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Entries from January 2009

Dirty stuff

January 20th, 2009 · No Comments

This was debated over the weekend. What’s your opinion? <a href =”http://answers.polldaddy.com/poll/1291007/” >Which is dirtier?</a> <br/> <span style=”font-size:9px;” mce_style=”font-size:9px;”> (<a href =”http://www.polldaddy.com”> polls</a>)</span>

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Tags: Really Miscellaneous

A rant about my evening at the TES Queer SIG

January 18th, 2009 · 2 Comments

I was happy to see the Queer SIG back at TES, this time at the able hands of Nayland and Liz. The first meeting was devoted to the topic of the meaning of the word Queer and various other labels. It started with a panel and ended with a lively discussion in circle. The group […]

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Tags: Event Reviews · Really Miscellaneous

Peggy wins the gold!

January 16th, 2009 · No Comments

Our cruise ship was really amazing. It had three swimming pools, seven hot tubs, a 9-hole mini-golf course, a skating track, a jogging track, a basketball court and a climbing wall. Peggy entered a speed climbing competition and I took some video:

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Tags: friends · travel

Let’s see what happens when I push this button

January 15th, 2009 · 1 Comment

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Tags: Art & Culture

It’s a lot like life

January 14th, 2009 · No Comments

Do you want to go to a play party during MAL? Glenda is hosting a Women’s/Trans Play Party at The Crucible on Saturday night.  Men of Discipline will be hosting a Men’s Play Party on Friday night . Both at The Crucible.   Maybe drop in to the GearBlast party also on Friday night. Sixteen washers […]

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Tags: Links and Stuff

Kinsey Sicks

January 14th, 2009 · No Comments

I love the Kinsey Sicks!  We went to see them Sunday night.  I’ve seen them four times now and have all five of their albums.

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Tags: Art & Culture · NYC

Gorge revisited

January 14th, 2009 · No Comments

I first saw Gorge as a video at the In and Out show at PS 1 a couple of years ago. On Friday night, Nayland Blake restaged Gorge at Location One in NYC, but this time with audience participation and it was as much about the audience members than anything else. The piece was an […]

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Tags: Art & Culture · NYC

Things I Loathe #7 (in no apparent order)

January 13th, 2009 · 2 Comments

I hate the crunch of salt under my boots when I walk around NYC.  What is with all the salt?  At the first hint of snow, people are out there spreading salt in huge quantities on the sidewalks.  Salt is supposed to be for helping to break up packed ice.  It is not a substitute […]

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Tags: NYC

Sugasm #156

January 12th, 2009 · No Comments

Park Wiley and Diesel Washington on boundgods.com The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #157? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing directly to radicalvixenatgmaildotcom This Week’s Picks Mouth Music “Can you […]

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Tags: Sugasm

Sitting on top of the world

January 12th, 2009 · No Comments

Daddy Derrick and Son Chris in the prime spot at The Ramrod A well-laid out leather bar has a good flow. That means you can walk around in a circuit-like manner to see and be seen. The Ramrod with its outdoor patio has a good flow. The other thing a well-laid out leather bar has […]

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Tags: friends