Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

Harmony, Calico and Lorelei Lee on whippedass.com Thursday, May 14 Queens Munch Suspension Party Friday, May 15 DSF: “Humiliation, Degradation and Objectification” w/Dr. Clockwork LSM: “Family Dynamics – Mommies, Daddies, Little Boys and Girls” with Siobhan, Angel, Anne, Alex Warner, Sebastien, Lolita Wolf & Marisa Switch Women/Trans/Genderqueer BDSM Party Saturday, May 16 GMSMA Workshop: “Erotic Photography” [...]

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Chad of The New Gay interviewed me and it’s a fabulous interview.  I sound really smart!  Woo hoo!

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The big event on Friday night was Porn & Brownies, hosted by Cunning Minx.  Nobody was really watching the porn, because we were all too busy saying hello and catching up with folks.  Viviane and I went to bed a bit early because we were really exhausted.  Of course, right after we left, the sex [...]

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Jim, Joey and Jay Jim and Levi Lolita and Glenda

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Babycakes Bakery (Yes, that’s Rachel Maddow’s photo on the counter!) When I originally heard about Babycakes, I sent the link to Rita and told her we needed to go here the next time she visited NYC.  This bakery makes items that are refined sugar-free, gluten-free, wheat-free, soy-free, casein-free, egg-free, vegan and kosher.  With these limits, you [...]

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I am off this weekend to Sex 2.0 which is an unconference type event focusing on the intersection of social media, feminism, and sexuality.  It’s a different kind of event for me.  I am really looking forward to learning, seeing friends and meeting new people. I’ll be spending an extra day in DC.  On Sunday [...]

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Bella Rossi and Maestro on thetrainingofo.com Thursday, May 7 LSM Member Safety and Orientation The Baroness’ Fetish Retinue Party Friday, May 8 DSF: “Eroticism, Danger, Fear, Anger and Knives” w/ David & gem ClubFEM NYC Munch Saturday, May 9 Stimulate Sunday, May 10 OBJECTify! New York Bondage Club Monday, May 11 Tuesday, May 12 TES [...]

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“So, let’s get together for a meal at the event,” I suggested. She gave a sidelong glance at her partner, and then spoke to me. “I don’t think that’s a very good idea. Whatsname will be there.” “Oh, okay, then some other time.” “Yeah, I’m sorry, but, you know…” “Yeah, I know.  S’okay. Don’t worry.”

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How awesome is it to read a blog from a woman in her sixties finding and exploring BDSM! There are not enough role models on the web who are writing about BDSM in their sixties.  This is great! Check out NCSF’s latest newsletter. Great stories. SWA’s I am a Sex Worker PSA shows sex workers [...]

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