Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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David and the Lady Waldens

March 20th, 2007 · No Comments

David Weinbaum was a mentor to me and he was my very first Leather Mommy. He was a gay leatherman who liked to crossdress and I got to do my little girl thing and we had a hoot together. We met at GMSMA Leatherfest 20th Anniversary when he did a Steel Bondage Exploratoium. I liked […]

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The Golden Age of the NYC Scene

March 20th, 2007 · 2 Comments

When I got into the scene in the late 80’s, people were reminiscing about the Golden Age when you could go to an SM every night of the week, that there were so many clubs like Le Scene, Club O, Club DeSade, Chateau 19, Paddles and Hellfire. When I got to the scene there was […]

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Find Lolita – February 2007 and beyond

February 1st, 2007 · No Comments

Feb 9 – Poughkeepsie, NY Hudson Valley D/s: teaching “Building Trust” Mar 16-18 – Chicago, IL Sinsations in Leather: teaching “Age Play for Consenting Adults” and “That’ll Shut Them Up!” April 5-8 – San Francisco, CA International Ms Leather: teaching “How To Play With Needles, participation on the Age Play panel, hosting a session in […]

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SSC vs RACK

January 13th, 2007 · No Comments

Gee, I hate this squabble and will not waste my breath or my typing to discuss it. It’s just ridiculous already. If you aren’t familiar with this tired old debate, just look here or type it into Google for a variety of links. A while back, a titleholder sat down with me. We went through […]

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Find Lolita – January 2007 and beyond

January 8th, 2007 · No Comments

January 10 – NYC TES Novice SIG: teaching “How To Be A Greedy Pig – the 101 version” January 23 – Washington, DC Black Rose: teaching “King Tut’s Kink – Mummification!” January 27 – NYC Master And slaves Together (MAsT) Bar Night at 9th Ave Saloon. I’ll be selling raffle tickets. January 30 – Farmingdale, […]

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Santa and The Good Kids

December 24th, 2006 · 1 Comment

Boymeat and I were co-topping a girl in the dungeon at BR2006. We were happy and playing together nicely. This girl was happy getting the shit caned out of her. The Dungeon Monitors were happy that we were not breaking the rules or doing anything crazy. Everything was just perfect. Well, out of the corner […]

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Too happy to be hip

December 16th, 2006 · 3 Comments

Spent an evening with Michele Serchuk, DeLano and Seraphin. Dinner at Mooncake (a lobster sandwich for me) and then some fabulous creepy puppetry theater – The Fortune Teller by Erik Sanko. As we entered the theater, I looked at the ticket taker and it was Andy. “You’re Andy!” He looked at me, “Is it you?” […]

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Lolita Claus

December 13th, 2006 · No Comments

The KISSmas Elf was looking at my cock. I could see the hunger in his eyes. “You want to suck Santa’s cock, don’t you?” He nodded, but I could see his hesitation and I knew what that hesitation was. “You need to ask permission, don’t you? “Yes.” “Go ask.” I watched him wend his way […]

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Tick tock!

December 8th, 2006 · No Comments

I have a date tonight with Don Quixote and the only thing I can think about all day is how I want to tie him up and fuck him.

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Life-support system

November 30th, 2006 · 1 Comment

Time: Late Friday night Place: The social area at Just Play Her opening line was not a hello. It was, “Is that all you do?” The room got a little quiet. As if people could tell that this was the conversation they wanted to overhear. “Huh?” “Single tail. Is that all you can do?” I […]

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