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March is Question Month

March 2nd, 2011 · 4 Comments

March is Question Month. Feel free to ask anything you might want to know and I will endeavor to answer. Reply to this post. I am screening the questions so nobody but me will see who asked what. You can also ask anonymously.

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  • 1 Question Month: #1 // Mar 8, 2011 at 10:03 pm

    […] March is Question Month. You can ask your question here. […]

  • 2 StrangeLove // Mar 15, 2011 at 8:34 am

    What are good bondage-for-sex positions to tie up a man for classic penis/vagina sex? I mean apart from the spreadeagle.

  • 3 grail76 // Mar 26, 2011 at 7:28 am

    When a man walks across a room and gets your attention, what part of him are you likely to be looking at?

  • 4 Lady Alzara // Mar 29, 2011 at 12:56 pm


    Recently, I’ve had an issue come up at a private play party. So maybe it’s two questions.

    A Top was playing with a bottom with a violet wand. The Top had electrified the bottom so that touching the bottom created an arc. The scene was intrupted when a bystander steped forward and kissed the bottom on the forehead. The scene was stopped, the bottom complained of an immediate headache and her face was twitching. To date there do not seem to be any lasting obvious effects. Can you tell me if this could have been a potentially life threating situtation?

    In addition, the bystander could not be ejected from the location, because she was tanked and 70 miles from home. This was a non drinking event, but it seems she was sneaking alcohol into the house in water bottles. As hostess, I feel this was My fault because it was My birthday and I wasn’t on guard. I realized late in the evening that she was drinking but by that point it was too late. Our community is very small and I will see her again soon. I’m pissed off but trying hard to maintain some level of decorum. What action is approiate in this situtation?
    At this point I’ve read her the riot act about drinking at My party and interrupting the scene. She didn’t seem to think that part was a big deal. But stated she didn’t want Me to be mad at her. I’m beyond mad and wanna thrash her. But I’m trying to be rational about the whole thing.
    Thanks in advance for your help.

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