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Entries from July 2009

A Message from Purple Passion

July 23rd, 2009 · No Comments

Hilton and his shop, Purple Passion, have been huge supporters of the community and business is really rough now.  He may have to close!  Please support them! Unfortunately, things are not great business-wise, so we are asking for your help. We’ve been very supportive of the community for many years and need to ask for […]

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Tags: friends

BDSM Toy Review: Scott Paul Humiliator Gag

July 16th, 2009 · 20 Comments

At Dark Odyssey Leather Retreat, I told Don Quixote that he should be available to me on Saturday night. I dressed up in the new girdle he bought for me and then used some pink nylon rope to fashion a strap-on harness for my big brown cock. I had learned the rope skills from Lee […]

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Tags: BDSM · Toy Reviews

Thanks to my Blog Sponsors

July 16th, 2009 · No Comments

Since many of the readers of Lolita Wolf’s Predictions & Predilections get my posts through LJ, a feed reader or via email subscription, I would like to thank this month’s sponsors in a post: IPG Counseling Purple Passion/DV8 SexToy.com Kink-Ready Apt For Sale Sex Toys from Bondara Sex Toys Kiss If you’re interested in sponsoring […]

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Tags: Uncategorized

NYC Weekly Leather Dates: July 16-22

July 16th, 2009 · No Comments

Jade Marxxx, Cherry Torn and Maestro on thetrainingofo.com Thursday, July 16 Staten Island Kink Munch Friday, July 17 LSM: “Direction, Discipline & Service: The Heart of a Master/slave Relationship” w/slave marsha DSF: “Creative Torture Devices” w/ Master Mike Switch party Saturday, July 18 Brooklyn Leather Munch TES Spanking Group: “What Is It Like To Be […]

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Tags: NYC Weekly Leather Dates

Sugasm #169

July 14th, 2009 · No Comments

Jack Hammer and Bobbi Starr on meninpain.com The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #170? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. This Week’s Picks Clothespin Communion “Surrender to the sensation.” […]

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Tags: Sugasm

Best laid practices

July 14th, 2009 · No Comments

Do you like hot butch, masculine, androgynous, genderqueer, transmasculine, studs, AGs, dykes, and queers? I do! Betty Bowers Explains Traditional Marriage to Everyone Else. The Village Voice has a Folsom Street East slide show. The DC boys of Leather have started a new web site which explores the unique complexities of identity in the BDSM/Leather […]

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Tags: Links and Stuff

NYC Weekly Leather Dates: July 9-15

July 9th, 2009 · 1 Comment

Persia Pele, Mark Davis and Sabrina Fox on sexandsubmission.com Thursday, July 9 Queens BDSM Munch Suspension Party Friday, July 10 ClubFEM NYC Munch DSF: “Rope Bondage for Beginners” w/ Master Vito Saturday, July 11 Afternoon Delight DSF: “Basic Chest Harness and Hogtie workshop” ” w/ Master Vito Sunday, July 12 MAsT Metro NY: Maturing M/s […]

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Tags: NYC Weekly Leather Dates

Happy 4th of July!

July 4th, 2009 · No Comments

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Tags: Really Miscellaneous

Find Lolita – July 2009 and beyond

July 2nd, 2009 · No Comments

Nicotine and Claire Adams on WhippedAss.com July 2-5 – Piscataway, NJ TES Fest: coordinating the Celebrity Auction and teaching 3 classes, dealing black, signing books and on a blogger panel Whew! July 17-19 – Denver, CO Thunder In The Mountains: teaching Decorative Bloodsports, The Dynamics of Co-Topping and Metal Bondage. August 21-24 – Edison, NJ […]

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Tags: Find Lolita

Late

July 2nd, 2009 · No Comments

I dunno. Is the moon in the seventh house or something? There are some weird goings-on in my life. I have been contacted by not just one, but two, exes (no, not that one and not the other one either). Both of these exes dumped my ass over 10 years ago and then wouldn’t talk […]

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Tags: Relationships