Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Bondage on my brain

November 26th, 2008 · No Comments

Florida court rules ban on gay adoption unconstitutional.

Ann Coulter broke her jaw and now her mouth is wired shut. No pictures yet, but I love the image in my mind.

Spanky has started The Jersey boys of Leather.

Some parts of Brooklyn are now more expensive than some parts of Manhattan.

Even Gwen Verdon’s dancing to Beyonce’s Single Ladies (Put A Ring On It).

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Match

November 26th, 2008 · No Comments

Viviane took this photo of Match and me at the NYC Sex Bloggers party last week.

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Van Darkholme at IMsL

November 25th, 2008 · 1 Comment

Van Darkholme with Wolf Hudson on boundgods.com

So, I lobbied Glenda to ask Van Darkholme of BoundGods to teach at International Ms Leather in 2009. And she asked him! He didn’t want to teach, but he did agree to be a judge! I’ll get to meet him! OMG! Maybe he will let me auction him off in the Charity Celebrity Auction. I’ll ask! Whoo hoo! I am such a fan girl. Oy!

The other judges are:

  • Sarah Humble, American Leatherwoman 1994, Denver, CO
  • Lauren Ide, International Ms Leather 2007, Phoenix, AZ
  • Skeeter, Mr. & Madame S, San Francisco, CA
  • slave Alia Al’Barakah, Los Angeles, CA
  • Mistress Avalon, Hidden Eye, New York, NY
  • Gary Iriza, International Mr. Leather 2008, Pacifica, CA

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Stephanie in NYC

November 25th, 2008 · No Comments

Stephanie came to visit and I showed her my town.

Popover Cafe
a surprise date with Boymeat
shopping at Macys and 3 other stores
the classic holiday windows at Lord & Taylor
the fabulous Gothic show at F.I.T.
pedicures
some good sushi, bad service
the Catherine Opie show at the Guggenheim with LSM
Jackson Hole with the best squash/pear soup
my local diner
Nayland on a panel at the Brooklyn Museum
a play party
dim sum
special candy
Bolt in 3D
books at the Strand
Peruvian chicken
and she got to meet some of my friends

I really tired her out.

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Pause

November 25th, 2008 · No Comments

Check out this new cookbook. Be sure to read the comments as well.

Selina writes about the party we went to on Saturday night.

The TES Bondage SIG hosted Mac Koehler last week. He shares part one of his talk here. But you had to actually be there to see the fabulous suspension he did to accompany the talk.

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Pleasurists #5

November 24th, 2008 · No Comments

Olga Cabaeva and Penny Flame on whippedass.com

Adult product reviews from the last seven days from all around the sex blogosphere. Did you miss Pleasurists #4? Read it all here. Do you Have a review for Pleasurists #4? Submit it here before Sunday November 30th at 11:59pm PST. Please re-post this list on your own blogs if listed.

Want to win some free swag? All you’ve got to do is enter.
Win a free Level 2 Membership to CrashPadSeries.com! Deadline is Friday November 28th at midnight PST; winner announced the following day (Saturday November 29th)
Enter my Contest! Win Porn from Kink.Com! Deadline December 6th.

On to the reviews…

Editor’s Pick
HNT and Mr. Man by Essin’ Em
“She let me suck her cock, I let her suck mine (Femmes can have cocks too, damn it!). […] Holy crap – it felt so good…very intense, very amazing. It was like more traditional oral sex on a female bodied person (cunnilingus like), but while watching her mouth slide up and down on my cock. Hot. Mind fuck. God damn hot mind fuck.”
Note: I admit to being a bit biased on this one, because I really really really want a Mr. Man!

Madame Editrix
Scarlet Lotus Sexgeek

Vibrators
Fukuoku 9000 by Ansley Agnello
Hitachi Fun by sexie sadie
Tools of the Trade: SaSi by Jamye Waxman
Lost on a Desert Island with Gigi by Domina Doll on Viviane’s Sex Carnival
Waterproof Lustre- Diamond by Beautiful Dreamer
The Hitachi Magic Wand by Elizabeth
The Jester from Vixen Creations by That Toy Chick
The Hitachi Magic Wand by Ang
Silver Bullet by Writing Dirty
The We-Vibe by Ellie Lumpesse
Evolved Fusion Gemini by Coy Pink
Pleasure Tops by Ellie Lumpesse
LELO Gigi by Dangerous Lilly
Slimline G Twin by Domina Doll
Fukuoku 9000 and Naughti Nano by Nadia West

Dildos
Curve by Essin’ Em

BDSM/Fetish
Under the Bed Restraints by Ansley Agnello
Slinging It by Bad Bad Girl
TLC Japanese Silk Love Rope by Dangerous Lilly
Under the Bed Restraints by Adriana

Lube/Massage Oil
The Lube Project – Part 1 by Thursday’s Child
Aneros Lube Applicator by Sexorcism
Boy Butter by Scarlet Lotus Sexgeek
Climax Bursts Anal Lube by Writing Dirty
Sliquid Sassy Lube by Nadia West

Erotic Books
Nerve: The First Ten Years by J.D. Bauchery

Porn
Pay Per View VOD at GoodVibes by Domina Doll
Good Dyke Porn by Essin’ Em
Lesbian Life – Real Sex San Francisco by Domina Doll on Viviane’s Sex Carnival
Good Dyke Porn by Scarlet Lotus Sexgeek
In Search of the Wild Kingdom by Domina Doll
a box of kleenix, a video, and thou by Sabina TGurl

Sex Toy Storage
FYN XL Toy Box by Ansley Agnello
FYN Foot Long Case by Lolita Wolf
FYN Sex Toy Case by J.D. Bauchery

Miscellaneous
Strawberries and Champagne by Ansley Agnello
Luna Beads by Beautiful Dreamer
Exotic Fruit by Ansley Agnello
Jaguar Harness by Beautiful Dreamer
Liberator Fascinator Throe by Sexorcism
SexToy.Com by Writing Dirty
Getting a closer look at Jaguar by Kyle of Butchtastic

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Enter My Contest! Win Porn!

November 20th, 2008 · 57 Comments

Kylie Ireland on hogtied.com

Kink.com is my favorite porn company and I got some swag from them that I want to share with one lucky reader of this blog.

You can win a Kink.com package containing:
* Kink.com Best of DVD 2008
* 50 free Kinks for Kinkondemand.com (each Kink = $1)

Enter to win by commenting on this blog entry.
Tell me what is your favorite Kink.com site and why.
Entries must be made by December 6.
You must enter your email address in the comment form (it won’t be published).

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Cop and Cowboy

November 20th, 2008 · No Comments


Dogging
is Steven Meisel’s edgiest phooto shoot ever.

Macy’s Thanksgiving Parade will feature a Keith Haring balloon. It would have been his 50th birthday.

Today, November 20, is the 10th annual Transgender Day of Remembrance.

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates: Nov 20-26

November 20th, 2008 · 1 Comment

Lucy Belle on publicdisgrace.com

Thursday, November 20
Staten Island Kink Munch

Friday, November 21
LSM Field Trip to Catherine Opie: American Photographer
DSF: “Name That Welt: Straps, canes and implements that hurt” w/ Ted Erusservae
Apple Munch
Le Cercle des Dommes
Switch party

Saturday, November 22
TES: “Learning the Single-Tail Workshop” with Thrash
Brooklyn Leather Munch
SUBMIT party

Sunday, November 23
Suspension play party

Monday, November 24
CV Meeting: “Heart of Darkness: The Art of Sensory Deprivation” w/ Goddess Roze

Tuesday, November 25
TES: “Styles of Dominance: Leadership” with Sir Guy

Wednesday, November 26
TES TNG: “Knives and Pointy Things Workshop” w/ Dov

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Life and death

November 19th, 2008 · 1 Comment

Eileen and Maymay think there’s not enough art depicting submissive men. To wit, they have started a great new site.

Sweden removes sadomasochism, fetishism, fetishistic transvestism, sexual preference disorders and gender identity disorder from the official disease registry. In the USA, NCSF has a petition to the American Psychiatric Association (APA) to revise its Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders. Please sign the petition.

I entered Senator Chuck Shumer’s lottery to attend Obama’s inauguration.

Violet Blue has the well-crafted pages on fellatio and cunnilingus.

Thor posts a fascinating article and pictures about the gay movement from Life Magazine’s 1971 year in review.

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