Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

Ho ho ho!

The men from West Coast Rubber and Avatar are throwing a special all
genders play party for NYE.

Thursday, December 10
NYC TNG Thursday Party Night
Impact party

Friday, December 11
DSF: “Enema Play and Health benefits” w/ Dr. Mark, AKA StrictDr

Saturday, December 12
NYboL XMAS Party

Sunday, December 13
ONYX New York: DECK the BALLS III
New York Bondage Club

Monday, December 14
CV: “Story Telling” w/ Sassafras Lowrey

Tuesday, December 15
TES: “Annual Holiday Potluck Social & Grab Bag” w/ Lolita Claus

Wednesday, December 16
TES Dominant Women/submissive men SIG: “Holiday Social”

Tripod Man, Curt Wooster, Bella Rossi, Stigma, Sarah Shevon, Maestro, Amber Keen, Nina No, Madison Young, Maggie Mayhem, Dia Zerva and Maitresse Madeline on theupperfloor.com

Bert gets hogtied and suspended by Ernie.

More Muppets: The Muppets do Queen’s Bohemian Rhapsody.

Really good letter by Kate Bornstein to LGBTQ leaders about why Marriage Equality should not be the priority.

I just sat on Santa’s lap, told him what I want. I also told him I was naughty. Find Santa on FetLife!

Via Mollena, why Dominants can’t play cards together. Funny!

December 7 – NYC
Conversio Virium

December 15 – NYC
TES

January 22-24 – Phoenix, AZ
Southwest Leather Conference

January 28 – online class
Power Play Academy: How to be a Greedy Pig–Let Me Count the Ways

February 5-6, Columbus, OH
Winter Wickedness

February 15 – online class
Power Play Academy: The Greedy Pig Deals with Issues

February 26-28 – Dallas, TX
South Plains Leatherfest

March 8 – online class
Power Play Academy: The Greedy Pig Battles the Green-Eyed Monster

March 18 – NYC
In The Flesh

March 25 – online class
Power Play Academy: The Greedy Pig Loves Threesomes!

April 15-18 – San Francisco, CA
International Ms Leather

May 28-31 – Chicago, IL
Shibaricon

Jade Indica and Maestro on thetrainingofo.com

I recently wrote about Wicked Grounds, the San Francisco kinky coffee shop. I loved the tables at the shop.  Each one was an art project made with love by various volunteers.  Some of rthem were obstructed when I visited because they had just opened and were gearing up for Folsom weekend.

Ryan’s table

Mollena’s table

Thursday, December 3
The Baroness’ Holiday Fetish Retinue party

Friday, December 4
DSF: “The Kinky Female Genitalia – From Cruising to Female Ejaculation” w/ Danielle dv8
Strictly Spanking NY party
NYC Munch

Saturday, December 5
NYC TNG Meeting
ClubFEM NYC Party

Sunday, December 6
MAsT Metro NY: Holiday Social and Elections
New York Bondage Club

Monday, December 7
CV: “Trust” w/ Lolita Wolf

Tuesday, December 8
TES: “Deep Throating even the BIG GUYS!” w/ Danielle dv8

Wednesday, December 9
TES Novice SIG: “BDSM SLAM #3”

Sabrina Fox and Rain DeGrey on hogtied.com

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Mark Davis and Holly Heart on sexandsubmission.com

On my California trip, I made sure to stop in at Wicked Grounds in San Francisco. They are located in the heart of the Soma district on 8th Street right off Folsom. It’s a wonderful cafe that serves gourmet coffee, tea and soda along with delicious artisanal pastries and sandwiches. It’s also BDSM themed with special events and it’s for adults only.

Rose and Ryan are the proprietors.

The interior on a Thursday morning lull.

They carry all sorts of BDSM toys and jewelry. The rope is special 4 strand hemp that is made exclusively for them.
I bought one of those blue metal butt plugs (review to come).

The book case is color-coded:
pink for local authors and green for signed copies.

I returned during the Folsom Street Fair and they were packed!
Their window had live models featuring Dark Garden corsets.