Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

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Friends at Folsom Street Fair 2008

October 7th, 2008 · 1 Comment

Jay Harcourt

Jay Wiseman

Kelly and Levi

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Working at Folsom Street Fair

October 6th, 2008 · No Comments

I was at Folsom Street Fair with no real responsibilities and I really enjoyed that. We ran into friends who were working.

Darryl Flick was looking fine in his apron working for Elbow Grease.

Q (International Ms Bootblack 2008) was blacking boots.

Kelly and Susan.
Susan Wright was working at the fair as the media person for FSF.
She met friendly journalists.
She also had a face to face meeting with Peter Labarbera.

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True story

October 6th, 2008 · 1 Comment

Stew called me and told me a funny story. He was out having drinks with a friend. The friend was very curious about Dark Odyssey and wanted to hear some stories. So Stew tells him about his first flogging with a nice Jewish girl and how they negotiated “Hot Sour Pickle” as a safeword.

“Dude!” his friends says, “That story is on the front page of leatheryenta.com today! She wrote about it!”

Yes. I did.

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Happy Poly Pride!

October 5th, 2008 · 1 Comment

Hooray! I am Winner #1 in Violet Blue’s Sex + Advertising Contest.

Wow! The NY Times has a great fashion spread about lolitas. The clothes! The clothes!

My story got Fleshbotted!

Sir Stephen has been talking about this project for a while and it is finally up and running: The Master/slave Development Center

The NY Times wrote about poly during Poly Pride weekend in NYC..

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Sugasm #149

October 4th, 2008 · No Comments

Charlotte Vale, Princess Donna and Lobo on thetrainingofo.com

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #150? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing me directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom

This Week’s Picks
Art of the Cunt
“The point of the abstraction was so that they, although anatomically correct, are hidden enough in colouring and some of the external shapes to hide the image for what it is.”

Come Get Your Knife
“”Do you trust me?” I asked.”

Tangle of Limbs There is Softness
“But I know myself, I know my desire.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
Sugarbutch Star: Eileen

More Sugasm
Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

Sex Humor
I’m suspending my campaign…for a domme

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
A Day in the Life of… an Indie Rocker
Escort rules/client rules
Feminist Carnival of Sexual Freedom and Autonomy-#9
Fucking Words
Shame on You

Sex Advice
How to Talk Dirty

BDSM & Fetish
Bang The Bum Harder
Fucking and Flogging
How To Train Your Slave
Ins and (Mostly) Outs of Public Displays of Kink
Like a $20 Whore
She disappears
Submission

Sex Work
Is calling a phone dominant or seeing a pro domme cheating?
The Land of the Misfits
Princess Pussy Panties for Sale!

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Foot and Converse Sneaker Fetish
HNT- Hand In Glove

Sex News, Reviews, & Interviews
Catalina loves Kink.com CEO Peter Acworth
Happy Bisexual Awareness Day
Lingerie & Lipstick Lesbians ~ It’s Two, Two, Turn-Ons In One!
A Review of Vibereview’s Japanese Silk Love Rope

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Cliched Sex
Coming into Queerness – Toybox
Fetish Fair Fleamarket and Ellie Lumpesse – What a Weekend!
Heavy Metal
I Think We’re Alone Now
I’m imagining you
Monday Mirage (It’s back!!!)
Nothing Beats a Free Massage
There’s a First TIme For Everything. Confession #146
Trading my ass p2

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Find Lolita – October 2008 and beyond

October 3rd, 2008 · No Comments

CJ and Nick Moretti on BoundGods.com

October 4 – NYC
Sex Positive Journalism Awards: I am emceeing

October 18 – Trenton, NJ
KFE: teaching Tying a Pretty Package: Cock & Ball Bondage

Oct 31-Nov 3 – Washington DC
Black Rose: teaching CBT In A Nutshell, King Tut’s Kink: Mummification! and Contracts for Play or Serious Commitment

February 13-15 – Washington, DC
Dark Odyssey Winter Fire: teaching TBA

February 27 – March 1 – Dallas, TX
South Plains Leatherfest: teaching Decorative Piercing, Co-Topping and Metal Bondage

March 19-22 – San Francisco, CA
IMsL: coordinating the Celebrity Auction

April 9-12 – Atlanta, GA
Frolicon: teaching three classes TBA

May 15 – NYC
LSM: teaching Single Tails – The Epitome of SM

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Mmmmm… Lady Hilary

October 3rd, 2008 · No Comments

Folsom Fringe takes place in San Jose, which is also where Lady Hilary and The Marine live. They invited us to their lovely home and they are gracious hosts. And, oh my, Lady Hilary is the latest addition on my 100 Divas list.

The Marine and Glenda

The Marine and Glenda

Stephanie and Levi

Stephanie and Levi

Me, Monica, Sharrin, Karri and cru

Me, Monica, Sharrin, Karri and cru

Check out my hot date!

Check out my hot date!

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Wink

October 3rd, 2008 · No Comments

On Saturday, my buddy, Jake, Vice President of NYboL, will competing in the Mr. Eagle NYC contest. Doors open at 9pm contest begins at 10. Contestants judged in 3 categories by 5 judges. The winner takes home a prize package worth $3600 and will represent the Eagle at the Mr. International Leather contest in Chicago next May. I will be going to the Eagle with some friends to cheer Jake on after I MC The Sexies at Splash.

Tristan’s last Village Voice article is about the brothel at Dark Odyssey.

I was quoted about blood play in Time Out NY’s Sex Issue under a pseudonym.

Movie extras with Leather wardrobe wanted for a gay leather bar scene in “Taking Woodstock” directd by Ang Lee (Brokeback Mountain). Register at The Eagle on Saturday October 4 from 3 to 5pm. The Eagle will be closed Oct 14 and 15 for filming.

I am participating in the 7th annual Boobie-thon. Go look at boobs and maybe make a donation to support cancer research.

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates – Oct 2-8

October 2nd, 2008 · No Comments

Tia Ling and Derrick Pierce on sexandsubmission.com

Thursday, October 2

Friday, October 3
NYC Munch
DSF: “Seduction, Play Abduction, Play Rape” w/ Morpheus

Saturday, October 4
Poly Pride Picnic + Rally
Brooklyn Leatherfolk Munch
The Sexies Awards
Mr Eagle NYC
VII Official Foot Part/Stink Contest
NY Renegades All Club Bar Night

Sunday, October 5
MAsT Metro NY: “Integrating M/s into our daily lives”
The Baroness‘ Fetish Retinue: Circus Freaks, Dog and Pony Show

Monday, October 6

Tuesday, October 7
TES: “Domestic Violence: How To Do It Right” w/ Vetiver Lane & Damien

Wednesday, October 8
TES Novice Group: “Understanding Age and Daddy/Mommy Play” w/ Lady D & a panel of Daddies
GMSMA: “Electricity: Shockingly Affordable or How to Enjoy Your Electric Bill”

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Mr S at Folsom

October 1st, 2008 · No Comments

On our way into Folsom Street Fair, we stopped in to Mr. S. And look who’s living in San Francisco and working for Mr. S! Kirk! We were so happy to see him.

We did not shop too much. We wanted to get to the fair. But Mr. S has a wide variety of the best of everything. There’s even a whole room just for butt toys!

At the fair, we watched Richard Hunter, the owner of Mr. S, flog somebody.

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