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As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Entries from January 2011

Manual Dexterity

January 29th, 2011 · No Comments

It was a Sunday, I locked Don Quixote into the chastity device. We would not see each other again until Friday. He didn’t complain. He knew that I had the right to control him in that way. He did, however, mention that he had a date. One of those kinds of dates. A date for […]

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Tags: BDSM · Relationships · Scene Report

Deflowering Debate

January 13th, 2011 · No Comments

The internet is abuzz with a discussion about the porn star who is “losing her virginity” in a shoot at There’s a great post on Maggie Mayhem‘s blog with a response from Peter Acworth himself.

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Tags: Sex

In a Box

January 7th, 2011 · No Comments

I am totally fascinated by the Ballz Gag from The Stockroom. This looks like it would be a lot of fun on either side. My New Year’s resolution is that I strive to check Facebook almost every day. Last year I mostly ignored Facebook and I missed a lot of stuff that was critical. Apparently […]

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Tags: Links and Stuff

Midori’s NYC Rope Dojo

January 7th, 2011 · No Comments

The next Rope Bondage Dojo ® weekend intensive will be March 19 – 20, 2011 in New York City at The LGBT Center. Online registration opens Tuesday, February 1st, 8am Eastern Time. Info & Registration:  RopeDojo Space Limited: 30 students Cost: $375 /singles, $650/pair Prerequisite: Willingness for serious learning. Must be able to tie your […]

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Tags: BDSM · Bondage · events · NYC

Marriage does not equal Romance

January 5th, 2011 · 3 Comments

So, I just read Man Attempts to Restore Romance to NYC With Blog Admitting Interest in Marriage. Ya know, marriage is not the ticket to romance. Sure, getting married is romantic. Oh, the engagement! Oh, the wedding! Oh, the big white wedding dress! Oh, finding “the one!” Being together forever and ever. Dreaming of what […]

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Tags: friends

Leo’s Queer/Leather NYC Happy Hour

January 3rd, 2011 · No Comments

Leo of The Pretty Boi Diaries organized a Queer/Leather happy hour at the NY Eagle last week. It was a fun night out at the leather bar.

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Tags: friends