Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Tea & Sympathy

October 8th, 2008 · No Comments

I hadn’t been to Tea & Sympathy in about 10 years. It’s tiny and always has a huge wait to get in. But the other day, a weekday before Noon, I met up with Sarah Sloane and the place was almost empty. While a bit cramped, the place is quaint and our service was excellent. […]

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Tags: NYC

Republic

August 13th, 2008 · No Comments

Boymeat and I have always loved going to Republic in Union Square. We were very disappointed when we went this past weekend and found that our favorite dish, the one we both always ordered, was off the menu. We complained to the waiter that there was no Tom Ka. He told us many people missed […]

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Grooving at Florent

June 18th, 2008 · No Comments

We are sad that Florent is closing on Gay Pride. So, Nayland, Thor, Scott, Ollie, Boymeat and I went for one last meal. It was a wild time. Here’s my first video!

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Good after bad

June 4th, 2008 · No Comments

Van Darkholme’s BondageGods test shoot is up at Kink On Demand. Next time I’m looking to eat Indian in the Village, I am going to try Sangam. Looks really good and affordable. Let’s not go back to the days before Roe V Wade. Chinese man sticks 2008 needles in his head to mark Beijing Olympic […]

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Tags: Links and Stuff

Sidecar

May 12th, 2008 · No Comments

On Saturday evening, we went to Sidecar in South Park Slope, Brooklyn. It was oh so totally yummy and I would definitely go back. I loved the menu because it was a small list and then I know that the kitchen won’t be overwhelmed. I hate big menus! There were nine of us, so we […]

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My IMsL 2008 Trip – Part 1

May 8th, 2008 · No Comments

I flew in to the Bay Area a little early so that I could spend some quality non-event time with my leather family. They just bought an amazingly cute house in Oakland and have been discovering the neighborhood. Rudy’s Can’t Fail Cafe is open every night until 1am.Cute waitstaff. Great food. The next day we […]

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Tags: Event Reviews

I have an answer coming next week

March 20th, 2008 · No Comments

East 16th Street on Wednesday Oh! A hot new sex blogger. Hmmm, there’s a restaurant week in Brooklyn, too. March 24-31 I am leaving today for Frolicon. No email, no internet. Call me if you need me. kthxbye

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Bright girls

March 20th, 2008 · No Comments

Boymeat took this photo. Rita Seagrave was in town this week and the three of us went to Congee Village. Oh, so yummy. Both the food and the company.

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4th and Final

March 13th, 2008 · 1 Comment

I was not at all lucky at last night’s Porno Bingo. The other day I went walking along Atlantic Avenue in Brooklyn. I hadn’t been there in many years, and like much of the city, it had changed drastically and I hate it. Now, Urban Outfitters is opening there today. [Groan] The fuckers at United […]

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Spanky Spanky!

March 5th, 2008 · No Comments

Here’s my cutting after 8 days of healing. This was the second time it was cut.This is definitely a work in progress. A story in Time Out about Jefferson and his double life. For Boymeat: Swipebutt. First Magnolia and S’Mac, and now, Shake Shack is opening on the Upper West Side. I have never eaten […]

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