Lolita Wolf’s Predictions & Predilections

Thu May 31 - Sun Jun 3 “TES Presents: The NYC Fetish Marathon”
Thursday, May 31
Friday, June 1DSF: Tantric Massage & Expanded Orgasm w/ Anton of SexySpirits NYC MunchMistress Didi’s Classic Fetish Party
Saturday, June 2SMack! 11-year anniversary NY Renegades monthly social/meeting [...]

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As an educator, people ask me stuff all the time. Like, “How long can I keep someone tied up?” The answer to this and to 80% of all other question is “It depends.”
Don Quixote was tied face down and spread eagle on the bed. His balls were stretched down [...]

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Jefferson and I sat on the number 7 train. We had lots to talk about and every story led to another story.
“A friend wrote to me and his Mistress wants him to get fucked by a man, but he doesn’t know where to go for that. Of course, he thought [...]

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Thursday, May 24
Friday, May 25DSF: Memorial Day Social Military Playnight
Saturday, May 26TES “Introductory Flogging Workshop” with Domina MTruck Stop Leather/Trucker Night 10pm at The Dugout. $5 CoverPaddles Munch 8pm at Moonstruck Diner
Sunday, May 27
Monday, May 28
Tuesday, May 29TES: “Tops Discussion Forum” Cinekink: Torture Garden TGX [...]

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I’ve just made a new addition to my blogroll. Mimi is a New York Jew who writes a blog called “sexagenarian and the city” and I think her adventures in dating are a hoot. Here’s an excerpt:

“If I have to go through another year of internet dating (please no!), I’ll know enough [...]

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I spent a wonderful weekend up in Boston. Julia has an overwhelming collection of rope bondage books. I was intrigued by a book by Garth Knight. A lot of my earlier work was going down this path. Julia, Boymeat and Peggy will all remember some of my first [...]

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Thursday, May 17 Leather Town Hall Community Meeting Staten Island Kink munch
Friday, May 18LSM: Flogging with Red NYC Applemunch DSF: “Abductions and Interrogation” with Mistress Clarissa and Submissive Ophelia
Saturday, May 19TES Spanking Group: “Play vs. Punishment”TES Novice Excursion hosted by Lady D & BoTES “Heaven & Hell Party” hosted by [...]

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I’ve been on a watermelon kick. But schlepping a 30 pound watermelon up a six floor walkup was not a brilliant idea.

Received chocolate covered gummy bears from Rita. These are my favorite! You can find them at Toys ‘R Us in Times Square.

Maybe I do like [...]

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On Saturday, there were nine of us that went to see “Exposed: Experiments in Love, Sex, Death and Art” with Annie Sprinkle and Elizabeth Stephens. This show was performed at Collective: Unconscious in TriBeCa. This is a very déjà vu space for me because it used to be the Harmony, [...]

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Lolita Wolf is in the house!
When: 2-5 pm, Saturday May 19th
Where: Location: 39 Hurlbut Street, Cambridge
Cost: $5 cover, free to NELA associates
RSVP to mailto:RSVP@NELAonline.org

How To Be A Greedy Pig: Strategies For Poly Success
Just like monogamy, polyamory is a valid lifestyle choice.
But unlike monogamy, almost nobody learns how to be
successfully poly [...]

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