Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

Beverly Hills and James Deen on sexandsubmission.com The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #144? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. This Week’s Picks Anti-Porn Protest Gets Weird “People get […]

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I was walking down 23rd Street the other day and saw this box attached to a tree. It was garbage that had been collected from the tree well on two previous dates and then mounted in a butterfly specimen display box. As we walked down the block we saw that every tree had a box […]

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Nika Noire and Hollie Stevens on chantasbitches.com Paddles, the BDSM club in NYC, has been opening on Wednesday for the past few months. For various reasons, I hadn’t been on a Wednesday. However, last Wednesday, I was given an opportunity to play with two really cool women. I met up with them there. There were […]

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Madeline Glass gets interviewed by Rachel Kramer Bussel and she says a lot of nice things about me! Hooray! Dildos remain legal in Texas, for now. Slydial is a solution for when you have to call, but don’t want to talk. Pierce/Ink has their new website up. You can see my pretty cutting if you […]

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An important member of the sex-positive community urgently needs our help. Jefferson—blogger, educator, and friend to so many of us—is at this moment fighting a court battle with his ex-wife, who is seeking full custody of their three children. Jefferson’s love for his children has been well-documented on his blog One Life, Take Two for […]

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One of the concepts I teach in some of my classes is that people are too quick to slap a label on a relationship. I think many people are goal-oriented and eager to define what role a person should play in their lives. Often they decide that someone they recently hit it off with would […]

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I love Cheetos! Especially the puffy kind. Oooh! A spanking on the television show, Weeds. I want to go to the Whitney to see Robert Mapplethorpe’s polaroids. I’m anti-marriage and anti-romance. Mostly. But I thought this was really cool. A music video from Athens Boys Choir – fer real tho, I got a dildo.

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Tober Brandt and Chet Walker on BoundGods.com Van Darkholme’s new site is now live.  Hot stuff!

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International Mr. Leather 2008: Gary Iriza, Mr. Palm Springs Leather 2008 1st Runner-up: Bob Firth-Tessier, M. Cuir Montreal 2008 2nd Runner-up: Scott Melton, Mr. Ramrod 2007 International Mr. Bootblack 2008: Bootdog, of the Alameda County Leather Corps The contest is the centerpiece of IML weekend, but I’d rather tell you a story from afterwards. Thor […]

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Sabrina Sweet, Cj and Steve Holmes on sexandsubmission August 2 – Philadelphia, PA Black Phoenix August 15-17 – Edison, NJ Floating World: teaching Hot Wax to the Max, The Greedy Pig Loves Threesomes, and That Will Shut ‘Em Up! August 29 – NYC TES-TNG: teaching “It’s Amazing What You Can Find” September 10-15 – Maryland […]

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