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As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Entries from May 2009

Sex 2.0 – Part 1

May 13th, 2009 · 4 Comments

The big event on Friday night was Porn & Brownies, hosted by Cunning Minx.  Nobody was really watching the porn, because we were all too busy saying hello and catching up with folks.  Viviane and I went to bed a bit early because we were really exhausted.  Of course, right after we left, the sex […]

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Tags: Event Reviews

At the bar with friends

May 11th, 2009 · No Comments

Jim, Joey and Jay Jim and Levi Lolita and Glenda

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Tags: friends


May 8th, 2009 · No Comments

Babycakes Bakery (Yes, that’s Rachel Maddow’s photo on the counter!) When I originally heard about Babycakes, I sent the link to Rita and told her we needed to go here the next time she visited NYC.  This bakery makes items that are refined sugar-free, gluten-free, wheat-free, soy-free, casein-free, egg-free, vegan and kosher.  With these limits, you […]

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Tags: NYC

Road Trip to DC

May 7th, 2009 · 1 Comment

I am off this weekend to Sex 2.0 which is an unconference type event focusing on the intersection of social media, feminism, and sexuality.  It’s a different kind of event for me.  I am really looking forward to learning, seeing friends and meeting new people. I’ll be spending an extra day in DC.  On Sunday […]

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Tags: travel

NYC Weekly Leather Dates: May 7-13

May 7th, 2009 · No Comments

Bella Rossi and Maestro on Thursday, May 7 LSM Member Safety and Orientation The Baroness’ Fetish Retinue Party Friday, May 8 DSF: “Eroticism, Danger, Fear, Anger and Knives” w/ David & gem ClubFEM NYC Munch Saturday, May 9 Stimulate Sunday, May 10 OBJECTify! New York Bondage Club Monday, May 11 Tuesday, May 12 TES […]

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Tags: NYC Weekly Leather Dates

Vagina Music

May 6th, 2009 · No Comments

“So, let’s get together for a meal at the event,” I suggested. She gave a sidelong glance at her partner, and then spoke to me. “I don’t think that’s a very good idea. Whatsname will be there.” “Oh, okay, then some other time.” “Yeah, I’m sorry, but, you know…” “Yeah, I know.  S’okay. Don’t worry.”

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Tags: Relationships

Sugasm #164

May 5th, 2009 · No Comments The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #165? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. This Week’s Picks Confessional: Breaking the Girl “And that’s why I’ll love it, that’s what […]

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Tags: Sugasm


May 5th, 2009 · No Comments

How awesome is it to read a blog from a woman in her sixties finding and exploring BDSM! There are not enough role models on the web who are writing about BDSM in their sixties.  This is great! Check out NCSF’s latest newsletter. Great stories. SWA’s I am a Sex Worker PSA shows sex workers […]

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Tags: Links and Stuff

Casting Couch

May 4th, 2009 · No Comments

Scarlette Von Pink on Lochai is being inundated with beautiful applicants who want to audition for, so he has created Hogtied’s Casting Couch.  These girls are new to either bondage, BDSM or porn and have never been on  Hogtied is now being updated a second time each week with these amateur first-time […]

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Tags: Bondage · Porn

david stein’s Boots, Bondage and Beatings

May 4th, 2009 · No Comments

Finally, it’s here!  David stein’s short story book, Boots, Bondage, and Beatings, is out and available on Amazon.  I love david’s writing.  I got my hands on an advance copy.  Like his novel, Carried Away: An S/M Romance (my review here), the stories are plausible, well-written and hot masturbatory fodder.  And I love the cover […]

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Tags: Books · Reviews & Recommendations