
Olga Cabaeva on publicdisgrace.com
Public Disgrace is the new site from the Kink.com empire and it features public bondage and humiliation. I am fascinated watching the reactions of passersby.
This whole Jefferson custody case is dragging out and costing a ton of money. Check out the update here and donate to the Sexual Freedom Legal Defense and Education Fund if you can. It’s tax-deductible.
The Village Voice lays off Tristan Taormino. I’m gonna miss her column.
Viviane went to the live taping at Ultimate Surrender and took a bunch of photos.
Art Obama is a silent auction Friday night in Brooklyn featuring works by over 100 artists including Nayland Blake. This benefit supports support the election of Barack Obama and down-ticket Democrats.
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October 1st, 2008 · 1 Comment

Come and celebrate the awarding of the first Sex-Positive Journalism Awards! The awards will be MCed by Lolita Wolf.
The first 100 attendees will get a gift bag of goodies from the Sexies sponsors. There will also be a silent auction and raffle to support the awards, which will include fabulous prizes including original art by Julio Aguilera, Sophy Naess, and David Steinberg; signed copies of books by winners, judges, and supporters; sex toys; gift certificates for sexy pleasures; and more!
Meet the judges and the winners. Judith Levine will talk about her experiences with media coverage of sexual topics when Harmful to Minors was released. Carol Queen will be there. See a full list of winners, judges and more.
The party will be Saturday October. 4, 6:30-9:30pm, in the downstairs lounge of Splash, 50 W. 17th Street, NYC. $5 cover.
Would you like to volunteer and get in free and be guaranteed a goodie bag? Volunteer shifts are only one hour. Contact Susan Wright at wrightnyc at aol dot com
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Many of the events we go to give goodie bags to the presenters. This is always an appreciated gift. At
Folsom Fringe, we got goodie bags that included a really nice SM Odyssey coffee mug, chocolate, etc. Also included were these rubber bands with safety pins. Boymeat and I were totally baffled. What was this for? Anybody know? Anyone care to guess?
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In our hotel room at Folsom Fringe.
Boymeat has sexy new Wesco boots.
Not so easy to get them off.

On the bus to Folsom Street Fair.
Luckily, he once again had help getting them off.

At Folsom Street Fair.
Even more lucky, there were some people who got off on Boymeat’s boots.
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September 30th, 2008 · No Comments
MAN WITH SCYTHE, 1934
Designed by A. Raymond Katz (active in the 1930s).
Fabricated by Drehobl Bros. Art Glass, Chicago.
AJ and I visited the Smith Museum of Stained Glass Windows and American Art at Navy Pier on my recent trip to Chicago and I took this photo.
Happy Jewish New Year!
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September 30th, 2008 · No Comments
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September 29th, 2008 · 20 Comments
This is another Dark Odyssey story.
I saw Stew at Midnight snack on Thursday night. He gave me a big hug and a kiss hello. He’s really cute. We had met at camp last year. “I would love to try a flogging. Would you flog me?”
I looked at his big eager smile, and said,”Sure!”
We walked up to the dungeon together and stopped at my cabin to pick up some floggers. I did not bother asking him which ones he liked. He would have had no idea.
We picked a spot in the dungeon and I began to flog his back and his ass. I started with a light deerskin flogger. I used it lightly and told him that he could stop any time. I told him to pick a safeword.
He answered, “Pickle!”
“Pickle?” I laughed, “Pickle is a terrible safeword. It rhymes with tickle and if you said pickle, I may not hear it right and I may just start to tickle you.”
“Okay! Hot Sour Pickle!”
“Now, that is an excellent safeword.” I continued to softly flog him.
“Hot sour pickle!”
I stopped flogging him immediately. “Really???” I was shocked. I had been doing it so slowly and softly. I couldn’t imagine anyone safewording to that. “Hey, are you testing out your safeword?”
He laughed, “Yes, I just wanted to see if it worked.”
“Okay, it does. Don’t worry about it. Do you want to continue?”
“Yes, of course!”
I continued flogging him, slowly and gently and gradually building up. I read his body and could see that he was definitely not a masochist, But I was happy to introduce him to the experience.
When it was over, he asked if he could kiss me. I responded by kissing him. He was an excellent kisser and I enjoyed kissing him.
“Kissing you has made my cock hard.”
I reached down and put my hand on his cock. “Wow, that’s a beautiful cock.”
“I usually masturbate every day, but I haven’t come in two weeks. I promised Sandy that I would save it for tomorrow’s Bukkake party.”
“Wow, two weeks.” I held his cock tightly in my hand.
“Do you want to fuck for a little bit? I would have to stop when I get close.”
“Yes!” I ran off to get a condom and some lube.
The fucking felt good. And then just as it felt really good, he had to stop.
I had to respect a guy who keeps his promises.
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September 26th, 2008 · 1 Comment
On Wednesday I opened up a new bank account at WaMu. On Thursday, they went under.
I’m in California now.
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September 25th, 2008 · No Comments

Derrick Pierce and Robyn Truelove on fuckedandbound.com
Thursday, September 25
Friday, September 26
Le Cercle des Dommes meeting
DSF: “D/s From Both Sides of the Leash ” w/ Lady Elaina
PARADISE LOST Vampire/Fetish Party
Saturday, September 27
The Equestrian Club at TES: “The Return of TEC” with Thrash
Rope Share
Submit party
Sunday, September 28
Kinky Jews: A History of Jews, Sex and Politics on the Lower East Side Walking Tour
Cat O’ Nine Fetish Gala
Suspension Play Party
Monday, September 29
Conversio Virium Meeting: “Acceptance and Relationships in BDSM” w/ Dr. Charley Ferrer
Tuesday, September 30
TES: “The Mistress Didi*’s Transcendent Trampling™ Workshop” with Mistress Didi
Wednesday, October 1
TES Dominant Men/submissive women’s Group: “D/S and Love will take you to New Heights an examination of Formal vs.Relaxed D/S”
Pleasure Salon
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September 25th, 2008 · No Comments
Are you registered to vote? Deadlines are looming. Do it now!
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