Lolita Wolf’s Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don’t just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Priming The Pump

August 8th, 2008 · No Comments

Devi Emerson on fuckingmachines.com

Don Quixote and I are both invited to the same party on Saturday night. Earlier in the week, he suggested that we have a play date at the party. On Friday he phoned.
I took the opportunity to ask what he wanted me to bring.
“I don’t know. What [...]

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Join me at Kinky Carnage

July 28th, 2008 · No Comments

Come to Kinky Carnage at the Black Phoenix Dungeon in Philadelphia on Saturday, August 2nd at 9pm.
Demonstrations by Lolita Wolf, Jocasta of Venus Ropes, Zelda, PyroSadist and others. Rope Suspension, Caning, Fire Play, Flogging, Spanking and Whippings. Games and prizes. Venus Ropes will be giving away 1000 feet of nylon [...]

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Rogueboi in the Dungeon

April 7th, 2008 · 1 Comment

Nyobi Khan and Wolf Hudson on tsseduction.com
Rogueboi showed up at Frolicon and we flirted a bit during the day. He wanted to play, but I wasn’t going to be holding my breath. So, it was a pleasant surprise when he later found me in the dungeon ready to play.
I had him strip [...]

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My Nap Strategy

April 5th, 2008 · No Comments

Brian Lehrer at WNYC has this group project going on about Nap Strategies. Well, I have my own kinky nap story to tell. It’s sort of a true confession.
I was at an event with a friend. It was a Sunday, I was tired, but we had given up our room [...]

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Hot Chocolate

December 18th, 2007 · 9 Comments

Claire Adams and Sarah Blake on whippedass.com

I was not the only one at the TES party at Paddles who thought my date was hot. All sorts of guys were tripping over themselves trying to talk to her. I found most of it amusing. But two of them stood out [...]

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I Got Your Number

September 26th, 2007 · 5 Comments

On Saturday night, I traveled down to Trenton, NJ for the Knot For Everyone (KFE) get-together. I was accompanied by 705-468-560. He used to have a name but now he’s just got a number. He’s a slave who is owned by Julia and she sometimes loans him [...]

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Yo! I’m floggin someone heeah!

February 15th, 2007 · No Comments

I don’t usually like to make waves. I find that I am likely to be accused of being a prima donna because, well, ya know, I am Lolita. So, I usually overcompensate and tolerate shit that I should not.
I was doing a flogging at the LSM party on Sunday [...]

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No lube

January 22nd, 2007 · No Comments

Time: Saturday night
Place: TES party at Paddles
Kate showed up at the party wearing her Lolita outfit. A plaid flannel shirt and Wesco engineer boots. That’s what she wears when she wants to emulate me. When I see her dressed like that, it always makes me smile. Of course she did have [...]

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Boots in the new year

January 3rd, 2007 · No Comments

Back in the 90’s I had a play date with Mark Chester in his dungeon in SOMA. One of the coolest things was that he had these lace-up Wesco boots that he never wore outdoors. He reserved them just for playing. And I thought, one of these days…
My first pair of Wescos could not be [...]

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Festival of Lights

December 19th, 2006 · 3 Comments

Time: Saturday night
Place: TES Hanukkah party at Paddles

I had a date with Redhead Sue and well, I did the cliché holiday scene: candles. Well, that’s what you do with a hot Jewish girl on Hanukkah, right? Plus, I hadn’t played with wax since Dark Odyssey.
I put down tarps to protect the bench and [...]

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