Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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My Trip to CLAW

April 30th, 2009 · No Comments

Last weekend I went to CLAW.  That’s an acronym for Cleveland Leather Awareness Weekend.  The weekend is open to everyone but attracts mainly gay men.  Even though there is no contest at CLAW, titleholders come from all over.  This is the big pre-IML event for them to shop and network.  The event also attracts a […]

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Tags: Event Reviews · travel

Cousins in pigtails

April 22nd, 2009 · 14 Comments

The only thing my Daddy likes better than playing with his little girl is playing with two little girls. So Daddy was very happy when my cousin came over to play. The first thing we did was fix our hair. My cousin has beautiful black long hair like a Cherokee princess. We both put our […]

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Tags: BDSM · Scene Report

THE NYboL Boy Auction

April 19th, 2009 · No Comments

On Saturday night, the NY Boys of Leather hosted their annual boy auction at The Stonewall Inn..  Over $1600 was raised to benefit Safer + Saner and Callen-Lourde.  It was also a lot of fun. Kwame was the auctioneer. Kevin offered his services as a latex polisher and closet organizer. Scott offered to bake a cake […]

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I’ll be at NYboL tonight!

April 18th, 2009 · No Comments

I’m an Associate Member of the New York boys of Leather and  I’ll be helping out at the NYboL Boy Auction tonight.  Stop by for a drink and say hi.  There’s no door charge.

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Tags: BDSM · NYC

Ball Weight and Suspension

April 7th, 2009 · No Comments

Last Sunday, Don Quixote hosted a gathering at his place.  Underneath his clothes, he wore the new Stainless Steel Ball Weight for me.  On the way there, I told DQ’s best friend that he would be wearing the Ball Weight. When we arrived, DQ slipped me the key, which officially ceded control to me.  As […]

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Question #8

March 31st, 2009 · No Comments

Do you only teach at events? Would you be interested in doing any private lessons? I have been doing private lessons. Most of it is bondage, but also various other things. Most of my clients are couples who are rather private and don’t want to go to meetings and events to learn. I really enjoy […]

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Question #7

March 30th, 2009 · No Comments

Do you have a “single most favorite” thing to do as a top? How about as a bottom? If not, why? One thing? Just one thing? I can’t just pick one thing. Like most questions, the answer is “It depends.” It depends on my mood and it depends on with whom I am playing. My […]

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A Big Bug in a Cocoon

March 27th, 2009 · No Comments

I taught a four hour Mummification intensive on Friday at IMsL and this is one of the works of art that the class did together.  It was a lot of fun!

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Tags: BDSM · Bondage · Event Reviews

I met Van Darkholme!

March 26th, 2009 · 2 Comments

Derek Pain and Van Darkholme on boundgods.com I think Van Darkholme rocks.  He is the director of BoundGods.com and has a wonderful book called Male Bondage.  I was so excited to meet him at IMsL.  He was very sweet to me when I had my crazy fan girl moment.

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Tags: BDSM · Bondage · Porn

IMsL 2009

March 25th, 2009 · No Comments

Lamalani, International Ms. Leather 2009 First Runner-up Sarah Sloane and Mina De Sade-Fatale Pony, International Ms. Bootblack 2009 slave tabitha and x-ina I had a wonderful weekend.  I took some photos of the contest, but, for me the weekend centered around time with family and friends.  It was very good that the jellybean was there, […]

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Tags: BDSM · Event Reviews