Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

I trained the dominatrix in this play how to crack a whip. Click on the photo for information on the show.

Q. What are good bondage-for-sex positions to tie up a man for classic penis/vagina sex? I mean apart from the spread eagle.

A. Tie him to a chair! Like this:

March is Question Month. You can ask your question here.

The TES Bondage SIG
presents
S/M at the Movies: Knotty Cinema and Unrestrained Restraints!

Thor Stockman returns with a new installment of his popular S/M AT THE MOVIES film clips programs, this one featuring the best (and worst) of bondage scenes and situations in Hollywood and foreign cinema, ranging from highly proficient and erotic Japanese-style bondage to tie-downs Thor classifies as “bondage my grandmother could get out of.”  Come see some familiar favorites as well as new discoveries!  Special prizes will be awarded for those who come dressed and restrained from their favorite movie bondage scene, as well as those who sit through the entire film clips program in bondage!

Wednesday, March 23
Doors open at 7:30, meeting starts at 8pm
TES, 260 West 36th Street, 3rd Floor, NYC
$4 TES Members, Students, and other Leather/fetish organizations, $8 Non-Members

Q.  What level of unsolicited physical contact are you comfortable with?

A.  My close friends and I usually hug and/or kiss hello and good-bye and that’s good. Beyond that, we usually ask if its okay to touch. Although sometimes we get flirty and more physical. This works because we can read each other.

Other than from my friends, most unsolicited physical contact feels invasive. Sometimes I don’t even really want to shake hands with people.

March is Question Month. You can ask your question here.

Fleshbot.com and PuckerUp.com
invite you to celebrate the release of

ROUGH SEX 3: ADRIANNA’S DANGEROUS MIND

Tuesday, March 22, 7-10 pm
Fontana’s, 105 Eldridge Street, NYC
Free and Open to All

Celebrate the release of this much-anticipated film which represents a collaboration like no other—between feminist pornographer Tristan Taormino and adult superstar Adrianna Nicole. Adrianna picked her co-stars and the scenarios based on her real fantasies; the film she imagined gives viewers an unprecedented look at her explosive sexuality. See what’s inside Adrianna’s dangerous mind…

• Meet Adrianna Nicole, co-stars Jiz Lee and Danny Wylde, director Tristan Taormino and other special guests
• Complimentary Original Sin Hard Cider from 7-8 pm
• Sip on signature cocktails “The Eleven” and “Pure Plug” all evening, inspired by Adrianna’s favorite toys from Njoy
• Get your free poster signed by the stars
• See a sneak preview of the film
• Purchase the DVD and be entered for a chance to win an Njoy Eleven ($300 retail value)
• Plus: fabulous sexy gift bags for first 150 people
• And: it’s Adrianna’s birthday, so there will be some surprises!

Sponsored by Fleshbot ~ Good Vibrations ~ Njoy ~ Astroglide ~ Vivid Entertainment ~ Fun Factory USA ~ The Smitten Kitten ~ Sliquid ~ Hot Movies for Her ~ Original Sin Hard Cider ~ Paradise Marketing ~ Tied Up Events ~ Pleasure Salon

Q.  What is the best way to store lots of dildos and vibrators of various sizes in limited space? I am trying to figure out if there is a sort of card catalogue thingie so I can put them all in a drawer? Help! 🙂

A.  First of all, go through your collection and decide if you need all of them. Definitely get rid of any smelly jelly toys. Many of these contain phthalates which are dangerous. You want a “quality not quantity” collection.

I like to keep my clean dildos in separate baggies. It seems that all my dildos act like dust magnets and it is best to bag them. One baggie per toy is a good idea also because some toys tend to melt together or stain each other. I make sure that the toy is completely dry before putting it in the baggie. I like that baggies are clear so I can easily identify what is in each bag.

I also put my vibrators in baggies. If they use batteries and I don’t use the toy regularly, I take the batteries out. Batteries that are not used for a while leak and ruin toys. I always have extra fresh batteries stored in my refrigerator. If a vibe is rechargeable, then I store it together with its recharger. Remember to recharge it before you want to use it. I have been caught in a sling with a dead vibe and that’s not fun – well, it just not as fun as it could have been.

I keep my favorite most often used sex toys in or on a night table by my bed. The rest I keep in a dresser drawer that has some Drawer Dividers
to make it a bit easier to sort. I do not keep them in one of those sex toy storage cases. That is too unwieldy for me. I do have  a small one that I love, but I only use it to pack toys for a play party.

If you don’t like the idea of a dresser drawer, shoe storage solutions like a Ten-Pocket Canvas Hanging Shoe Bag or an Underbed Shoe Organizer might work for you.

Of course if you have kids, lock them all away in a big cedar chest. Hey!  I meant the toys, not the kids!

March is Question Month. You can ask your question here.

Thursday March 17 at Purple Passion
Interrogations & Military Scenes

Friday March 18 at Lesbian Sex Mafia
Hands-On Rope Body Harness Workshop

Saturday thru Sunday March 18-20
Rope Dojo – sold out but there is a waiting list

Tonight at 7pm, Wednesday March 2, is the Cinekink season opener which features the 74 minute movie, Kink Crusaders, a profile of the IML contest weekend. It is preceded by the world premiere of the 24 minute short, Behind The Scene, which profiles me and Lady D!

In a first-time flogging, Lolita Wolf and Lady D. demonstrate the heat, power, humor and tenderness that can co-exist within a single BDSM scene.

I am very excited to be on the big screen at Cinekink.  I hope to see you at the World Premiere!

(Behind the Scene is an excerpt from the 3.5 hour educational DVD, The Details of Flogging, which combines classroom instruction, behind the scenes commentary (from both the top & bottom perspective) & HOT sample scenes.)

March is Question Month. Feel free to ask anything you might want to know and I will endeavor to answer. Reply to this post. I am screening the questions so nobody but me will see who asked what. You can also ask anonymously.

The ingredients for my big birthday orgasm:

• Medium Njoy Pure Plug – $69.95
• Black Dragon Latex Gloves – $20.00
• Sliquid Organics Natural – $13.00
• Acuvibe HT-1220 Mini Vibrator – $34.95
• My lover’s fingers and hands – Priceless