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Entries from October 2008

The big dodge

October 30th, 2008 · 25 Comments

It was Thursday night at Dark Odyssey and we were hanging out on the porch of Oink. We had just finished the second and final part of a ritual scene where a boy had earned a pair of leather gloves. It was a perfect night. Momma Bear had gone into the cabin and had just […]

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Tags: BDSM · Event Reviews · Spanking

Just looking

October 30th, 2008 · No Comments

Funding has been cut for the Ali Forney Center, which has been a Leather Pride night beneficiary a couple of times. Their entire budget is only $600,000. The Guardian has a fascinating series: Sex Uncovered. To encourage your involvement in the democratic process, Babeland has a “Get Out the Vote Special Giveaway.” Stop by any […]

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Tags: Links and Stuff

Sugasm #151

October 30th, 2008 · No Comments

Sabrina Fox and Aiden Starr on thetrainingofo.com The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #152? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing directly to radicalvixenatgmaildotcom This Week’s Picks Help, My Friend Says […]

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Tags: Sugasm

NYC Weekly Leather Dates: Oct 30-Nov 5

October 30th, 2008 · No Comments

Beverly Hills and Berlin on Chanta’s Bitches Thursday, October 30 Friday, October 31 TES Nightmare Menagerie Halloween Party w/ Antonia & Goddess Coko The SMack! Zombie Fetish Ball Paradise Lost party Saturday, November 1 DSF: Darkside Halloween Fetish Ball Sunday, November 2 LSM Safety & Orientation for Pledge Members MAsT Metro NY: “How to maintain […]

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Tags: NYC Weekly Leather Dates

I’m single

October 29th, 2008 · No Comments

Vendetta and Claire Adams on wiredpussy.com I sat with a group of people and mentioned that I was single. “Awwwwww….,” said a pal of mine. It was said in a way to imply that being single was to be pitied. Like it was a bad thing. Like, who would want to be single? Like, don’t […]

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Tags: Relationships

I’m a spanking expert!

October 29th, 2008 · 2 Comments

Look! My name is on the December cover of Variations Magazine. And there’s more of me inside! Six pages! It’s the 30th Anniversary issue. On newsstands now!

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Tags: BDSM · Find Lolita · Spanking

Oooh, shiny!

October 28th, 2008 · No Comments

I was a burner virgin until I went to Decom, a regional Burning Man party. Thanks to ek and tower for helping to pop my cherry.

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Tags: NYC

Just two things

October 28th, 2008 · 1 Comment

Australian researchers have identified a significant link between a gene involved in testosterone action and male-to-female transsexualism. DNA analysis from 112 male-to-female transsexual volunteers showed they were more likely to have a longer version of the androgen receptor gene. Buy one of Tony Comstock’s DVDs today (October 28) and he will donate the full amount […]

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Tags: Links and Stuff

The green tea is very spiritual

October 27th, 2008 · No Comments

Kathryn and I did lunch today at Bon Appetite’s Supper Club and Cafe. Go there for lunch, but Friday is the last day. Delicious!

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Tags: NYC

On the water in Chicago

October 25th, 2008 · No Comments

AJ and I went on a 90 minute boat ride where we toured the architecture of Chicago and then took a high speed ride on Lake Michigan. At the turn of the century, because the Chicago River was so polluted, they installed locks and reversed the direction of the river! Lake Point Tower You’re not […]

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Tags: Really Miscellaneous