Claire Dames, Lobo and Sara Faye on thetrainingofo.com
The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #142? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form.
This Week’s Picks
Comedy vs. Tragedy
“Are you on your period? What? Did he just say…”
Ian, or, Sometimes Sex is Hilarious
“In short, it isn’t sex blogger sex.”
A Wish
“I wish that you could know the indescribable pleasure of being enfolded in your warm, gentle wetness.”
Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank
Editor’s Choice
Road Rage
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Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Forgetting
How Do You Flirt With Milk?
The Hunt
I Don’t Usually Date, but…
I have huge tits.
Men on Pointe
My Femme Cock
Nibbles and Bits: Vegetarian? Really? Doh!
Present and first love making
Sex Advice
How to Make Her Want Anal Sex
Play Safe
The Power of Suggestion- And How It Helps You Meet Women
NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Gisele Bundchen Topless and Nipple Slip Pictures
HNT – Purple Lace Part Two
Lady Sascha Does HHNT
Marta – Professional
Once upon a time HNT
Pornsaint Tara Tainton
A rose by any other name would smell as sweet -HNT
Sam Bound
Sex Humor
It did not work
When your mother has more sex than you do…
Erotic Writing and Experiences
Can’t Get Enough
Fiction – The Wrong Smith Girl
Getting to fuck the neighbor 15
Harder…
In any language,…
Le Cadeaux
Nine: of nasty names
Oh Honey, Make Yourself Cum for Me
The Parking Garage
Pointless
The Ride.
Rub a Dub Dub
The Second Time Around
Slow.Soft.Hot.Perfect
Spin the bottle-the conclusion
Tits~n~Teets 2
TNT – Part 2
The Wanting
Writhe
Sex News, Reviews & Interviews
Can A Film Prostitute In 1930’s Shanghai Fare Any Better Than One Of The 100,000 Prostitutes Working The Streets In The City?
Donate To Satine Phoenix’s Tantric Exploration
Escort X: Find great escorts
Spanking erotica interview with Alison Tyler
The value of erotic blogging
Wanted: Your Orgasms Caught on Tape
BDSM & Fetish
Auction of a Slave
Changing Cravings For Pain: A Survey
A Beautifully Cruel Predicament Bondage Scene
Cuntwriting
Fitting Punishment
The house in Vienna
July MVK: Play piercing
Leather Retreat 2008 – The Toll Booth
Mz Berlin Gets The Bastinado And Rack Torture On Hogtied
Necessary Roughness
Routine Maintenance, pt. 2
A Scene in Three Parts … (part III)
Taken and Collared as a Sex Slave while her husband sleeps
Telegraph
Trying on new shoes, Friday night edition
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Tristan Kingsley and Nika Noire on chantasbitches.com
On Friday night the Sex-O-Rama hosted three parties: a maledom party, a femdom party and a queer party. I checked out the queer party. Other than a scene going on in the sling, it was mostly clusters of groups socializing on the couches. I noticed the red-haired dolly right away. Nobody was playing with her and she did not seem to belong to anybody.
I went over and touched her. She felt so lifelike. I think she was one of those RealDolls. She was life-sized, but still smaller than me so it was only just a little awkward to maneuver her around.
I took her over to one of the less crowded corners. Somebody was sitting on the couch there. “Can I spank my dolly here?” I asked. The person got up right away. It is common etiquette in a play space that play takes precedence over sitting around.
I bent the dolly over my knee. She was a bit stiff. Like maybe she wasn’t really supposed to bend that way. She flopped over face first onto the couch. The dolly wore a short little skirt. First I smoothed it out for modesty sake and touched her through her clothes. But after a while I got curious to see what was underneath. I lifted her skirt and she had these beautiful pale blue panties with a little keyhole detail at the top. Very soft.I fondled her ass through her panties. The dolly was anatomically perfect. Her ass was full and round. My palm wrapped around each cheek perfectly. She was like a custom doll fitted just for me. I became more bold and moved her panties out of the way. I rubbed her butt with my hand. She was so soft like human flesh.
I sat back and lightly spanked the dolly on my lap and watched the party for a little bit. There was a bit more activity and the sling had a group around it. I spanked the dolly a little more intensely and got a rhythm going. I was very happy spanking the dolly. All of a sudden the dolly shuddered a bit. Uh oh! Was there some kind of internal mechanism that I had jolted? Did I break the dolly?
I don’t think anybody noticed anything wrong. The dolly seemed to be working okay again. I decided to pretend like nothing bad happened. I pulled on the dolly’s long red hair until she sat up again. She looked okay and it even seemed like her smile was bigger. Maybe that was just my imagination. I held her in my lap for a while.
Then I stood her up and straightened out her outfit. The party was a bit more crowded and there more people near us. I lifted the dolly’s skirt ad showed her behind to people. “Look at my dolly! Doesn’t she have pretty panties?” I liked showing off the dolly.
It was time for midnight snack. I left the party and left the dolly behind. Maybe someone else would want to play with her. I hoped it was somebody who would not cut her pretty red hair.
Tags: BDSM · Scene Report · Spanking

Rachel Kramer Bussel’s sexy little video trailer for Spanked: Red-Cheeked Erotica
was taken down by Vimeo. But…it’s still up on Blip.
Miss Heather is looking for a top.
Registration for Dark Odyssey: Summer Camp 2008 is open! This year’s presenters include Barbara Carrellas, Bear, Bobby, Lady Hilary and The Marine, Lee Harrington, Lolita Wolf, Nina Hartley, Sarah Sloane, Sharrin Spector, Sir C, Susan B and more!
Lochai’s images of bondage and fetish will be featured in a show August 4-30, at the World Erotic Art Museum, 1205 Washington Ave in Miami, FL. An opening reception will be held Monday, August 4th from 7-10pm.
A fun video of Bad Faggot mummifying Jim with shaving cream as a benefit for NCSF at Folsom Street East 2005. You can see me playing through with a couple of cane strokes.
“In a spectacular act of complicity with the religious right, the Department of Health and Human Services Monday released a proposal that allows any federal grant recipient to obstruct a woman’s access to contraception. In order to do this, the Department is attempting to redefine many forms of contraception, the birth control 40% of Americans use, as abortion.“ Read more here. Do something about it here.
“Master Drew” gets probation in sex slave case. What a dumb ass.
Tags: Links and Stuff

I sat a bit with Graydancer at the Baltimore Erotic Arts Festival. I asked if I could take some photos and, as soon as I brought out my camera, he had to grab some hemp and start tying. Should we read into his choice of pink flamingo? Perhaps he will be invited to the next Leather Retreat? He would make a good Oinker.
Tags: Bondage
Thursday night a group of us went to Rachel Kramer Bussel’s In The Flesh reading series. Here’s the ever popular RKB:

Susan Wright read from her novel, Pound of Flesh
, which is a sci-fi fantasy novel ith a lot of BDSM in it.
Kit and Sakura were on date. They met at Leather Pride Night.

Tags: Event Reviews · NYC
Big Mark was a good guy and I had a lot of respect for him. I had quite a bit of interaction with him because he was such good friends with Jack. He came to all the parties, but more importantly, he was always there when it counted. When Jack broke his back, it was Big Mark who organized a schedule so that someone could be there to take care of Jack at all hours.
Here’s the obituary from Black Rose:
It is with great sadness that we report that five-term Black Rose Board member and eighteen-year veteran of our club, “Big Mark” passed away over the July 4th weekend.
Mark was a long-time veteran of Black Rose, TES in New York, and SMART in his native town of Cleveland, Ohio. Mark made his debut in the kink lifestyle in early 1990 at the Black Rose meetings held at Reverand Harry’s Church on R street. Mark quickly began contributing his volunteer hours through service on the BR Board and also became known as one of the most entertaining and popular presenters in BR’s pantheon of educators. His classes on bondage, objectification, and ultra-high-sting impact play were often assisted by his lovely partner Arlene, whom he met at a BR Tuesday night lecture. Arlene, Mark’s partner of sixteen plus years, was with him at the hospital for his last moments.
A military funeral service will be held in mid-October (details to follow). A BR community memorial function is being discussed and will probably take place in the next few weeks. Plans will be disseminated as they firm up. Til then send prayers, Kaddish, and other spells out to Mark and his loved ones and friends still with us.
Tags: BDSM
Tags: Links and Stuff

I’ve added a new sex blog to my links. Little Submissions is a very original collection of fem dom stories by Jerry Jones.
Rona writes about how the federal government wants to change policy on Conscience Clauses and how dangerous that can be for women.
Rachel Kramer Bussel did a sexy little video trailer for her new anthology, Spanked: Red-Cheeked Erotica
.
A good interview with the new IML, Gary Iriza.
Well, not only did the write-up of The Toll Booth scene win awards at Leather Retreat, but my write-up also got Fleshbotted!
Tags: Links and Stuff
Tags: NYC Weekly Leather Dates
New from Joss Whedon:
Dr. Horrible! (and it will disappear on July 20 – so go now).
Nominate your favorite sex bloggers. Rori is composing a list of The Top Sex Bloggers of 2008.
Here’s an article that says that the Red Hook Ball Park Vendors will officially return this weekend. We’ll have to make another excursion in August.
Boymeat is all about his sexy new iPhone.
I am so tired of that pit in the ground that used to be the World Trade Center. The Port Authority says a memorial will nearly be ready in 2011 for the tenth anniversary of 9/11. Everywhere around the city new luxury condos are going up fast and tall, but the city can’t get it together to do something at the WTC site? At this point I don’t care what goes there: memorial, shrine, museum, shopping mall, offices, even luxury condos. I just don’t want this big fucking hole in the ground there any more!
Tags: Links and Stuff