Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Vanessa’s Dumpling House

December 31st, 2008 · 2 Comments

The best cheap eats in the city is Vanessa’s Dumpling House, 118 Eldridge Street near Broome Street. Their specialty is the dumplings, but I never get them. I get the Peking Duck Sesame Pancake Sandwich for $2.25. A little greasy but I love it! If I am really hungry I get one of their fruit smoothies, too. By the time I finish that, I am too full for dumplings. Where else in NYC can I get a delicious meal for under five bucks?

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Crash Pad Series

December 29th, 2008 · No Comments

KinkOnDemand  has partnered with Blowfish to host Shine Louise Houston’s The Crash Pad Series.  Part 1, Part 2, Part 3 and Part 4. This is the best and hottest hardcore indie feminist dyke porn on the net.

All current members and new subscribers receive 10% off all KinkOnDemand shoots until January  5th.

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Baltimore and Bergers

December 29th, 2008 · No Comments

My trip to West Virginia took me through Baltimore where we got to see some pretty holiday lights. After my last trip to Baltimore, Thor threatened that he would no longer be my friend if I went to Baltimore again without bringing him back some Berger Cookies. So, Thor, I have Berger Cookies for you.

I tried the Berger Cookies myself. They are cake-y like NYC black and whites, but the frosting to cake ratio is much higher. It’s too much frosting for my taste, unless you are in a frosting mood.

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Bang bang bang!

December 26th, 2008 · No Comments

I am off to West Virginia for the weekend.  There’s no cell service or internet where I’ll be. More time for play!

I leave you with this little clip from the cruise of Leslie O. doing Karaoke.

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Sugasm #155

December 25th, 2008 · No Comments

James Deen and Megan Murray on sexandsubmission.com

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #156? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing  directly to radicalvixenatgmaildotcom

This Week’s Picks
I’m kind of … insatiable.
“She’s gasping already. Each breath a moan, each touch connected to the noises she makes.”

The most spankable day of the year
“And for spankos, they are a high holy day to be approached with all the reverence and gaiety of a Pagan-cum Christian holiday.”

Private club
“It’s that kind of club – the kind you have to know about, the kind that doesn’t even have a name.”

Sugasm Editor
Sex Work And Honesty: Being Childfree

Editor’s Choice
I Wonder

More Sugasm
Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Autobiography of a Masturbator: Porn O’Graphicus, Part 5
Believing the Bullshit. Confession #202
Good Girl
Performance pressure
The Truth is, I’m Lonely

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Angel Dark & Tereza Ilova – Close Friends
HNT: Tie
Purple Passion
Sibelle – Toyed
Vintage Kink Wednesday
What Santa Sees Through My Window….

Sex Work
High Heel Sucking and Dripping Dicks
Sex work and the right to choose

Sex Humor
Monday Mirage: Hundred Orgasm Woods
Who’s Your Daddy? Vader vs. Joker
WTF To Do With a Botched Trim Job

BDSM & Fetish
A Boy and his Sleepsack
Call my name
Feast
I smell like sex
My First Over-The-Knee Spanking
The only DIY Leather Hood on the net
Sex Life Snapshot
Tie Me to the Ends of Love, Part 3

Sex News, Reviews, & Interviews
12 Days of Christmas Sex Toys List
Beautiful Blonde Bondage Model Dia Zerva Endures Her Most Intense And Brutal Impact Play Scene Of Her Career
Bondage Model Christina Carter And Master Rigger Lochai In An Erotic Dance Of D/s on Hogtied
Fetish Pinup – Bettie Page dead at 85
Fresh Of The Presses, The Orgasm Bar 8 On DVD.
Fucking on Flickr
Hot Erotic Holiday E-books
On The 12th Day of Christmas: We-Vibe
Tribute to Bettie Page: Queen of Kink
Women In The Industry

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Almond’s Joy
Astrid, your mouth fucked my cock.
Casual Poetry
Headhunter
I Hurt
Mesmerizing Love
She Walks in Beauty Like the Night…
VIP anal, threesome, ATM
Windows

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We have a Ducky winner!

December 25th, 2008 · No Comments

We have a winner for the I Rub My Ducky vibrator.

The winner is Laken. This comment made me laugh:

Sitting back in my bathtub one evening, I spot a rubber ducky on the ledge. Yay! I think, an early Christmas gift. Santa knows all to well how to get this mom in the spirit. Well, after molesting the rubber water fowl for about five minutes, I realize this is not an I Rub My Ducky. This is child’s bath toy, and I just violated it. The toy was boiled, and now refuses to join me at bath time.

For everybody else, I am still offering you a 10% discount for online shopping at Babeland when you enter the code Butterfly at checkout. Offer expires December 31.

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Dan Watkins

December 25th, 2008 · 1 Comment

Dan Watkins passed away from liver cancer on Monday night.  I first met Dan through Jack.  He was always smiling with a big goofy grin.   I liked the tattoos he had on his feet.  Dan did a lot of his own leatherwork and always brought a new toy that he was excited to show us.

One time at Leather Retreat, I got injured.  I wasn’t hurt very much – it was not a big deal –  but Dan and his partner Barbara took me back to their cabin and fixed me up.  Part of their treatment was to made me a big slushy Kahlua drink.  They had ice and a blender at camp!  They told me that any time I needed more of their care, I could come knocking on their cabin door.

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Derrick’s Christmas tree

December 25th, 2008 · No Comments

Daddy Derrick has a big teddy bear collection. His beautiful Christmas tree is surrounded by them. And there are others around the house. And he is a big teddy bear himself!

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates: Dec 25-31

December 25th, 2008 · No Comments

Maestro and Kristine on thetrainingofo.com
I met Kristine and her Daddy at Folsom Fringe. I liked them both.

Thursday, December 25
Merry Christmas!

Friday,  December 26
DSF: Nasty Santa Fetish Play Party
Paradise Lost

Saturday,  December 27
DDeviousDelights 7th Annual Holiday Jingle Ball(s)

Sunday,  December 28
ONYX-Pearls Northeast
NYSwingersParty‘s Freaky Holiday party

Monday, December 29

Tuesday, December 30
TES: “The Erin Houdini Rope class”          www.tes.org

Wednesday, December 31
TES/DSF: “Gathering of the Tribes New Year’s Fetish Play Party & Arabian Slave Auction”

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You don’t know how lucky you are, boy

December 24th, 2008 · No Comments

My plane landed at 9:40pm on Saturday night and I was at the New York Boys of Leather Bar Night at the Stonewall Inn before midnight. I quickly reassimiliated myself back into NYC and got to hang out with my NYC friends. Vacation is nice but it’s good to be back!


Boymeat and Jake

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