Lolita Wolf’s Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don’t just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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I’m single

October 29th, 2008 · No Comments

Vendetta and Claire Adams on wiredpussy.com

I sat with a group of people and mentioned that I was single. “Awwwwww….,” said a pal of mine. It was said in a way to imply that being single was to be pitied. Like it was a bad thing. Like, who would want to be single? Like, [...]

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My new ex-girlfriend

August 4th, 2008 · No Comments

One of the concepts I teach in some of my classes is that people are too quick to slap a label on a relationship. I think many people are goal-oriented and eager to define what role a person should play in their lives. Often they decide that someone they recently hit it [...]

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Diamonds

May 17th, 2008 · No Comments

photo by Barbara Nitke
In an article about engagement rings, a quote from Kate Gielgud:
“I have wanted an engagement ring for as long as I can remember. My first impression is of storybook princes giving storybook princesses vast sparkly rings. So I knew from a very early age that it meant being loved, desired, respected and [...]

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1, 2, 3, 4! Sha la la la la la live for today

May 14th, 2008 · 1 Comment

Downstairs at Happy Ending

I went to see Last Tango in Paris this past week. Mostly, people focus on the sex and the age difference. But forget that. I am not interested in that right now. It’s how they had this relationship where they did not talk about their past or their [...]

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Oy! My mother!

February 1st, 2008 · 1 Comment

The rabbi encouraged me to say a few words at the service for my mother. So, I did.
Oy! My mother!My mother drove me crazy.And so often she was right.And that fact that she was right also drove me crazy.
My mother loved me no matter what.She was always interested in whatever I was doing.She [...]

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Complements

January 31st, 2008 · No Comments

Those design bears again. I wonder who does their PR.

The service for my mother is tomorrow and I am grateful that some of my close friends will be attending. I am taking care of myself in some classic ways. I split a pint of Ben & Jerry’s Coffee Heath Bar Crunch ice cream with [...]

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My mother

January 29th, 2008 · 9 Comments

My mother passed away. The service will be at 3pm on Thursday in Queens. If you are interested in attending, please contact me or Boymeat for details.

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My past (pt 12)

October 23rd, 2007 · No Comments

with Susan Wright

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Can’t Start a Fire Without a Spark

October 17th, 2007 · 1 Comment

Last weekend Jack Rinella spoke about polarity and how that enhanced power exchange. Now, Jack explained that usually his thoughts are not original, but that he will structure and present certain ideas in a different way. Sometimes I agree with Jack and think he is brilliant; other times I [...]

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Perception

October 10th, 2007 · No Comments

“Wow. You’re really hot,” he whispered in my ear.
He had been friendly earlier, but now he was acting interested. I figured it was probably because he had just seen me do a pretty hot scene.
“Yeah, I got skills,” I answered.“Yes, you do, but that’s not what I’m talking about.”“Then what do [...]

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