2010 · No Comments

When Don Quixote found out that The Poacher would be at the party, he asked me if we could try to set up a date for the two of them to bottom to Mrs. Poacher and me.  I agreed and a time was set. I sat down with Mrs. Poacher and we agreed to a […]

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Tags: BDSM · Scene Report

TONIGHT! Full Fetish Friday at Eagle NYC

March 5th, 2010 · No Comments

JOIN PREACHER, MR. EAGLE NYC 2010 FOR FULL FETISH FRIDAY BEER BLAST WITH AUCTION TO BENEFIT THE CALLEN LOURDE Community Health Clinic Bondage & Flogging Demos, Electro Play, Kinky Photo Booth, Prizes & Surprises! Come meet local IML Contestants & Judges TONIGHT! Auctioneer: Brian Kent, Mr. Eagle NYC 2004 FRIDAY, MARCH 5 The Eagle NYC […]

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Tags: BDSM

I am teaching at the Novice Rope Share March 6th!

February 9th, 2010 · 2 Comments

Novice Rope Share Men, Women, Trans, Welcome! In this workshop we will go over the fundamentals of rope. We will teach basic ties, rope aesthetics, and rope safety. Participants must be over 18yr. Date/time: Saturday, March 6th at 1pm. Location: Greenwich St. (btwn Rector and Carlisle; three blocks south of the WTC site) Specific building […]

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Tags: Bondage

The Last Chip

January 29th, 2010 · 2 Comments

Don Quixote and I ate dinner at the Empire Diner with an old friend of his. I had the grilled salmon, he had the chili and the friend had guacamole. The waiter had the same snotty attitude that most Empire Diner waiters throughout time seem to have. But the food was good and the conversation […]

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Tags: BDSM · Relationships

There were bells

January 28th, 2010 · No Comments

Yes, those are bells sewn onto my chest. I was at Southwest Leather Conference this past weekend and participated in the Dance of Souls, where some people have bells and ornaments sutured onto their bodies and others have hooks embedded which are then pulled. There is a group of about seven drummers who contribute to […]

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Tags: BDSM · Event Reviews

Question from a Reader

January 13th, 2010 · No Comments

I received this question through my website from a person who left a bad email address. It’s such a typical question that I thought I would answer it here. Q. Years ago I was introduced to some very basic BDSM by an older female lover. In that relationship I was always dominant. After we broke up […]

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Tags: BDSM · Relationships

Midori’s Rope Dojo comes to NYC!

January 8th, 2010 · No Comments

Rope Bondage Dojo® comes to NYC! April 10 – 11, 2010 Stage I Dojo:  Suitable for all, 18+ Location:  The LGBT Center Time:   Noon – 8pm both days Cost:   Single US$350, Pair US$600. Limited to 30 students Registration opens about 6 weeks prior to the Dojo date. Are you serious about improving your rope bondage […]

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Tags: BDSM · Bondage

TES sponsors NOVICE Men’s Group S/M Series

January 4th, 2010 · No Comments

For the 22nd year, Gil K will conduct a course consisting of (5) four-hour S/M workshops for both “Tops” and “bottoms” who have little or no experience (or who simply want to brush up on their skills). It is open to men who are at least 19 years of age and is limited to 25 […]

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Jack was a picky eater

December 22nd, 2009 · 3 Comments

Jack was a picky eater.  He didn’t eat a lot of veggies or fruits. He was a meat and potatoes kind of guy. One weekend, I brought my girlfriend, O, with me to visit Jack. O is a pretty good cook.  I told her about Jack’s dietary preferences and she made us a fine meal […]

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Tags: BDSM · Relationships