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Interrogation – I looked up at him, feigning cluelessness. “I know you can understand me. So I ask you again. Where are the lenses?” Another strike. I crumpled into the bench.

Reconciling the Identities of Feminist & Butch Top – There’s something supposedly anti-feminist about wanting to dominate. There’s something in the feminist rhetoric which says we are all equal especially in bed, so that means I-do-you-you-do-me….

Fire and Ice – The rain comes down harder around us, the freez­ing drop pelt­ing what­ever skin lies exposed over the sur­face of the water.

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By the Twinkling Lights… – His lips found my nipples and I forgot about the cold. If a car were to drive by and the passengers were to look past the twinkling lights on the tree, they would have seen a naked woman’s rear end pressed against the glass wall..

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Ronjazz: Late Night Rendezvous – Meet me in the parking lot at the post with the broken lamp. 10PM sharp! Do not be late! Stand facing the post, eyes closed. Wear a flimsy dress and heels – nothing else!

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Diary Of A Pissed Off Wife
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Heat
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Our (Sorta) Intro to BDSM
Rising above the Background
Sex at 2am
The Babysitter
The Chair
The Beginning?
The Pleasure Chest
The Slut Chronicles #10 ~ The Interview
The Walk
Today’s Specials: Orgasms, Wet Panties, and Margaritas
Twinkling Heat
We are glass
What I Want

Kink & Fetish

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Awesome Body Mod Night
Co-Hypno-Topping
Day of Debauchery
Go Ask Teresa: Mothers
Helpless
Jack was a Picky Eater
Kissing Noises
My very first experience of BDSM
Mouth
Play Piercing? Seriously? Why?!?
Sounds and Catheters
The Taking of M

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Aftercare, Part I: The Basics
Ask The Negress: Privacy & Perversion.
Boundaries…
Do Slaves Deserve Love?
Gyne-Vestiphobia: Fear of Women’s Clothing
Let There Be Love
On My Experience With Sex Toys
Riding The Crimson Wave – Having Sex On Your Period
The Gangbang as Social Commentary
Titty Fucking
TPE (Total Power Exchange): A Novice’s Perspective
Weekend Fun

Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor

December 17th
God rest ye, merry cuckold!
You’ve Got To Be Nuts

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“You’re in charge of the music,” I told Don Quixote. I was driving home from our New Year’s weekend and DQ was riding shotgun. We were listening to the radio.

I like to delegate. Sometimes it’s stuff I don’t want to do, but usually it’s stuff that the other person does better than me.  And DQ is very good with the music.

Forty-five minutes into the ride, Lady Gaga’s Bad Romance came on. “You’re in charge of music – except when Lady Gaga comes on, don’t touch the dial!”  I love Lady Gaga.

An hour later, the song comes on again. I was a bit surprised. “I should not touch the dial when Lady Gaga comes on,” DQ said in a way to remind himself as much as to remind me.

“That’s right. I love Lady Gaga!”

Rah-rah-ah-ah-ah!
Roma-Roma-ma-ah!
Ga-ga-ooh-la-la!
Want your bad romance

For the 22nd year, Gil K will conduct a course consisting of (5) four-hour S/M workshops for both “Tops” and “bottoms” who have little or no experience (or who simply want to brush up on their skills). It is open to men who are at least 19 years of age and is limited to 25 attendees (non-TES members may sign up). Attendees must be comfortable working with other men – everyone participates as both top and bottom, as we demonstrate and workshop everything in a way that is enjoyable, fun and educational.

Among the areas covered will be basic bondage, spanking, flogging, tit and genito-torture, rope harnesses and mummification (see the schedule below). The course meets every other Sunday afternoon from 3-7 pm, beginning January 10. There is a one-time fee ($30 for TES members, $40 for non-members) that covers all supplies, notes and refreshments for the course.

For more information or to apply, contact Gil at novices2010@yahoo.com, and leave your name and phone number. If you prefer, contact TES at 212-388-7022 (in this case, be sure to repeat your phone number for clarity). Gil will get back to you quickly.

Only those officially signed up for the course may attend, and no new people are added after session 2. Do not apply unless you can attend most of the sessions (check with Gil about other attendance requirements). The workshops are held at Gil’s home in the West Village. If you are interested, make contact as soon as possible, as the course fills quite quickly.

• Intro to S/M; Being a Good Top/bottom; Basic Rope Bondage – 1/10/10

• Spanking, Caning, and Flogging – 1/24/10

• Gags/Masks; Tit Play & Genito-torture (including Abrasion & Bruising) – 2/7/10

• Rope Harnesses; Things That Pinch; Orchestrating the Scene (including Role Play and Fantasies) – 2/21/10

• Mummification; Round Table Discussion – 3/7/10

Thursday, December 31
TES-DSF-Paddles NYE Party – Gathering of the Tribes New Year’s Fetish Play Party & Arabian Slave Auction

Friday, January 1
Happy New Year!

Saturday,  January 2

Sunday,  January 3
MAsT Metro: “M/s mentoring: What it is and what it is not”
NYC TNG Meeting
New York Bondage Club

Monday,  January 4

Tuesday,  January 5
TES: ” What Do I Need Anyway? Relationship Negotiation from Ds to Poly” w/ Corey Alexander

Wednesday,  January 6
Pleasure Salon with guest host Lolita Wolf
TES Spanking group

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Thursday, December 24

Friday, December 25
Merry Christmas

Saturday, December 26

Sunday, December 27
NYC TNG Sunday Party Night
Suspension party
New York Bondage Club

Monday, December 28

Tuesday, December 29
TES: “An evening remembering and celebrating Jack McG”

Wednesday, December 30
TES-TNG” “Crazy Glue Invisible Bondage and Infibulations” w/ Dov

Chad Rock, Spencer Reed, Jason Miller and
Van Darkholme on boundgods.com

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Presence –  I wish that you would look at me now. I am willing you to look at me now, over her body, rocking with the motion of her mouth. But you do not.

Restraint – “Do you like what you see?” the blonde asks. “Are you excited by what’s before you?” the redhead enquires. He nods.

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Fucking for Art – The proximity of their nakedness and my scrutiny resulted in this beautiful agony of arousal for them both. I asked if they would feel comfortable doing some poses of vaginal penetration for me, and they readily agreed.

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The Naked Truth – He didn’t just write a pretty story we could act out, he worked hard to delicately lay us out on the page together, as we are.

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Femme Invisibility
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Baby Steps and Giant Leaps
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Erotic Writing

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The Tease
Cock. Confession #386
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Blinded and Bound
The Little Things…
lust
The Witness
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Giving and Receiving
Beasts in the Bathroom
Fixation: Touch
The Pussy Eating Challenge
An Oceans Release part 1
MFM: Etiquette
Office Party
Daydreams & Distractions Droit de Cuissage
Tant pis
Toys, toys, toys
Revenge (Pt. 1)
Gush
Claiming: Assume the Position
Painting

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Jack was a picky eater.  He didn’t eat a lot of veggies or fruits. He was a meat and potatoes kind of guy.

One weekend, I brought my girlfriend, O, with me to visit Jack. O is a pretty good cook.  I told her about Jack’s dietary preferences and she made us a fine meal of chicken and dumplings, something that Jack certainly would enjoy.

She set the table and served the food.  I took one bite and bellowed,”This is slop! Get me a cane.”

O dashed off to find a cane.  Jack sat and quietly ate his food while I waited. He did not look up.

When O returned, she handed me the cane and bent over the chair. I took a full stroke.  The cane swished through the air and landed on her butt cheeks. There was silence at the table.  I took another full swing and the cane landed again, an inch lower than the first.

I could sense that Jack was uncomfortable, but I ignored him.  I had to do what I had to do.  The cane landed four more times.  O’s butt was striped with red lines all in a row.  I stopped at six strokes.  I did not want dinner to get cold.

O and I sat back down and returned to eating our dinner.  Jack squirmed in his seat. In a small voice, he asked, “That was role play, wasn’t it?”

O and I laughed and assured him that it indeed was role play. Jack was visibly relieved and said, “Because this is really good food.”

I am on 44 Twitter lists that are named like this:

• bdsm   (2)
• sex-writers-and-educators
• hitachi-magic-wand-owners
• our-talent
• perverts
• amazons
• authors
• nyckinksters
• tribe
• wholedc-presenters
• do-peeps
• kinksters-fetishists-bdsm
• sexwriters
• r-rated-interesting-peeps
• lesbians
• adult-blog
• sex-info-groups-and-blogs
• darkodysseytwibe
• kinksters
• knowirl
• my-follow-Friday-recos
• nyc  (2)
• cinekink
• sex-toys-and-bloggery
• kinkyculture
• sex-educators
• colleagues
• awesome-people
• sb
• redheads
• kink
• educators
• sex-bloggers  (4)
• roperoperope
• darkodyssey
• all-lesbians-on-twitter
• other-kinksters

It’s interesting to see how people see me.  I have yet to make any lists on Twitter, but maybe I’ll have time before the end of the year.

Thursday, December 17
Staten Island Kink Munch

Friday, December 18
The Baroness‘ Annual Holiday Cocktail Party
DSF: “REPENT BDSM play Party!”
Lesbian Sex Mafia Women and Trans Holiday Social
Switch party

Saturday, December 19
Brooklyn Leather Munch
TES Spanking Group Seasons Beatings with Michael from Paddles
NYC TNG Saturday Party Night
TES Novice Excursion
TES Holiday Naughty & Nice Holiday Party
Spam party
Stimulate party

Sunday, December 20
Instigate NYC Giftsmas Social
Fixe Fetish Party
New York Bondage Club

Monday, December 21

Tuesday, December 22
TES: ” Flogging the Mind – The Art and Science of the Mind Fuck” with Sir Guy

Wednesday, December 23
TES Bondage SIG: “Make It Your Own” with Sebastian

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