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Sabrina Fox and Aiden Starr on thetrainingofo.com

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #152? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing directly to radicalvixenatgmaildotcom

This Week’s Picks
Help, My Friend Says I Have an Ugly Vagina!
“Say no to vagina prejudice!”

“Kiss My Boots.”
“One of the more unexpected hairpin turns I navigated in my “Coming Out” into BDSM involved a series of moments that were deceptively simple, perhaps even innocent, in a way.”

Yours, Sir
“I felt and then heard a low rumble of a slightly sadistic chuckle from him.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
Sass And The Sadist

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See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
The Crying Game
Cute animals don’t belong in my pussy
HNT – Shaking that Arse
Searching for something as yet unknown
Shame on you, part 2 [podcasturbation]

Sex & Politics
But People Don’t See My Fetish As Sexy! How Do I Write About It?
Red is the New Black

BDSM & Fetish
BDSM, S&M and Sex And The City
Girl On Top
Got to Love Subby Friends
“He Calls me”SLUT”” ~I call him MASTER!
I know you
My Muse-15th entry
A Quiet Night In
Sweet VS Saucy
That’s a great way to spend an afternoon

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
HNT Lucky Heather 3
HNT: Shut me up…
Half-Nekkid Queyntes
New York Leather Weekend – Sunday
Sublime Nudes

Sex News, Reviews, & Interviews
A Cocktease Session with a Leg Harness and Dildo
FAQs on Jefferson’s Custody Case
Recession Sex Toys
Top Five Tuesday – Bisexual Movies
VibeReview Fantasy: Bendybeads

Sex Work
Humiliation with a Tiny-dicklet Caller
Sex Work And Compassion: I Show No Compassion

Erotic Writing and Experiences
14 Days, 14 Girls Part 4: Kim
Duties of The Admired Fuck
First Day on the Job
The First Squirt
Intoxication
Let me introduce you to my special talent….
Neighbor’s Hot Tub
Possession
Privacy Please
Rebel in the Wild
A Return to Form
Seductive Sin
She can take more.
Someplace I’ve never been, part 3
Stripper Academy
Thrill In The Woods – Chapter 2
Wanting to Be Wanted
Wet Spots

Beverly Hills and Berlin on Chanta’s Bitches

Thursday, October 30

Friday, October 31
TES Nightmare Menagerie Halloween Party w/ Antonia & Goddess Coko
The SMack! Zombie Fetish Ball
Paradise Lost party

Saturday, November 1
DSF: Darkside Halloween Fetish Ball

Sunday, November 2
LSM Safety & Orientation for Pledge Members
MAsT Metro NY: “How to maintain your identity when you are not in an M/s relationship”
The Baroness‘ Fetish Retinue: The Baroness’ Birthday and Masquerade Ball

Monday, November 3

Tuesday, November 4
TES: “Converting a Vanilla” w/ Margaret Davis

Wednesday, November 5
TES Equestrian Club (TEC): “Performing at a Fetish Event… How to create a Winning Performance Piece”
Pleasure Salon

Vendetta and Claire Adams on wiredpussy.com

I sat with a group of people and mentioned that I was single. “Awwwwww….,” said a pal of mine. It was said in a way to imply that being single was to be pitied. Like it was a bad thing. Like, who would want to be single? Like, don’t worry, some day your prince will come.

Some people are single because they are between relationships. For them, being single is the sad default for when they are without a partner. Their ideal is to not be single. All is best when they are partnered. It’s their goal to be partnered. Time and energy is spent towards finding someone. Major stress while looking for the one.

I made a choice to be single. I’m very happy as a single person. I don’t worry about being alone. In fact, I enjoy spending time by myself. And I don’t have a problem going places by myself. I like being responsible for my own happiness. I like not having to worry about a partner.

I also like spending time with people and doing things with them. I have really good relationships with certain people, people I can spend time with and have adventures with. We have good sex. We have cuddles. We talk. We have intimacy. We don’t talk about where is our relationship is going to go to from here. We enjoy the here and now.

I’m having a lot of fun. So, don’t pity me. Or at least shut up and let me live my life the way I wanna. This is a valid alternative lifestyle.
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AJ and I went on a 90 minute boat ride where we toured the architecture of Chicago and then took a high speed ride on Lake Michigan.

At the turn of the century, because the Chicago River was so polluted, they installed locks and reversed the direction of the river!

Lake Point Tower

You’re not supposed to build east of Lake Shore Drive, but a loophole in the law was exploited and this tower was built on stilts on top of a garage on landfill. Built in 1968, it was the tallest building in Chicago. Designed by Schipporeit and Heinrich, students of Mies van der Rohe. With three wings, none of the windows face each other, every apartment has a lake view, and wind forces are lessened.

Marina City

I love these two circular buildings that were supposed to be like flower petals but really remind everyone of corn-on-the-cob. Designed by Bertrand Goldberg and built in 1959, it was made of concrete and was the tallest buildings in Chicago at the time. In addition to residential, office and parking, there’s a theater and a marina, too.

Trump International Hotel and Tower

Trump wanted this to be Chicago’s tallest building, but after 9-1-1, no building was allowed to be taller than the Sears Tower, so his plans had to be scaled back. I bet he’s pissed now that the Chicago Spire has been approved and will be taller than his building.

Van Darkholme and Finn Damion on boundgods.com

When I top, I love to step back and relax, maybe enjoy a beer, while I watch my bottom struggle with whatever bondage ordeal I have fixed for them.