Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Poly Class and Sex Positive Pansexual Play Party in Baltimore

July 21st, 2010 · Comments Off

Everyone is invited to a Sex Positive Pansexual Play Party hosted by the Friends of Play House and Baltimore TNG to be held at Play House in Baltimore on Friday night, July 30th from 9pm until 2am. I will be presenting a workshop about how to have more successful poly relationships at 9:30pm and open [...]

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New Year’s Eve in Los Angeles

December 13th, 2009 · Comments Off

The men from West Coast Rubber and Avatar are throwing a special all genders play party for NYE.

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She brought her own toys

November 24th, 2009 · 5 Comments

I had a hot play date on Friday night. When we spoke beforehand to make plans, I had asked her what she liked to do. “Spanking, caning, paddles, floggers.”  She then added, “I have my own toys.” I love that!  Yes, I love those activities, but I really love a playmate who brings her own [...]

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Suspension Party

March 12th, 2009 · Comments Off

I have heard so many good things about the Suspension parties, but I’m either out of town or need to get up early the next day.  But now they are starting at 9pm.  I plan to go to the next one on March 29th.

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Tags: BDSM · Event Reviews · NYC

Like Rube Goldberg

January 27th, 2009 · 22 Comments

Don Quixote and I went to a play party. I had a caning date with an extremely cute puppy boy. DQ asked, “Do you mind if I come along and watch your scene?” “Sure! It’s not like anything at this party is private.” We found the puppy boy and then the three of us went [...]

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Tags: BDSM · Spanking

Donald D.U.C.K.

December 23rd, 2008 · 15 Comments

That photo up there is my Donald D.U.C.K. paddle. At least it used to be mine.  I bet you are wondering why it is nailed to somebody’s basement dungeon wall. About six or seven years ago, I was invited to a D.U.C. party.  D.U.C. is an acronym for Dyke Uniform Club. They are extremely emphatic [...]

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Tags: BDSM · Scene Report

A boy and his sleepsack

December 12th, 2008 · 20 Comments

He brought his sleepsack to the party. He was hoping to find someone to put him into it. He had a definite good shot at that because there were some other bondage aficionados there. And he wasn’t even the only one there with a custom Mr. S sleepsack! Well, being one of those bondage freaks [...]

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Flogging Class and Play Party – Friday – Baltimore

December 4th, 2008 · Comments Off

Power Flogging Workshop with Lolita Wolf and Pansexual Play Party at Play House Studios in Baltimore this FRIDAY, Dec 5th from 9pm until 1am. Hi Everyone – Lolita Wolf from NYC will be visiting Baltimore this weekend. Please join us at Play House Studios for a special Friends of Play House Pansexual Play Party this [...]

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Priming The Pump

August 8th, 2008 · 1 Comment

Devi Emerson on fuckingmachines.com Don Quixote and I are both invited to the same party on Saturday night. Earlier in the week, he suggested that we have a play date at the party. On Friday he phoned. I took the opportunity to ask what he wanted me to bring. “I don’t know. What did you [...]

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Join me at Kinky Carnage

July 28th, 2008 · Comments Off

Come to Kinky Carnage at the Black Phoenix Dungeon in Philadelphia on Saturday, August 2nd at 9pm. Demonstrations by Lolita Wolf, Jocasta of Venus Ropes, Zelda, PyroSadist and others. Rope Suspension, Caning, Fire Play, Flogging, Spanking and Whippings. Games and prizes. Venus Ropes will be giving away 1000 feet of nylon rope throughout the night. [...]

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