Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Preferred Pronouns aka PGP

September 2nd, 2015 · No Comments

Nowadays many people ask “What is your preferred pronoun?” This is a tidy way of respecting one another’s gender identity. Gender is not always so obvious and it can get even more complicated with people who are genderqueer and maybe prefer they/them or zie/zir or something else entirely. A few months ago I taught at […]

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Tags: events · Identity

My IMsL 2013 Keynote

April 28th, 2013 · 4 Comments

First I want to congratulate Sahra, the new IMsL, and Bella, the new IMsBB. This is a real milestone year with the Bootblack anniversary. Who could have ever predicted that we would ever have such a bootblack community of women? I am so honored to be this year’s keynote speaker. My first IMsL was in […]

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Rope Camp Discount

August 18th, 2012 · No Comments

This September 26-30, I’ll be teaching at Rope Camp, a really great outdoor event held in Northern Maryland. I’ve been offered a $50 discount on the full event price or a $35 discount off the weekend for all my friends. To take advantage of this amazing deal all you have to do is enter this […]

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Tags: Bondage · events

Leather Levi Weekend 2012

June 19th, 2012 · No Comments

It’s official! I am going to Leather Levi Weekend August 9th through 12th. It’s a “Twisted Summer Camp” event in Upper Lake, CA (about 2 hours north of San Francisco). I’ll be teaching a couple of classes – probably Rope Bondage Basics  and Cock & Ball Bondage. I attended this event a few years ago […]

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Tags: events · Find Lolita

Money and Presenters

May 11th, 2012 · No Comments

There’s a lot of discussion going on about money and presenters. See Mollena and Andrea Zanin, who both posted this week and have sparked many discussions on their blogs, Fetlife and elsewhere. I teach quite a bit as you can see on my teaching page. Sometimes I get expenses plus a payment. Sometimes I just […]

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Tags: BDSM · events · travel

LPN Flea Market 2012

January 29th, 2012 · No Comments

Leather Pride Night NYC will be presenting a special event: The Leather Valentine Market on Sunday, February 12th, 2012.  This afternoon of fun, frolic and bargains will be at the Eagle NYC , 554 West 28th Street, (between 10th & 11th Avenue), NYC. The Leather Valentine Market is a sale of gently used leather and […]

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Tags: events · NYC · NYC Weekly Leather Dates

Just Play

November 23rd, 2011 · No Comments

This weekend, I’ll be at Just Play, an event designed to bring women and transfolks together to play and socialize and learn from each other. The event takes place at Play House Studios in Baltimore, MD. You must rsvp to Glenda for the address. Friday night is open play from 9pm to 2am plus an […]

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Tags: BDSM · events · Find Lolita · Spanking · travel

Rope Camp

July 13th, 2011 · No Comments

This August 3-7 I’ll be teaching at Rope Camp, a new outdoor event held in Northern Maryland. The line up of presenters is really incredible. I’ve been offered a $50 discount on the full event price for all my friends. To take advantage of this amazing deal all you have to do is enter this […]

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Tags: BDSM · Bondage · events · Find Lolita

Leather Pride Volunteers are the Best!

June 6th, 2011 · No Comments

Happy LPN Volunteer Who is Doing it Again This Year   I am coordinating the volunteers for the 28th annual Leather Pride Night in NYC! Would you like to be a volunteer?  Most volunteer slots are only one hour which is a short time for a four hour event.  Volunteering enhances your experience of LPN ands gives […]

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Tags: events · NYC

Saturday Night NYC Event – Send an IMsL to IMsL

April 3rd, 2011 · No Comments

  Come and join the Bootblack Brigade at the historic Stonewall Inn (53 Christopher Street) in NYC on Saturday, April 9th from 7:00 – 10:00 PM for an evening to benefit the 25th anniversary of International Ms Leather. It’s time to get your spring cleaning started and what better way than by having your leathers […]

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