Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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IML Highlights

June 3rd, 2008 · No Comments

Boymeat had highlights put in his hair for IML. To which a het friend said, “How gay!” And to which a gay friend said, “How straight!” Proving once again, that… what does this prove? … oh, yeah, right, something about Boymeat’s bisexuality. Whatever! So, my point, aside from posting another gratuitous photo of Boymeat, is […]

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Spanky Spanky!

March 5th, 2008 · No Comments

Here’s my cutting after 8 days of healing. This was the second time it was cut.This is definitely a work in progress. A story in Time Out about Jefferson and his double life. For Boymeat: Swipebutt. First Magnolia and S’Mac, and now, Shake Shack is opening on the Upper West Side. I have never eaten […]

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‘No’ is a complete sentence!

December 2nd, 2007 · No Comments

When we went to Lucky Cheng’s, part of the fun and games was watching the homophobic men try to deal with the various barbs thrown their way. Kirby Ferguson has a guide to Protecting and Maintaining Your Heterosexual House of Cards. Rascal and Jefferson are in Barbara Nitke’s photo of the week. Got a package […]

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How about that lapdance?

November 22nd, 2007 · 1 Comment

And now, you can see for your very own eyes exactly what is so amazing about Jefferson. Art by Lynsey Abby Ehman interviews Bella Vendetta, whose Modified Eros show is up at Arena. My play piercing class is next Wednesday at Arena… With many Broadway shows dark because of the strike, area restaurants have had […]

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Straight Boy Gets Fucked in the Ass

October 31st, 2007 · 9 Comments

Prologue I used to play a lot with Adam. He was a TES member and a very adventurous player. That was years ago until he moved out West. Now, he’s been back on the East coast for a while and I run into him occasionally. Recently, I got an email from him. He explained that […]

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This post has nothing to do with Columbus Day

October 8th, 2007 · 2 Comments

Midori and Kumi I should get a bunch of these for Easter spanking games at Frolicon. Jefferson discusses the law against sex toys in his home state of Alabama. Pee and poop! Pa, pa, pants man! Jefferson’s got a new blog called Smut Turntable where he spins cool tunes and tell stories. And, yes, he […]

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Boy Toy

September 23rd, 2007 · 3 Comments

So, I have this fetish. Maybe fetish is the wrong word for it. But there’s this thing that really gets me turned on. It’s denim. Especially Daisy Dukes. Little denim cut-offs that are so short that you can see a guy’s balls peeking out through the frayed ends. I like them on girls, too, but […]

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Back to the Garden of Carnal Delights

September 20th, 2007 · 1 Comment

Saturday night at Dark Odyssey is always a highlight for me. I began my evening at the Perverts Saloon cocktail party and then walked over to the Cigars & Chocolate Party. This used to be a little private gathering under a tree, but it has now become an official DO event at the Pavilion. It […]

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Collage of Porn

September 6th, 2007 · No Comments

Bush 2007 by Jonathen Yeo Viviane’s Sex Carnival won Sex Blog of the Year at the Erotic Awards in London! Viviane is my Blog Mommy and I am a contributor to her blog. I know there are a lot of blog awards out there. Anybody can slap up a jpg of an award and hand […]

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Going to the car-wash

September 5th, 2007 · No Comments

New York Boys of Leather I love love love Mac & Cheese! Gridskipper talks about The Best Macaroni & Cheese in NYC. I’ve tried some but not all. And some of my favorites are not on the list (Tea & Sympathy, Good Enough to Eat). Distance is my answer to drama. However, I do appreciate […]

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