Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

Yasmin Lee and Ranger on tsseduction.com

January 23-25 – Phoenix, AZ
Southwest Leather Conference: teaching Relationships From Scratch and Mixing Rope Bondage and Sex

February 13-15 – Washington, DC
Dark Odyssey Winter Fire: teaching TBA

February 27 – March 1 – Dallas, TX
South Plains Leatherfest: teaching Decorative Piercing, The Dynamics of Co-Topping and Fettered & hackled:Metal Bondage

March 19 – San Francisco, CA
The Citadel: teaching Fantasy Role Play

March 19-22 – San Francisco, CA
IMsL: coordinating the Celebrity Auction and teaching Mummification

April 9-12 – Atlanta, GA
Frolicon: teaching three classes TBA

May 15 – NYC
LSM: teaching Single Tails – The Epitome of SM

Bobbi Starr and Tia Ling on wiredpussy.com

Pleasurists is your round-up of the adult product reviews that came out in the last seven days from bloggers all around the sex blogosphere. Did you miss Pleasurists #5? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists #7? Submit it here before Sunday December 7th at 11:59pm PST. Please re-post this list on your own blogs if listed.

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On to the reviews…

Editor’s Pick
Ophoria Pleasure #6 by Wendy Blackheart
“Well fuck me in the ass.
No really. That’s what I did as soon as I got this toy out of the package!”
Note: How could I resist picking a toy called Pleasure #6 for Pleasurists #6? But more than that, this review made me want to own an Ophoria Pleasure #6, which is the highest criteria for my weekly pick.

Madame Editrix
Scarlet Lotus Sexgeek

Vibrators
Hitachi Magic Wand by Erin Leone
Slimline Vibrator Review by FeministInPink
Dynamic Duo by Erin Leone
Acuvibe by Sexorcism
Waterproof Rhapsody, Symphony Edition by Epiphora
Finger Sleeve with Vibrating Bullet by Scarlet Lotus Sexgeek
LELO Elise by Curvaceous Dee
G-Spot Dream Massager by Scarlet Lotus Sexgeek
Slimline Vibrator by Holden of Packing Vocals
Hop ‘n Rabbit Stroker Vibrator by Catalina Loves
The Seduction: Pretty in Pink by Domina Doll

Dildos
Cobalt Dutchess by Phaedra Fallen
Acute and Silk by Ansley Agnello
Don Wands Blue Tip Clear Rings Glass Dildo by Epiphora
Ophoria Pleasure no. 6 by Ansley Agnello
Pure Pleasure Glass Dildo by Sylvanus and Mina of At Longing’s End
Blueberry Twist Glass Juicer by Shasta Gibson of Stiletto Diaries

Anal Toys
Pure Perfection – njoy Pure Plug by Thursday’s Child
Bootie by Ansley Agnello
The Flexi Felix – Best. Pet. Evar. by Elizabeth and Gabe of Pornocracy

BDSM/Fetish
Upside Down by Lolita Wolf
Lollipop Crop by Sinclair Sexsmith
Leopard Restraints by Betty Rocket
Blue Leather Blindfold by Ang

Lube/Massage Oil
Babeland Massage Oil Spray by Erin Leone
Babeland Body Kit by Hot Movies for Her
Eros Bodyglide by Essin’ Em
Strawberry Cheesecake O’My Lube by Scarlet Lotus Sexgeek
Maximus – Best Lube Evah by Betty Rocket
Not a box of bees by Bad Bad Girl

Adult Movies/Porn
Straight Guys For Gay Eyes & Women Too! – Nick by J.D. Bauchery
Bree & Sasha by The Porn Librarian
Safe is Desire by J.D. Bauchery
Crash Pad Series, Volume 2-Unlocked by Domina Doll on Viviane’s Sex Carnival
Perversions of Lesbian Lust Vol. 1 by Domina Doll

Miscellaneous
Devine Satchel by Dangerous Lilly
The Velvet Touch Harness by Thursday’s Child
Jaguar Harness by Betty Rocket
How Dirty Toys Get Clean – Toy Cleaner by Thursday’s Child
Smart Balls by Domina Doll on Viviane’s Sex Carnival

I am spending some of my time remembering certain people.

Carmen Blue on publicdisgrace.com

Q. Hello and thank you for sharing your journal with me. I have a friend with a young man who is interested in humiliation. It’s not really my thing so it’s hard to give her ideas/advice – are there any books/websites you would recommend to learn more about this and how to do it effectively.

A. Everybody has a different idea of what is humiliating for them. What is humiliating for one person can be no big deal for another, or it can be terribly abusive for yet another. Many acts depend on context as well. What is no big deal at a BDSM play party might be devasting in front of his vanilla friends. It may be a good idea to establish an emotional safeword. Aftercare may also be very important – if you are going to tear someone apart, it would be imperative to help put them back together again. A good humiliation scene is customized for each person. Your friend needs to talk to her young man and get to know him and what buttons she can push.

Here are a few good websites on the topic:
Franklin Veaux
Wikipedia
Bound Lady on #submission
Kim
MsIn10sity

Lobo, Sabrina Fox and Billy on thetrainingofo.com

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #154? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing me directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom

This Week’s Picks
For tonight, we’ll forget who and what we are.
“I want to play with you all night.”

Please, please don’t
“It will hurt, but it will be fine”

Rough
“I want you on top of me.”

Sugasm Editor
Radical Vixen

Editor’s Choice
Sometimes You Find You Get What You Need

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See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Are You a Penis Person? [podcasturbation]
Ask Miss Bliss: Bi and Tired of Being Pressured Into Threesomes
College Confessional: The Naked Truth About Male Bonding
eHarmony: The Battle for Gay Rights in a Nutshell
Kinky vs. Queer vs. Straight Sex
L-O-V-E (the other L Word)
Porn People I Want To Hang Out With
Tie Me to the Ends of Love, Part 1
Wood and lace?

Sex Work
All School and No Kink make Princess a Bitch
Sex Worker Solidarity: Craig Seymour

BDSM & Fetish
At his house
Captured at Folsom.
Christmas came early…or late
Deprived, depraved, fucked and satisfied
Paula’s Story [Part Five]
Sex Camp 2008: Wherein I learn fishnets chafe
A Testament To Douchebaggery

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Catsuit
Femme Fatale
Iga A (Met Art)
Natali Demore tying Vivian Ireene Pierce Preview
Picture 47: the pet
Sandra Shine and Judy Nero
Silky
Sybil hawthorne trying on a ballgag

Sex Advice
Hot and Handy: Giving The Perfect Penis Handjob
How to Have a One-Night Stand

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Airport Conversations
The Back Wank
Cleo and Lisa
Commando
I want more
Lucid Dreams
My strippers are spying on me
Painting the Picture
So, about Monday night …
Tasting The Sun Flower
Twenty Four Hours
When Nerd Night gets nasty
Wrestling With Eric
Z Part 2 – Blade

Sex Humor
Blast From the Past. Confession #178

Sex News, Reviews, & Interviews
404 File Not Found… It’s Not Here, But Angela Is
The Cuckold – Cumming to DVD
NYC Sex Bloggers Calendar Party Post Roundup
Porn 4 Pussies: Crash Pad Series, Volume 1
Sex Toy Review: Lelo Mia
Sex Toy Review – The Zone

This evening I was given a sneak preview of Nayland Blake’s new show: Behavior at Location One, 26 Greene Street, NYC. Curated by Maura Reilly, the show features over 25 pieces from over 25 years of Nayland’s career. Some of these works have never been exhibited in NYC. The opening is Tuesday December 2 from 6-8pm. There will also be three live performance nights during the run, which ends February 14. One of these performances will be a live re-enactment of Gorge, where the audience will be able to feed Nayland.

So, come to the opening on Tuesday! I’ll be there for sure. More info here.

I am grateful that I have some really nice people in my life. Jake again graciously invited me to spend Thanksgiving with him and his crew. The food was delicious and plentiful. All the people were really friendly. I’m very lucky.

I made Jake pose with his trophy.

I have been hung in these Mr. S suspension stirrups while wearing my boots.  This is the most comfortable and safe way to go.  They’re on sale $50 off until December 5.

Wolf Hudson and Daphne Rosen on meninpain.com

Thursday, November 27
Happy Thanksgiving!

Friday, November 28
DSF: Thanksgiving BDSM Social
Paradise Lost party

Saturday, November 29

Sunday, November 30
ONYX-Pearls Northeast: “Sensory Deprivation”

Monday, December 1

Tuesday, December 2
TES: “Chastity Play – When NO is hot” with 705-468-560

Wednesday, December 3
TES Dominant Men/submissive women’ group: “Master Phil: A Continued Exploration”
Pleasure Salon

Nina, Isis Love, Monica, Bobbi Starr, Moxxxie, Kylie Ireland and Princess Donna on wiredpussy.com

That’s Princess Donna on the left.  She’s going to be presenting at Dark Odyssey Winter Fire.  I wonder what she’s like.  She’s very sexy and she looks like she may be a lot of fun.  I’m going to be there, too.  I look forward to meeting her.

Registration for DO is now open and prices go up December 1.