Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Rogueboi in the Dungeon

April 7th, 2008 · 1 Comment

Nyobi Khan and Wolf Hudson on tsseduction.com Rogueboi showed up at Frolicon and we flirted a bit during the day. He wanted to play, but I wasn’t going to be holding my breath. So, it was a pleasant surprise when he later found me in the dungeon ready to play. I had him strip down […]

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My Nap Strategy

April 5th, 2008 · No Comments

Brian Lehrer at WNYC has this group project going on about Nap Strategies. Well, I have my own kinky nap story to tell. It’s sort of a true confession. I was at an event with a friend. It was a Sunday, I was tired, but we had given up our room so I had nowhere […]

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Hot Chocolate

December 18th, 2007 · 9 Comments

Claire Adams and Sarah Blake on whippedass.com I was not the only one at the TES party at Paddles who thought my date was hot. All sorts of guys were tripping over themselves trying to talk to her. I found most of it amusing. But two of them stood out as being huge assholes. I […]

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I Got Your Number

September 26th, 2007 · 5 Comments

On Saturday night, I traveled down to Trenton, NJ for the Knot For Everyone (KFE) get-together. I was accompanied by 705-468-560. He used to have a name but now he’s just got a number. He’s a slave who is owned by Julia and she sometimes loans him out to me. I call him 705 for […]

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Yo! I’m floggin someone heeah!

February 15th, 2007 · No Comments

I don’t usually like to make waves. I find that I am likely to be accused of being a prima donna because, well, ya know, I am Lolita. So, I usually overcompensate and tolerate shit that I should not. I was doing a flogging at the LSM party on Sunday and there were some people […]

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No lube

January 22nd, 2007 · No Comments

Time: Saturday night Place: TES party at Paddles Kate showed up at the party wearing her Lolita outfit. A plaid flannel shirt and Wesco engineer boots. That’s what she wears when she wants to emulate me. When I see her dressed like that, it always makes me smile. Of course she did have to strip […]

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Boots in the new year

January 3rd, 2007 · No Comments

Back in the 90’s I had a play date with Mark Chester in his dungeon in SOMA. One of the coolest things was that he had these lace-up Wesco boots that he never wore outdoors. He reserved them just for playing. And I thought, one of these days… My first pair of Wescos could not […]

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Festival of Lights

December 19th, 2006 · 3 Comments

Time: Saturday night Place: TES Hanukkah party at Paddles I had a date with Redhead Sue and well, I did the cliché holiday scene: candles. Well, that’s what you do with a hot Jewish girl on Hanukkah, right? Plus, I hadn’t played with wax since Dark Odyssey. I put down tarps to protect the bench […]

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Life-support system

November 30th, 2006 · 1 Comment

Time: Late Friday night Place: The social area at Just Play Her opening line was not a hello. It was, “Is that all you do?” The room got a little quiet. As if people could tell that this was the conversation they wanted to overhear. “Huh?” “Single tail. Is that all you can do?” I […]

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El Mirage

November 19th, 2006 · No Comments

It seems that El Mirage was shut down by the authorities this week. What a shame. I loved playing at that space and I have so many great memories from there. I went to a bunch of Throb and Submit women’s/trans parties there over the years. I’m hoping something else will replace it, but it’s […]

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