Nowadays many people ask “What is your preferred pronoun?” This is a tidy way of respecting one another’s gender identity. Gender is not always so obvious and it can get even more complicated with people who are genderqueer and maybe prefer they/them or zie/zir or something else entirely. A few months ago I taught at […]
Preferred Pronouns aka PGP
September 2nd, 2015 · No Comments
My IMsL 2013 Keynote
April 28th, 2013 · 4 Comments
First I want to congratulate Sahra, the new IMsL, and Bella, the new IMsBB. This is a real milestone year with the Bootblack anniversary. Who could have ever predicted that we would ever have such a bootblack community of women? I am so honored to be this year’s keynote speaker. My first IMsL was in […]
Rope Camp Discount
August 18th, 2012 · No Comments
This September 26-30, I’ll be teaching at Rope Camp, a really great outdoor event held in Northern Maryland. I’ve been offered a $50 discount on the full event price or a $35 discount off the weekend for all my friends. To take advantage of this amazing deal all you have to do is enter this […]
Leather Levi Weekend 2012
June 19th, 2012 · No Comments
It’s official! I am going to Leather Levi Weekend August 9th through 12th. It’s a “Twisted Summer Camp” event in Upper Lake, CA (about 2 hours north of San Francisco). I’ll be teaching a couple of classes – probably Rope Bondage Basics and Cock & Ball Bondage. I attended this event a few years ago […]
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Money and Presenters
May 11th, 2012 · No Comments
There’s a lot of discussion going on about money and presenters. See Mollena and Andrea Zanin, who both posted this week and have sparked many discussions on their blogs, Fetlife and elsewhere. I teach quite a bit as you can see on my teaching page. Sometimes I get expenses plus a payment. Sometimes I just […]
LPN Flea Market 2012
January 29th, 2012 · No Comments
Leather Pride Night NYC will be presenting a special event: The Leather Valentine Market on Sunday, February 12th, 2012. This afternoon of fun, frolic and bargains will be at the Eagle NYC , 554 West 28th Street, (between 10th & 11th Avenue), NYC. The Leather Valentine Market is a sale of gently used leather and […]
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Just Play
November 23rd, 2011 · No Comments
This weekend, I’ll be at Just Play, an event designed to bring women and transfolks together to play and socialize and learn from each other. The event takes place at Play House Studios in Baltimore, MD. You must rsvp to Glenda for the address. Friday night is open play from 9pm to 2am plus an […]
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Rope Camp
July 13th, 2011 · No Comments
This August 3-7 I’ll be teaching at Rope Camp, a new outdoor event held in Northern Maryland. The line up of presenters is really incredible. I’ve been offered a $50 discount on the full event price for all my friends. To take advantage of this amazing deal all you have to do is enter this […]
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Leather Pride Volunteers are the Best!
June 6th, 2011 · No Comments
Happy LPN Volunteer Who is Doing it Again This Year I am coordinating the volunteers for the 28th annual Leather Pride Night in NYC! Would you like to be a volunteer? Most volunteer slots are only one hour which is a short time for a four hour event. Volunteering enhances your experience of LPN ands gives […]
Saturday Night NYC Event – Send an IMsL to IMsL
April 3rd, 2011 · No Comments
Come and join the Bootblack Brigade at the historic Stonewall Inn (53 Christopher Street) in NYC on Saturday, April 9th from 7:00 – 10:00 PM for an evening to benefit the 25th anniversary of International Ms Leather. It’s time to get your spring cleaning started and what better way than by having your leathers […]
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