Before I found the Scene, the only place I really heard about bondage was in the newspapers when somebody died. I was strangely attracted to the bondage, but conversely, I was repelled by the death. I yearned for the hoods and the handcuffs, but I figured nice girls don’t do these things, and that if [...]
This August 3-7 I’ll be teaching at Rope Camp, a new outdoor event held in Northern Maryland. The line up of presenters is really incredible. I’ve been offered a $50 discount on the full event price for all my friends. To take advantage of this amazing deal all you have to do is enter this [...]
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You never need them until you need them. And at some point, you will need them. Trust me, you will. I needed them about 10 years ago with two bottoms who were tied up together. One of them got nauseous. I cut the rope in time so he wouldn’t throw up on her. Unfortunately, it [...]
This week I will be teaching two classes in NYC Tuesday March 29 Single Tails – The Epitome of SM This sexy activity can range from delicate to cruel. Lolita will speak about using a whip for play, different types of whips, the physics of whip motion, buying a whip and the cleaning and caring [...]
Q. What are good bondage-for-sex positions to tie up a man for classic penis/vagina sex? I mean apart from the spread eagle. A. Tie him to a chair! Like this: March is Question Month. You can ask your question here.
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The TES Bondage SIG presents S/M at the Movies: Knotty Cinema and Unrestrained Restraints! Thor Stockman returns with a new installment of his popular S/M AT THE MOVIES film clips programs, this one featuring the best (and worst) of bondage scenes and situations in Hollywood and foreign cinema, ranging from highly proficient and erotic Japanese-style [...]
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The next Rope Bondage Dojo ® weekend intensive will be March 19 – 20, 2011 in New York City at The LGBT Center. Online registration opens Tuesday, February 1st, 8am Eastern Time. Info & Registration: RopeDojo Space Limited: 30 students Cost: $375 /singles, $650/pair Prerequisite: Willingness for serious learning. Must be able to tie your [...]
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Tonight (Tuesday) is the annual TES Holiday Potluck Social. I’ll be Lolita Claus. Nayland and Pete will be my elves. If you bring a gift (maximum price $15.00), we will make sure you get one in return. There will be plenty of good food and good friends to help make this celebration special. Remember, if [...]
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“I want to be an object at some point during the weekend.” Don Quixote told me. An object? I thought about that. The first thing that popped into my head was a footstool. That’s classic. But it is also boring. I thought about what kind of object I really wanted and an idea came to [...]
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Novice Rope Share Men, Women, Trans, Welcome! In this workshop we will go over the fundamentals of rope. We will teach basic ties, rope aesthetics, and rope safety. Participants must be over 18yr. Date/time: Saturday, March 6th at 1pm. Location: Greenwich St. (btwn Rector and Carlisle; three blocks south of the WTC site) Specific building [...]
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