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Entries from November 2006

Chelsea Girl

November 30th, 2006 · 1 Comment

I love reading Chelsea Girl. It’s her vocabulary that astounds me more than anything else. I need to keep referring to a dictionary as I read her to look up words like susurration, inchoate, metonymy or concupiscent. I also really love that it’s a sex blog that includes recent posts about farting and puking.

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Life-support system

November 30th, 2006 · 1 Comment

Time: Late Friday night Place: The social area at Just Play Her opening line was not a hello. It was, “Is that all you do?” The room got a little quiet. As if people could tell that this was the conversation they wanted to overhear. “Huh?” “Single tail. Is that all you can do?” I […]

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Tags: BDSM · Scene Report

Find Lolita – December 2006 and beyond

November 28th, 2006 · No Comments

December 1-3 – Washington, DC Black Rose: teaching CBT, Sensory Deprivation & Control and Building Trust December 12 – NYC TES Holiday Potluck Social – I’m Lolita Claus! Ho, ho ho! December 15 – NYC LSM Meeting: teaching “Tyings of Comfort & Joy” January 10 – NYC TES Novice SIG: teaching “How To Be A […]

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November 27th, 2006 · No Comments

Everybody has different edges. What some people think it edgy is often not a big deal for me. But then there are certain activities that other people think is not big deal but they unnerve me. Sometimes I just want to, no, I need to, push myself. For a long time I have been fantasizing […]

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November 25th, 2006 · 1 Comment

You notice me on the couch and walk away from Lily. You can be so fickle. You present your magnificent ass to me. I know you want to get spanked and I oblige you. For a little while. I don’t think it is ever long enough for you. When I stop, you turn over and […]

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Happy Thanksgiving!

November 23rd, 2006 · No Comments

Sweet potatoes with marshmallows seem so very Thanksgiving, so American. Being American is very important to me. I am first generation American, the child of immigrants. My mother would never make that dish. She made sweet potatoes, but topping it with marshmallows was inappropriate. Even when other family members would host Thanksgiving, nobody made that […]

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El Mirage

November 19th, 2006 · No Comments

It seems that El Mirage was shut down by the authorities this week. What a shame. I loved playing at that space and I have so many great memories from there. I went to a bunch of Throb and Submit women’s/trans parties there over the years. I’m hoping something else will replace it, but it’s […]

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November 17th, 2006 · No Comments

Jefferson and I fucked and it was amazing. He then held me down and pushed his cock down my throat. There was nowhere for the drool to go but up and out, down my chin, out the sides of my mouth. The drool bubbled up like a fountain and spilled out. It collected in the […]

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First fuck

November 16th, 2006 · No Comments

“You need to leave. Now.” If I spoke that way to any other guest, it might be rude, but it was Boymeat, so it was okay. As soon as the door shut, Don Quixote grabbed me and started spanking me. We stumbled back into the living room where the spanking continued. “This has to come […]

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November 15th, 2006 · 5 Comments

At the start of the orgy, we sat in the living room as people arrived one by one. The boy with the bleach blond Mohawk brought out a bottle of blue nail polish and began to paint his fingernails. He spoke about how he used to hang out with the radical faeries and went to […]

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