Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

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Entries from March 2007

Atreyu

March 23rd, 2007 · No Comments

Atreyu was in town to visit Don Quixote. We were both aware of each other’s relationship with DQ and we had met once at a party a few months ago. DQ suggested that we try a threesome and Atreyu and I both agreed to give it a go. We began in the living room and […]

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NYC Leather Dates – March 22-28

March 21st, 2007 · 2 Comments

The weekly leather calendar is back! Thursday March 22 Kinky Jews: An Evening of Jewish Lit-Erotica Friday March 23DSF Advanced Genitalia Torture with Mistress Nona Saturday March 24Testosterone Book Signing w/ Joe Oppedisano 1-4pm at Rainbows & TrianglesTES New Bondage Basics with Quick Ties Workshop with RopeMark Convoy 9pm at StonewallRITES XXVIII: The Black Party […]

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David and the Lady Waldens

March 20th, 2007 · No Comments

David Weinbaum was a mentor to me and he was my very first Leather Mommy. He was a gay leatherman who liked to crossdress and I got to do my little girl thing and we had a hoot together. We met at GMSMA Leatherfest 20th Anniversary when he did a Steel Bondage Exploratoium. I liked […]

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The Golden Age of the NYC Scene

March 20th, 2007 · 2 Comments

When I got into the scene in the late 80’s, people were reminiscing about the Golden Age when you could go to an SM every night of the week, that there were so many clubs like Le Scene, Club O, Club DeSade, Chateau 19, Paddles and Hellfire. When I got to the scene there was […]

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For a friend

March 15th, 2007 · No Comments

How to Get Hurt Hope my hindsight is your foresight.

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Snowball

March 14th, 2007 · No Comments

Maintaining a positive outlook is about reality. I step back and look at the big picture. And then I can separate and rank stuff. And when I look at it all, I realize there is a lot more to be happy about. Some people get hung up on the petty things. I walk away from […]

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Why I am having more sex these days

March 11th, 2007 · No Comments

At one time in my life I did a lot of casual sex, pick up sex. This was before I got into SM. I was exploring and searching for something, but I did not know what. All that casual sex got a bit boring after a while. And I wasn’t finding what I needed. I […]

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A memory of Boymeat

March 5th, 2007 · 1 Comment

Boymeat and I attended the first Master/slave Conference in July 2004 in DC at the Marriott Residence Inn Thomas Circle. Attendance was much larger than anticipated and workshop space was limited. Master Taino came up with the idea of doing some smaller classes in actual standard hotel rooms. He wanted these classes to be SM […]

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Bi Apple Release Party Review

March 5th, 2007 · No Comments

The release party for The Bi Apple was packed. I quickly found Audacia Ray and went to congratulate her. She smiled, happy to see me. “Be sure to pick up a copy of the DVD. Simone Valentino is signing them.” I glanced over at the beautiful Simone and told Dacia, “No, I want you to […]

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Inspiration

March 2nd, 2007 · 1 Comment

Right now, I am inspired by this picture. I want to chain up a blond bitch who is wearing Daisy Dukes. I totally got a thing for really short cut-off denim shorts. Jefferson has already agreed to wear Daisy Dukes for me at the next Dark Odyssey Summer Camp and he’s blond and I’m going […]

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