Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Entries Tagged as 'BDSM'

Just Play

November 23rd, 2011 · No Comments

This weekend, I’ll be at Just Play, an event designed to bring women and transfolks together to play and socialize and learn from each other. The event takes place at Play House Studios in Baltimore, MD. You must rsvp to Glenda for the address. Friday night is open play from 9pm to 2am plus an […]

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Tags: BDSM · events · Find Lolita · Spanking · travel

My International Little Miss Littles Step Down Speech

November 5th, 2011 · No Comments

I know that the Littles Contest was conceived as a parody, just for fun. And it is fun. And I entered to have fun with it. In my 20+ years in the scene, I had never run for a title before, but this contest just called out to me. It was so perfect for me. […]

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Tags: Activism & Politics · BDSM

The Ultimate Guide to Kink

October 18th, 2011 · 1 Comment

The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge I have a chapter in this book! It’s Chapter Two and it covers Spanking, Caning and Flogging! The list of contributing authors to this book reads like a Who’s Who of BDSM: Patrick Califia, Midori, Laura Antoniou, Barbara Carrellas, Lee Harrington, Jack Rinella, […]

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Tags: BDSM · Books

Bare Stories – My First Time

October 9th, 2011 · 2 Comments

Monday October 10th is the first installment of Bare Stories, which showcases people telling stories of sex, desire and romance. The topic is First Times. This will also be my first time on stage as a story teller! So please come out and hear me tell my story. Get details at Bare Stories.

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Tags: Art & Culture · BDSM · Find Lolita · Sex

Death By Bondage

July 19th, 2011 · No Comments

Before I found the Scene, the only place I really heard about bondage was in the newspapers when somebody died. I was strangely attracted to the bondage, but conversely, I was repelled by the death. I yearned for the hoods and the handcuffs, but I figured nice girls don’t do these things, and that if […]

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Tags: BDSM · Bondage

Rope Camp

July 13th, 2011 · No Comments

This August 3-7 I’ll be teaching at Rope Camp, a new outdoor event held in Northern Maryland. The line up of presenters is really incredible. I’ve been offered a $50 discount on the full event price for all my friends. To take advantage of this amazing deal all you have to do is enter this […]

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Tags: BDSM · Bondage · events · Find Lolita

More Adventures in Chastity

June 21st, 2011 · No Comments

It was a week before we were going to leave for Dark Odyssey Fusion. I called Don Quixote to discuss bedding and stuff. And then I sprung it on him, “I think you should be in the chastity device.” There was a pause. “Really? Now? Until Fusion?” He was incredulous. “Yes!” He began to explain […]

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Tags: BDSM

On stage at Folsom Street East 2011

June 21st, 2011 · 1 Comment

  I am having so much fun being a titleholder.

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Tags: Event Reviews

At Folsom Street East 2011

June 19th, 2011 · No Comments

Screwed up and left my camera at home so not many photos this year. Here’s a cell phone shot of my sexy Daddy. It was a hot sunny day and it seemed everybody was at the fair. This year was different for me because I got introduced on stage with the other titleholders. That was […]

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Tags: Event Reviews · friends · NYC

Maymay’s BDSM Presenter Bingo

June 8th, 2011 · No Comments

    Ever go to a BDSM class and wince when the presenter says or does certain things? I’ve seen it often. Now you can print out a Bingo board and play along.  With the ingenious random board generator, you can print out a bunch of different cards to play Bingo with your friends.

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Tags: BDSM