Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Permission

February 9th, 2009 · 8 Comments

She emailed me two months before the party.  “I know your dance card fills up so I am asking you now for a playdate.”  I told her yes. I ran into her a couple of weeks before the party.  “Don’t forget that we have a playdate.”  I assured that I certainly did remember and that […]

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Tags: BDSM · Relationships · Scene Report

Cake!

February 9th, 2009 · No Comments

Saturday was the third and final night of performances in response to Nayland Blake’s Mis-behavior Show at Location One.  To celebrate his birthday we had a huge chocolate cake with cannoli filling from Veniero’s.

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Tags: Art & Culture · friends

Are you koumpounophobic?

February 7th, 2009 · No Comments

So, I asked somebody to play with me and she said no. I am very excited about going to Dark Odyssey! I’m hosting the Cupid’s Arrow special event, teaching three classes and participating in the author’s meeting. I’ve also got a couple of scenes planned and am doing a podcast interview. I’ll spend time with […]

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Tags: Links and Stuff

Sugasm #158

February 7th, 2009 · No Comments

Sister Dee in devicebondage.com The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #159? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing directly to radicalvixenatgmaildotcom This Week’s Picks Sealing the Deal “A hand reached down […]

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Tags: Sugasm

Be Careful What You Wish For

February 7th, 2009 · No Comments

We went to see Coraline tonight and it was really great.  I love this movie!

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Tags: Art & Culture

Urgent Update on Winter Wickedness Issue

February 6th, 2009 · No Comments

As I posted yesterday, Peter LaBarbara and Americans for Truth are trying to shut down a BDSM event at a Holiday Inn in Columbus, OH and we need people in our community to call. We are at a critical time – the relgious extremists are calling out their people and right now the calls are […]

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Tags: Activism & Politics

V-Day is coming!

February 5th, 2009 · No Comments

I am not a big fan of Valentine’s Day. Too much pressure. Too commercial. Only suckers buy flowers on Valentine’s Day; it’s the most expensive day of the year for flowers. I told Don Quixote that we should go buy some dark chocolate on February 15th. It’s still just as good and on sale! But […]

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Tags: Relationships

KinkForAll New York City

February 5th, 2009 · No Comments

KinkForAll is an ad-hoc unconference born from the desire for people of the kink, queer, sex-positive and related communities to share and learn in an open and interactive environment. It is an intense, fast-paced event with discussions, presentations, and interaction from all participants. Anyone with something to contribute or with the desire to learn is […]

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Tags: BDSM · NYC

NYC Weekly Leather Dates: Feb 5-11

February 5th, 2009 · No Comments

Ami Emerson and Joey Nobody on publicdisgrace.com Thursday, February 5 The Baroness‘ Fetish Retinue Friday,  February 6 NYC Munch DSF: “The Invisible Leash, a How, When, Where, and Why Guide to Protocols” w/ Master Tallen StrictlySpankingNY: Valentine’s Spanking Party Saturday,  February 7 GMSMA: Leather Fetish Fashion Show IV ClubFEM NYC Party Skin Tight USA Sunday,  […]

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Tags: NYC Weekly Leather Dates

Please make the call

February 4th, 2009 · 2 Comments

Peter LaBarbera is at it again!  We need to make our voices heard. Action Alert National Coalition for Sexual Freedom Support the Holiday Inn Worthington, the Host Hotel for Winter Wickedness Please make a phone call now to support the Holiday Inn Worthington, the host hotel for Adventures In Sexuality’s (AIS) Winter Wickedness Event taking […]

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Tags: Activism & Politics