My past (pt 7)
August 28th, 2007 · No Comments
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Sugasm #94
August 28th, 2007 · No Comments

Lena Ramon gets spanked by Princess Kali on WhippedAss.com
The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #95? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.
This Week’s Picks
Fisted, first.
“And it was lovely, because the movements made by his fist inside me were so different to a cock.”
The Razor, the Tape and the Man
“He’s never known this lack of control, this unstoppable surge of orgasm, this wave of ecstasy soldiers crossing his territory.”
Sex Work And Religion: Monotone Man
“Religion comes up during calls more than I anticipated when I started doing sex work.”
Mr. Sugasm Himself
Masterlock Street Cuffs
Editor’s Choice
Watching my girl’s caning
See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.
Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Butch/Femme, Spanking and Team Gina, Oh My!
“If you jump into bed on a first date, it’s already over” and other Myths
Normal.
Or, When Fantasy Ruins Your Love Life
Sex in the possibly public square
The Storm Cone
When trust faltered…
Sex News & Reviews
Sex Blogger Cocktail Party In Toronto
Sex Toy Review: njoy Butt Plug
Wet vs. dry rub
BDSM & Fetish
The Blindfold
Dinner Party
Happy HNT – Subspace bondage
I’m Not Ready To Play Nice….
Manless
New Store!!! New Videos!!! New Look!!!
Posting tipsy
Social Kink Interviews Steve Diet Goedde
Trashy kisses
Weekend With CD Part I (Figging LFM)
Sex Poetry
Beauty mark
Mischief
NSFW Pics & Videos
Catalina loves To Take Pictures
Gabriella (Gallery Carre)
Jessica Beil Topless
A Reflective Half-Nekkid Thursday
Sandra Shine Nude
Valentina is a goldpiece
WebMistress Feature Gallery: Sultry Striptease
Sex & Politics
We Support the Human Rights Campaign
Erotic Writing and Experiences
Bubble Bath
Cadillac Confessions Vol. 1
Caught Between A Rock And A Hard On! – Part 1
Chatting
Every Six Seconds…#2
No reservations, part 2
Our holiday – part one
Party
Sexytime
Siesta
Sex from the Rooftops
Speaking of Porn Stars….
Sunshine On Naked Skin
That Makes Two
Wanking this weekend?
Warm Wet Velvet
We sleeping wake, and waking sleep
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Happy 10th Anniversary to NCSF!
August 27th, 2007 · No Comments
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
August 27, 2007 – NCSF proud to be the only group in the country
with a national mission committed to changing the political,
legal and social environment for those involved with the BDSM,
swinging and polyamory communities. NCSF’s six programs have
directly helped thousands of practitioners, businesses and
groups. Four of NCSF’s programs began with the founding of NCSF
in 1997: the Media Outreach Project, Media Updates, Incident
Response, and the Legal Advocacy program.
NCSF’s Incident Response team is directed by Leigha Fleming. Over
700 individuals, groups, attorneys, prosecutors, and businesses
contact NCSF for help every year because of persecution or
discrimination. NCSF assisted both International Mr. Leather and
Kink.com this year, continuing its decade-long practice of
fighting religious political extremists and performing outreach
to local communities and authorities.
NCSF’s Media Outreach Program provides sound bites and tactics
for anyone dealing with the media. Spokesperson Susan Wright
regularly gives media trainings and conducts over 60 interviews
every year, influencing the coverage of alternative sexuality
issues. The NCSF Media Updates, created by Keith Richie, feature
articles about BDSM, swinging and polyamory, and provides contact
information to write letters to the editor in order to influence
how editorial decisions are made in the future.
NCSF’s Legal Advocacy team is led by John Wirenius, with pro bono
lawyers researching current laws and creating Amicus Briefs to
submit to courts in cases involving obscenity
prosecutions, “consent is not a defense to assault”, and right to
freedom of assembly. NCSF’s Communications Decency Act lawsuit
with Barbara Nitke made history by challenging the Miller
standard of obscenity as it applies to the Internet.
NCSF took custody of their newest program, the Kink Aware
Professionals (KAP) free referral list, from Race Bannon in 2006.
Steve Bower is currently the director for the KAP program. NCSF
created a new KAP brochure and is actively recruiting additional
psychotherapeutic, medical, and legal professionals who are
knowledgeable about and sensitive to diverse expressions of
sexuality.
The Education Outreach Program (EOP) is run under the Institute
for 21st Century Relationships b The Foundation of NCSF. ITCR
supports the freedom of consenting adults to discover and to
practice the intimate relationship structure that best meets
their emotional and human needs. The EOP is designed to educate
law enforcement officials, and to educate constituents about the
risks of selective enforcement and how to minimize the risk of
becoming a target. NCSF has published a number of pieces of
literature for this program and has trained a team of individuals
from across the country to deliver 10 educational presentations
from “Traveling With Toys” to “How to Protect Your Event.”
Over the past decade, NCSF has formed valuable alliances with
other advocacy organizations to work on projects that defend
sexual freedom rights: Free Speech Coalition, the ACLU, American
Association of Sex Educators Councilors and Therapists, the
Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality, National Gay and
Lesbian Task Force, the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against
Defamation, and the Gay and Lesbian Activist Alliance, among
others.
Currently NCSF has 54 Coalition Partners who elect the board and
establish the yearly goals at the annual Coalition Partner
meeting. Coalition Partners are groups and businesses that serve
BDSM, swing and polyamory practitioners. NCSF also has over 100
Supporting Members b groups and businesses who actively support
NCSF – totaling tens of thousands of members. Aside from Office
Manager Levi Halberstadt, the staff of NCSF consists of dozens of
volunteers around the country.
Every dollar that is donated to NCSF and ITCR goes to directly
serving the alt sex communities. All donations to ITCR-NCSF are
tax deductible. In the past decade, alternative sexual expression
has become much more visible to the general public, bringing
about an increasing number of attacks. The success of this fight
depends on your support. You can become an individual member of
NCSF, volunteer to join the NCSF staff, make a donation to NCSF,
initiate or help out at a fund-raiser for NCSF, and encourage
your group to become a Coalition Partner of NCSF. Every step you
take helps us further the sexual freedom movement!
Check out the new and updated NCSF website at: www.ncsfreedom.org
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A joint Project of NCSF and ITCR: The Foundation of NCSF
The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom is a national
organization committed to creating a political, legal, and social
environment in the United States that advances equal rights of
consenting adults who practice forms of alternative sexual
expression. NCSF is primarily focused on the rights of consenting
adults in the SM-leather-fetish, swing, and polyamory
communities, who often face discrimination because of their
sexual expression.
National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
822 Guilford Avenue, Box 127
Baltimore, MD 21202-3707
410-539-4824
media@ncsfreedom.org
www.ncsfreedom.org
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I can has Homeland Security
August 24th, 2007 · No Comments
The best quote of the week: “Can you resend that to me? The dog peed on my computer and I lost all previous emails.“
I am off to Floating World! No internet or email for me until I get back Sunday night.
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Sex Toy Review: Lube
August 23rd, 2007 · 2 Comments
So, I like lube, but am not terribly picky about what kind. I usually grab whatever is around or whatever my partner likes. I prefer water-based lube because it is easy to clean up. When I do shop for lube, my brand of choice is ID Glide. It lasts a pretty long time without getting sticky. It doesn’t smell bad. And it’s nice and slippery.
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NYC Weekly Leather Dates – August 23-29
August 23rd, 2007 · No Comments
Thursday, August 23
All Fetish Play Party
Friday, August 24
DSF: “Rules & Protocols” w/ Master Paul & slave Monique
Saturday, August 25
Sunday, August 26
Monday, August 27
Tuesday, August 28
TES: “High and Low Protocols” w/ Flagg
Wednesday, August 29
TES Switchables Group: “Punching”
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Peeking through
August 22nd, 2007 · No Comments
A really great interview with Jim Ward on BoingBoing. Jim pierced me back in 1993.
And Susie Bright interviews Tristan Taormino about making instructional porn videos.
Apparently I have a large room at Floating World with a king size bed and a jacuzzi. I got no dates or commitments (except the classes I am teaching) and I am hoping to get lucky.
I am looking for a ride to Dark Odyssey or else someone to share the cost of a car rental with me.
And, because people have been asking me, I am voting for Bo, Guy, Mark, Michele and Sabrina in the TES elections.
My Harry Potter book is waiting for me at the library! Yay!
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My past (pt 6)
August 21st, 2007 · No Comments
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Sex and Money
August 21st, 2007 · No Comments
This was written in March 2006 about Dark Odyssey Summer Camp 2005.
Combining sex and money is taboo. Nice girls don’t use money for sex and they don’t trade sex for money. I am a nice girl, but being a pervert I am attracted to the ideas of doing it for money and of also paying for it. See? I am a true switch who likes it both ways.
Everyone started off the weekend with five 100 Kundalini Cash bills in their registration packets. I found ways to earn more money. On Friday night, I helped out with the Wheel of Destiny. This is where various play stations were set up – stations like spanking, kissing, rope bondage, sensory deprivation, etc. People lined up and the wheel was spun and the person had to go try out the activity at that station. I staffed the fire play station. As the people came by, I would do some fire play on them and they would earn a Kundalini Coin from me. But some people came by who had not spun and they wanted to try fire play anyway. I told these people that I would let them try it only if they paid me one Kundalini Coin. So, yup, I had this little side business going. At the end of the event, I was given a payment of a handful of coins from the organizer as well. So I made a pretty good haul on the first night.
M was in Oink cabin. I did not know her before camp, but Tristan knew her and suggested that I invite her into my cabin because Tristan thought I would be a good role model for her. She is only 21 years of age. I was nice to her and did not chickenhawk her because I figured that as a role model I should behave myself. But M approached me on Saturday afternoon. She wanted to be spanked and she had asked around at camp and all these people had told her that I was the best spanker. Nice to have that reputation. I told her that I would spank her, but she would have to pay for it. She was shocked that I was asking for Kundalini Cash and went off to think about that.
On Saturday night, I stepped in at the last minute to be stage manager of the talent show. We had over a dozen acts and I had to coordinate the talent and the music people and the emcee. This was a stressful job, but I was paid 1500 in Kundalini Cash. My girlfriend, Peggy O, had been one of the acts. She did a dance and stripping act. She was paid 500 Kundalini Cash. She grumbled to me how the dancers are always underpaid while the management makes more money. Oh well, that is the way it is on Broadway as well. I felt like a fat cat with lots of money.
We got back to the cabin and Peggy counted the money. We had 4300 Kundalini between us. We decided that she would be the accountant and I would be the business manager. We dressed sexy, grabbed our loot and headed up to the Garden of Carnal Delights.
The Garden of Carnal Delights was four rooms each decked out differently. The first room was the Make-Out Room. It was for kissing only. Peggy and I spent some time in there kissing. We do not normally do a lot of kissing with each other and we found this a fun activity and maybe we will even kiss more in the future. The next room was the Orgy Room where any kind of sex was okay. We did not do much here. Next, we toured the Objectification Room. Here, there were about eight or ten bodies which lay on beds and we could only see them from the waist down. The other half of their bodies were behind a curtain. Signs were posted over each of the bodies outlining what they liked and what their limits were. Except for fondling someone’s balls, we also did not do much here either.
We moved on to the fourth room, which was the Brothel. We had lots of money and we wanted to buy a whore or two to please us sexually. There were male and female whores selling themselves. We looked around and we both chose the same man. He was a young and beautiful transman – tall and slender with long blond hair. He sported a nice sized strap-on cock. We approached him. “How much for you to fuck?” He told us 200 for vaginal, 300 for anal. Well, he certainly was affordable! “OK, I want you to fuck my girlfriend and if I like what I see, I want you to fuck me, too.” His eyes lit up and he explained that he was owned and then showed us that the strap-on was locked on and that we were not to try to violate it by trying to get around it. “Don’t worry, we’re not interested in doing that.”
So, I paid the man 200 and he began to fuck my girlfriend. I watched a little bit, but got bored and wandered off. And I ran into M who still wanted a spanking from me. She had thought it over and was willing to pay me 300 for a spanking. We went into the Orgy Room and I took M over my lap and spanked her good. So, while I spent 200 to get my girlfriend fucked, I was out earning 300 for a spanking. Hee hee!
After the spanking, I went back to the Brothel and the transman and my girlfriend were just ending. I tipped him an extra 100 because he did such a good job and I told him that I wanted to be fucked by him, too. He needed a shower and a break, so we agreed to wait 20 minutes.
After 20 minutes, we went back to the Brothel and there he was. We started fucking and it felt so good when his cock slipped inside of me. After a while, we changed position and went doggy style which is my favorite position. I had a little bullet vibrator with me which I used on my clit. I came, but we kept fucking. I handed him the bullet and said, “Stick this up my ass and I’ll give you an extra 100.” It went in fast and easy. It felt so good having both holes filled. When we were done, I tipped him another 200. He was happy to get the money, because he thought his Master would be pleased.
I am definitely looking forward to the next Dark Odyssey Summer Camp and I hope that there will be more ways to earn money and spend it, too!
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Sugasm #93
August 21st, 2007 · 3 Comments

Sonya and her slave on Waterbondage.com
The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #94? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.
This Week’s Picks
Between Baths
“His tongue licks along the edge of my thong and then slips underneath, and then he pulls the material aside so he can get to me.”
Fantasy Vs. Reality: What Is Cheating?
“Paid escort work is fantasy; dating me is reality.”
How To Set Up an MFM Threesome
“You’d be surprised how many guys will say they can’t wait to bed her down, then chicken out or not show up after you’ve shelled out money for a hotel room.”
Mr. Sugasm Himself
Neal Mather Fetish Figurenes
Editor’s Choice
Need a hand?
See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.
(Sugasm participants should re-post all the links above. The following links may be excluded as long as you include all the above links.)
Erotic Writing and Experiences
And the answer is
Christening The Bed
Episode One
Sally & Bill
Stop
Sex Audio & Podcasts
Almost Perfect
Nobilis Erotica 30-Woman of the Mountain
NSFW Pics & Videos
Bree olsen episode 1
Catalina loves Guest HNT Posts!
Georgi (I Shot Myself)
Half-Nekkid at the BBQ
I Feel Myself
Photo of the Moment: Curvy Girls
Sexy DJane Jesse Capelli
Sexy showgirl upskirt pinup photo
Tits for the Troops #5
Sex Work
Breakdown Of A Quickie
Objectify Me
BDSM & Fetish
Calling All film slaves in the New York/New Jersey area!!!
Friday night
Fucked to bits
Happy HNT – A switching in the old abandoned cabin
Let’s give the boy a hand! – Part Two of Text Message Mayhem
An Ode to Bondage
Playing with Morgan
Showerland
Social Kink Interviews The Knotty Boys (Shibari, Bondage)
Sweet Possession
Trembling, redux
Sex News & Reviews
Aneros Progasm Prostate Massager Review
Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Did you have sex?
Half-Nekkid and Openly Bisexual
Keeping Secrets
Love Sick
Mirror, Mirror
More On Cougars – Older Men, Younger Women, Mistresses and Married Men
Playing with my Barbie
Skanky Panties & The Business of Faux Fish Juices
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