Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

Thursday, May 13
Queens BDSM Munch
NYC TNG meeting
Impact party

Friday, May 14
DSF: “Make That welt: Straps, canes and implements that hurt” w/ Ted E.

Saturday, May 15
TES Spanking Group at Paddles: ‘‘Making Spanking Fun’’ w/ 007
TES Novice Excursion
TES: Gods and Goddesses: A Party of Mythological Proportions
SPAM

Sunday, May 16
fIXE Fetish Party

Monday, May 17

Tuesday, May 18
TES: “Hands On ? Caning and Clothespins’’

Wednesday, May 19
TES Switchables & Other Polymorphous Perverts SIG: ‘‘‘The Romance of Cold Steel’’ w/ Paul NyghtOwl & Mark

Seda, Hollie Stevens, Tommy Defendi
and Dana DeArmond on divinebitches.com

The G-String Tie by John Willie.

The Masocast website has a shiny new design.

An interview with Sully Walsh who is a fabulous metalworker.

Q posted a video of fabulous Mollena’s fantasy at IMsL.

If you enjoyed my reading at In The Flesh in March, check out my reading there from January 2008.

Barbara Nitke‘s Smooth Hotel show opened Monday night at 69 Gansevoort.  It was a little weird being in Florent’s old space but they remodeled it beautifully and the dinner afterward was pretty delicious.

Barbara and her models

Nayland reprising his scary role

The party overflowed onto the sidewalk.

A lot of my friends were there, including Glenda and Sarah.

Thursday, April 29

Friday, April 30
TES TNG: ‘‘Whip Practice Session’’
TES Through the Looking Glass: A Night in Wonderland party
Paradise Lost Party

Saturday, May 1
NYC TNG Munch
Rope Share Intermediate Skill Level to Advance w/ Erin Houndini
Pony Romp in Central Park

Sunday, May 2
MAsT Metro NY: “Non live-in M/s Relationships”

Monday, May 3
CV: “TBA”

Tuesday, May 4
TES: ‘Primal Play: Biting and Scratching’’ w/ Mistress Trish

Wednesday, May 5
Pleasure Salon
TES Bondage SIG: ‘‘Self Bondage’’ with Klawdya Rothschild

Kelly Divine and Luscious Lopez on everythingbutt.com

I am the Program Director for TESFest 2010 and I am so excited about the classes this year. What do you think?

Self Skills
– So You Want to Be a Slut?… Survival Tips on How to Do it Safely, Sanely, and Just Have Fun! – Aiden Fyre
– What is Queer?: Dissecting Sex, Gender and Orientation – Aiden Fyre
– They’re Sexy, I’m Not. How To Get Over It And Find You! – Coral
– Gender Transformation – Klawdya Rothschild
– The Greedy Pig Battles the Green-Eyed Monster – Lolita Wolf
– 7 Touchstones for Getting and Keeping Passionate Relationships Fostering & Establishing Leather Families – Lady Hilary and The Marine

Ouch
– Flogging 101 – If Boymeat Can Flog, So Can You! – Boymeat
– Spanking – Pat Baillie
– Advanced Caning – Coraline
– Massaging Masochists – Joshua HighTower
– Beginner Single Tail Whips – Master George
– Advanced Single Tail Whips – Master George
– Sufi-inspired strategies for pain processing – Rope Boi
– Yielding to Brutality: Punching and Kicking with Love – Lady Hilary and The Marine

Potpourri
– Electricity – Shockingly Affordable! – Boymeat
– Aural Sex: The Erotic Power of Music and Words – Coraline
– Feral Play – Joshua HighTower
– I’m a Barbie Girl: Doll fetishes and mindset – Ms. CherriesJubalie
– Cram Your Strawberries! Food Play from Nibbles to the Edge – Nayland
– Sade and Masoch: A History Lesson – Rope Boi

Edge
– Once a Month… Menstrual Play – Coral
– Straight to the Point: Erotic and Intense Play Piercing – Damon Pierce & Claire Adams
– Bloodsports 201 – Sharrin Spector
– Rituals in Blood – Sharrin Spector
– Embarrass, Humiliate Degrade, Objectify: Basics of Psychological Status Play – Nayland
– Fireplay 101 – Pairadox
– Fireplay 201 – Pairadox
– I Ask The Questions Here: Military Style Interrogations – Sir Guy

Rope
– Rope Bondage for Beginners – Lolita Wolf
– Breaking it Down : Symmetrical Ties (Part I) – Damon Pierce & Claire Adams
– Breaking it Down : Asymmetrical Ties (Part II) – Damon Pierce & Claire Adams
– Arm Binders – Leon von Monkey Fetish
– Fancy Simple Knots You Can Pervert for Fun and Profit – Dov
– Throwing away the Book: Techniques to Take Your Bondage to the Next Level – Leon von Monkey Fetish
– Partial Suspension – Dov
– Suspension – Klawdya Rothschild
– Dancing in the Ropes: Adding Dynamics to your Scene – Ms. CherriesJubalie

Sex & Love
– Intro to CBT – Helga
– Sounds and Catheterization – Helga
– Get Back Into the Love in Your Life – Morgan Lewis, HMQ
– Sacred Sex and Sacred Whoredom – Klawdya Rothschild
– Squirting 101 – Sammi Sui
– Anal 101 – Strap-on Jo
– Strap-ons 101 – Strap-on Jo

D/s & M/s
– Discovering Dominance: A Guide to the Dominant Beginner – Sir Guy
– Daddy as an Act of Service – Pat Baillie
– Master/slave Relations: A Corporate Approach – Robert Rubel (Dr. Bob)
– Using Protocols to Make Your Relationship Special – Robert Rubel (Dr. Bob)
– Components of a Submissive’s Psychology – Sea
– Languages of D/s – Sea
– Healthy Surrender – tomo
– Living the Life 24/7 – tomo

Thursday, April 22

Friday, April 23
DSF: “Let’s Get Sexy” BDSM play Party
Le Cercle des Dommes
NYC TNG Party Night

Saturday, April 24
Novice Rope Share w/ Delano and V.

Sunday, April 25
Instigate: “Bound on the Streets: Taking the scene into public, undercover “ w/ Yin
New York Bondage Club
NYC TNG Party Night
Suspension party

Monday, April 26
CV: “TBA” w/ Ben & Rachel

Tuesday, April 27
TES: “Foundations in Spanking with Margaret Davis”

Wednesday, April 28
TEC@TES: ‘‘Animal Roleplay Training Day’’

Mark Davis, Mr. Pete and Calico on sexandsubmission.com

I’m back from California and have added three new events to my calendar!

I’ll be teaching Caning for Lesbian Sex Mafia on May 21. Don’t let the name fool you. It’s not just for Lesbians and it’s not really the Mafia.

I will also be at Dark Odyssey Leather Retreat June 23-28 as well as Dark Odyssey Summer Camp September 15-20. I’ll be doing some fun special events. These are two of my favorite events because I love the freedom to play outdoors.

For a complete list of where I’ll be, see my Appearances page.

Thursday, April 15
Staten Island Kink Munch

Friday, April 16
DSF: “CBT: A thru Z” w/ Mz Suzanne SxySadist
Switch party
Fashionably Fetish Midnight Fetish Cruise

Saturday, April 17
Purple Passion: “Rope Bondage for Dommies – Level 1” w/ Tyutumi & Master Mike
Brooklyn Leather Munch
Phoenix Rising Potluck/Fundraiser
TES Spanking: Group Spanking: through a bottom’s perspective w/ Sammi Sui
TES Novice Excursion
TES Taxman Party
STIMULATE: “Angels vs Devils”
SPAM party

Sunday, April 18
New York Bondage Club
Fixe Fetish party

Monday, April 19
CV: “Becoming a Better Hypnosis Subject” w/ Ben & Rachel
Pleasure Chest: “Back Door Antics – All About Anal” w/ Midori

Tuesday, April 20
TES: “ Spring Potluck Social”
Pleasure Chest: “Rosy Cheeks: Spankings and more” w/ Midori

Wednesday, April 21
Babeland Brooklyn: “Aural Sex 1: Seduction by Voice” w/ Midori
TES Dominant Women/ sub men’s Group: “”Sensual Flogging”

Amber Rayne and Amai Liu on whippedass.com

Come to my class!

“The Greedy Pig Battles the Green-eyed Monster”

At Center for Sex & Culture
1519 Mission Street
San Francisco, CA

Thursday, April 15 — NOTE THE TIME: 6-7:30 pm
$12-25 sliding scale
Buy tickets at Brown Paper Tickets

Jealousy can destroy a poly relationship. Feelings of insecurity and fear of abandonment lead to toxic behaviors which in turn make relationships less intimate. We’ll look at strategies to discern what’s real and what’s perceived. And we’ll examine techniques that help combat jealousy with the security of love, structure and trust.